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[–]gt35r 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Should have responded playfully, "oh was I supposed to wait, I guess I should pause this episode." Or say "shit I finished the season already but if you bring that sexy little ass over here we can watch it together."
Biggest thing is not letting it affect you, love and dating is supposed to be fun.
[–]opper-hombre1 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Everything about this situation, ignore it.
In a few days, text her something like “hey I’m going to start the new season today, come over and watch it with me?”
Act like none of that happened
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Excellent advice
[–]Czekraft 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Life's too short for that bullshit. Some girl I thought was a friend in college wanted to meet up. I said okay. When the time comes, she tells me she's not feeling well and couldn't come. I said no problem, we can reschedule, feel better. She then says "I knew you didn't want to hang out with me." I was going through a lot at the time so I wasn't in the mood for mind games. I let her see herself as the energy vampire bitch that she was and said have a nice life.
Doesn't really matter if you "passed." If someone doesn't want to see you anymore because you couldn't understand their bad joke, that's more about them then it is you.
[–]norwegiandoggo -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Shit test? No. You got upset because you didn't understand what she meant and then you took it personally, as if she was playing games with you to hurt your feelings. The only thing you displayed to her is that you're insecure and hypersensitive to anything that might be construed as some kind of rejection. Result: Your insecurity is making her lose interest.
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[–]norwegiandoggo -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Okay..let's say she's playing games. Why do you get upset about it? And why are you posting about it on a seduction subreddit asking if it's a "shit test"? Clearly you are way too emotionally invested in this girl who is just playing you. She's just having fun, and you're taking it all serious and "calling her out" for it, ruining her fun.
[–]dopam1ne_ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I guess you actually just opened my eyes right there about one thing.
[–]labyrinthlilith -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like a miscommunication. Maybe she was hinting for you to suggest a specific day or time to watch the show with her?
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