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| 1 | [deleted by user]Do not continue the conversation until the date! Make the date. Specific time/specific place then go back to your mission/job, work, fitness, hobbies etc. Try to leave some sense mystery about you and avoid endless conversation - you’ll just end up talking her out of the date before you even go. Sure you can send a meme or a joke here and there but overall, limit the communication significantly . | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 02:35 AM |
| 6 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?No no no no no no no no no!!!!!! You should not be thinking about getting married right now! NO! Date a lot of different women and get to know them and have a few long term relationships before you start talking marriage…. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 01:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you make conversation more fun?Have you set up a date with the one that reaches out to you? (If you want to date her)? Ask her on a specific date for a specific date and a specific time and see if she says yes! If she’s like F Yea I want to go out, then you know she’s interested. If she makes up some lame excuse then her interest is low and you move on. Stop just chatting with chicks endlessly. Talk to them and if you have interest or you think they do, then ask them out on a date. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you make conversation more fun?Well that’s different. First of all, when talking to a woman, it’s your job as the guy to be engaging her in conversation. Keep the details and talk about yourself to a minimum. Be interested in her. If a woman is getting bored, long term they will let you know by not reaching out to see you, to talk to you or more immediately turning away from you to talk to someone else etc | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 12:19 PM |
| 2 | How do you make conversation more fun?Find new women. No seriously. If you’re with a woman talking to her and you’re getting bored, it’s time to find some new women to talk to! | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | How to unequivocally signal I do NOT want to be talked to?Wear a sign around your neck rapper style like a clock or a dollar sign but instead it says “ f$&! off don’t talk to me!” But I’d still probably ask if you wanted to make out and just not talk. Lolololo | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You ask her out on a date for a specific day and a specific time (evening only). Meet her at a bar for a drink, then walk to another bar for a drink and appetizers, then maybe to a place for live music, etc. Do a few fun things in one evening but quick things. An hour at each place…… Do not text her long nonsense texts, asking her how she’s doing. Just ask her out, plan a date, and go and see how it goes. Have fun with it! | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?I don’t think so. You know what - blocking her or unfollowing her makes it look like she pi$$d you off. Instead, I would just mute her posts and story so that you can ignore her and move on for good. But don’t you dare ever text her or comment to her or on a post again. She’s rude and obviously has zero interest in you, so move on. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 08:41 AM |
| 5 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?F that biatch! Are you kidding!??? Don’t you dare ever waste another minute on a piece of trash that won’t answer your texts. She’s done. You’re done! Delete her contact info and never reach out to her again! Have some self respect! Go out and find a new woman that answers you when you chat with her | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 12:43 AM |
| 0 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?No it’s not. You never tell | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 06:22 AM |
| 1 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?That’s fine, but I still wouldn’t tell you ever. Telling you - even if it’s just one - opens up a whole bother can of crazy….. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 07:53 PM |
| 27 | [deleted by user]If you got stood up, your next step was to introduce your self to 5 other women prospects at the bar that night and to move on! | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:08 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Prequalify your dates better up front to assess how flakey they are in advance. But in the end - getting stood up tells you that person is of low quality and low interest anyways and they just saved you a ton of time for future wasted dates. Move on and don’t ever agree to date or go out with that person again. They are trash | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:07 PM |
| 6 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?Wrong. Never tell - simply say “I don’t kiss and tell.” | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?Another acceptable answer is “I’m a virgin” and the wink and smile at her! But never answer that directly | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 06:10 AM |
| 2 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?You say “ I don’t kiss and tell”. And then you drop it and you never ever ever ever ever never answer or ask that question! Nothing good will be gained from asking or answering that question! | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 06:08 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Lolol. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:25 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]That was a shit test my friend and you let it get to you. I’m 5’10” and would love to be a few inches taller. After all, what do women call a guy who’s under 6 feet? Their friend lolololololololololol | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 11:06 PM |
