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[–]Subject-Craft5870 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You’re first date is at your place, inside not going out? That might be why there’s no 2nd date…. Who wants to be introduced to you at your place for a make out session and not go or doing anything and then the next date is the same thing? Sounds kind of lame if you’re asking. get outside and go somewhere ! Even for a walk
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[–]Subject-Craft5870 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh well you didn’t say it was so cold out.
Dating arctic circle style. Hmmmmmm I’m fresh out of ideas
[–]nikgos 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you coming off too thirsty? You gotta pull back from time to time and make her want some more physicality instead of getting all the physicality she wants and then more.
Another thing that could be happening is that the whole thing is really physical and you got her turned on in that moment but there isn't any deep connection and once those emotions pass there isn't much she could hold on to.
Also here is a small hack you can try. Schedule the second date while you're still on the first date while her emotions are pretty high. Find out when she's roughly free and then suggest something.
Also, give her some space. People naturally want what is hard to obtain. A lot of guys will start messaging a girl right after a date about how good of a time they've had and how they wanna see her again asking when she's free again and all that crap. A better thing would be like I said to set up the next date while on the current date while emotions are high and say that you had a great time at the end of the date. Now it's already implied that you wanna see her again if you've already planned another date and also looking someone in the eyes and saying "I had a really good time" hits much harder than sending the same text. Then don't text for a few days and usually, she'll be the one texting you,
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