| 2 | How to find out a girls sexual orientationWho cares. Ask her on a date. She’ll say yes or no. Quit complicating things. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 07:16 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]When you’re with a girl that you like, try to imagine seggs with her as something you really like? Like cake for example? Do you like cake? Perhaps if you meet a girl you like, bring some funfetti cake or funfetti icing with you on the date and if things start to get more physical , and starts leading to seggs, you can pull out your can of icing and tell her you want to make it more “fun”fetti and start spreading it out on her. Then start nibbling and kissing on her and enjoy the cake or icing a… | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Dating is always summarised to looks, no matter whatDating is NOT always looks. Especially for women. Women will date ugly men for money, if their funny, personality, etc. men are visual. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Greta job! Rejection is awesome practice! Keep at it! Go to the clubs everytime and try to get rejected 100 times. Learn from it! Proud of you for trying so much DO NOT GIVE UP!!! | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Bad social skills ruined my life 😞They didn’t ruin your life you’re only 25. Guess who also had horrific social skills? Marilyn Monroe. Look at what hard work, practice and form did for her career before she passed. There are millions of people out there who are overcoming difficulties in the social skills , aptitude for certain skills, want to get better? practice! Practice with everyone, say hi to ever single person out there man, woman, child, make fun of your awkwardness…. That’s what half the cast on snl do every weekend! T… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 10:14 PM |
| -1 | Girl flakes but asks to meet the next dayI don’t like it but I would give her one more opportunity to meet and if she EVER flakes again I would delete her number and never talk with her again | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I love a woman that takes care of herself and dresses up nice / sexy in and out of the bedroom. If you’re wearing pajamas to bed, pajamas to college classes, pajamas to work, well meh | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:21 PM |
| -2 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?No!!!!!! That is a huge turn off! Do not text her! Remain a little mysterious | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:11 AM |
| 3 | How do men like to have sex initiated?I love when a woman mixes up a bowl of jello, places it in a mould around her arm, drizzles Hershey’s syrup and sprinkles all over her other arm and serves up a bucket of extra crispy KFC and white claw! Nothing turns me on more than that!!!!! Woot woot!!!! | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Why do guy friends stop talking to you after you reject them?Because you’re not friends you’re potential dates… and if you reject them, then they are no longer interested. Normal human behavior. You want a friend? talk to chicks. Sounds like the only mistake he made was waiting for 2 years to ask you out, but if I asked you out and you said no, I wouldn’t be interested in being friends anymore either | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Tinder is a MASSIVE waste of timeAnyone here complaining about this guy doesn’t get it…. He’s right. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that only old women check me out?That’s awesome! Dude! Older women are amazing. “Usually” not as crazy (unless Ozarks), lol. And they’re usually more stable and experienced and more thoughtful about just about everything. Start hittin that aged cheddar! | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked?Very very carefully - you work together. Not always the best idea | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | She said i talk too muchF her. Ditch her and move on. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:22 AM |
| 2 | She's telling me shes interested yet taking long to answer and seems to be ignoring me?Attention and validation. Woman use Instagram and dating apps and social media to get validation everyday. Watch her actions, not her words | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | She's telling me shes interested yet taking long to answer and seems to be ignoring me?Match and mirror. Ask her on a date for a specific time and day. Then wait. Do not reach out every again until she answers you. If she never answers you, you never text back. And you can assume her interest is very low. Also. Aside from spending some time to get to know her in the phone you should be using the phone to just set up a date and get off the phone after that. Save topics to discuss on the date. If you ask a woman out on a date and her response is not an F YES! I’d love to!, you can a… | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 06:56 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]Slow down. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Slow down | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 07:32 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Most 30 year old milfs I dated as a 20 year old wanted one thing. Close mouth, open pants, Bring condoms and ride the rainbow! Enjoy grasshopper | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:20 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]No. I am going to disagree with you on this. I will agree that common sense IS dying. But these days, you could have a girl f you for any number of reasons….. not just because she likes you…. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Std scareDude! Are you insane! Are you crazy? You ate out a hooker? You ate out a hooker’s ass? Oh my god! Bro if you have a doctor, make an appt asap and go and be honest with your doctor and let them run a million tests on you, and hope to god it’s nothing or curable with penicillin…. Good luck… you’re gonna need it | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfStop looking for long term relationships…. Just go out and find women to have good times with at this phase of your life. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]A woman can never be more clear and direct with you and so few ever are. So if you’re into it -reply yes and go join her! Have fun! | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:53 PM |
| 60 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?You never ask a woman if she has a boyfriend. You simply do not care. You ask her on a date. That’s it. Don’t care if she has 1 boyfriend or 1000 boyfriends, if you want her to go on a date with you, ask her out. Edit …. If she has a boyfriend and she’s committed to him, she will casually mention her significant other … but you don’t care anyways… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Clapped! Lol. Gold! | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?There was this gorgeous girl (Jane - not real name) (always well dressed and prissy) that I was totally into in my senior year of high school. She was a year younger than me and I asked her out and she acted all arrogant and turned me down rudely. 5 years passed and some coworkers grabbed me and dragged me into some country and western bar I’d never been……all of a sudden, there was this girl, that I had asked out, walking up and standing in front of me, asking me what I wanted to drink? At first… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 02:39 PM |
| 0 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?Lol. Exactly what you said and did is 100% perfect! I would have done the same except laughed in her face hysterically too | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 02:22 PM |
| -1 | Got played by the classic 'going to the toilet' move.Every day! | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Got played by the classic 'going to the toilet' move.Next time, buy a girl and drink, then walk awAy and tell her to have a good night and go hang with your buddies or work the room for other prospects.. If she’s into you, she’ll find you | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.Lolololol. Sorry buddy! The universe put you in shape to please the Biggins! Now get to work! Mama hungry and she lookin at you! | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:51 PM |
| 23 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.Big girls gotta get it on too my man! They figure you’re in shape and up to the task. They would kill any regular, little girlie man! | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]There’s only one question to ask while texting…. When are you free, let’s go out on a date. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Dude. Go back to the comment that reminds you she’s 23. Don’t expect maturity and communication. Expect fun and seggs | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 03:30 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]She’s drunk. Having fun. Doesn’t want to have to intro you later to friends, admit to her friends that you were a drunk hook up multiple time stand | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | How do I lose my virginity to a milf or an experienced woman?Get tinder. Put your age range high. Tell everyone you’re a virgin and looking for a hot milf to teach you. You will get 1000s of matches | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 2 | When a woman you meet on a dating app ends up canceling a date/hookup whatever. It could usually mean because she found someone else more interesting than you but….Well no, that would never occur to me…., I mean, no one is better than me… heh | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 07:32 AM |
| 2 | When a woman you meet on a dating app ends up canceling a date/hookup whatever. It could usually mean because she found someone else more interesting than you but….Change your thinking! What you got is a gift of her flaking on you now, and not much later…. That way, you can move on immediately and not waste another second on that dingbat, and find someone better. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 06:54 AM |
| 5 | Co-workers yay or nayI ALWAYS SAY NAY! Too many issues. Then I married her! Lol | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:33 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Oh my god! DUDE! If you haven’t t kissed this girl, or held her hand , you havent been dating. The next time you see her - you take her by the hand and hold it and take her for a nice walk…. And if it feels right, lean in and kiss her. Just count to 3 and hold her hand. Don’t make a big deal about it. Just do it…. Same thing for a kiss. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching a woman by faking disabilities?This is the creepiest, most bizarre whacko Jacko freak think to do ever. Quit acting like a weirdo and act like a human. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 05:38 AM |
| 3 | What to say to a girl at the gym? Or should I even?No actually of you keep staring at her without saying anything you will creep her out. Say hi | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Riddle me thisYou don’t seem too interested if that’s how you feel | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Riddle me thisShe might still be, but you can’t rush it. See if she reaches out again. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | What to say to a girl at the gym? Or should I even?Just walk by and say Hi how’s you’re workout going! Then go focus on you. If she is interested she will come back | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Riddle me thisDon’t do anything. Don’t reach out to her, nothing. This chick is a little off . But she’s into you, so don’t text her , ignore her for a bit and she will come right back | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:27 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Kit sounds like you need to get some medical things under control . Go see a doctor or doctors. You’re 22 and depressed all the time and take multiple naps a day? You need to resolve those issues | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:03 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Stop texting everyday. Phone should be used to setup dates to see her in person. Then get off the phone and go be an interesting man . Hobbies, skills, work, gym, friends , other pursuits etc | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 07:55 AM |
| 15 | Don't be angry at online datingYup. Agree 💯. Many women admit they even use online dating apps simply for validation with no intent of ever dating anyone on the app | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 02:23 AM |
| 108 | This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.Ok fair enough question. You’re not dating this girl, and you’ve only been chatting with her. But you’re interested and perhaps want to date her. And maybe she will want to date you too. But She has millions of followers , so you know already that you’re getting a lot bigger “dating” experience with her than with a normal person. What I would think about it is - if I were in That situation, I would be reserved in my comments to her in the beginning, because you know (you already see) there’s a c… | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 06:32 PM |
| 405 | This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.You should not react to it at all. Nothing. Don’t say anything. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 06:11 PM |
| 8 | Tips on asking out a cute waitress?How many times, how many numbers do you think that cute waitress gets a day or a week? Probably a lot. Remember she’s also trying to do her job. So. If you go there a lot, try to start by simply saying hello to her and get to know her. That would be a first step | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 06:12 PM |
| 45 | [deleted by user]Um maybe you find some new women? I mean, if you’re into all that, great, but do you want to be called “vanilla”. Or get into slapping, choking and spitting on women? Personally, I’ll take vanilla as a compliment | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Multiple women have told me that they no longer want to see me anymore because they're worried things are getting too serious. What am I doing wrong?Who’s pushing for the serios relationships? You or them? | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 03:29 AM |
| 5 | Everything's great except sexWait, are you actually dating this girl? Have you kissed her? Does she kiss you back? How long have you been dating? Or are you just friends? If a woman is attracted to you, most will have sex by the 3rd or 4th date. ———- Otherwise, Yes this chick sounds like she put you in friend zone and she doesn’t consider you a dating prospect, just a bff. You should back waaaaaay off of your interactions with her, take things much much slower, cut out all the sex joke nonsense and assess where you really a… | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Feeling weird going out aloneTakes years of experience. But seriously. I’m not joking. You want to combat social anxiety - force yourself out into the crowds on your own! | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Feeling weird going out aloneYou want to get rid of social anxiety? Go to a club a few times alone and then experience that. It’s a nerve wracking anxiety inducing situation, but after you do it a few times. You level up! | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Men that were absolutely terrified of rejection. How did you overcome it?Embrace rejection everyday! Learn to love rejection! Go for it! Ask for every date, every raise. Every opportunity regardless of the outcome!!!!! | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Approaching multiple girls at onceOf you go straight for the hottest one - she will reject you out of feeling bad for her friends. Her friends in the rest of the group will reject you because they will feel slighted that you didn’t approach any of them first. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 11:05 PM |
| 5 | Approaching multiple girls at onceThis is all about herd mentality and game theory. Talk to them all, but if there’s one in particular you may ask for her number, but don’t just approach one and don’t hit on the hottest girl. But talk and joke with all of them | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | I honestly dont know what Im doing wrong...about to give upI think that’s your mistake. Meeting women in your hobbies is a natural way to meet people who share similar interests that you can talk about. I think your should reassess that | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:26 AM |
| 3 | I honestly dont know what Im doing wrong...about to give upDon’t give up! Don’t ever give up. Get on you tube and start watching all the relationship guy videos… see if your doing anything wrong. Check your wardrobe. What are your hobbies. Try to meet women irl in your hobbies. Don’t ever give up! | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Tinder makes you less of a manYes agreed. Dating apps give almost all the power to the women but also are simpler based on looks alone for initial attraction. Would rather meet someone in person | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | If a girl your talking to never wants to link, is she then just using you for attention/validation?Are you on dating apps and talking to them? Give us more details. How are you talking to them? | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 06:32 AM |
| 5 | If a girl your talking to never wants to link, is she then just using you for attention/validation?What does link mean? What does sneaky link mean? | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Went out with a girl once, ended with a hug, we continue texting, tried planning more dates but something always comes up?The proper thing to say after the FIRST time a woman does this to you is - hey let me know when you’re schedule frees up and let’s go out then. And then, You don’t text them back ever, unless you hear from her first. But in this case, this girl has flaked on you so much that you should not ever text this girl back. Ever. She has such low interest that she’s just jerking you around. A woman who’s interested will plan a date with you- and keep it and not flake. She’s non stop flaking on you. Eithe… | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 07:24 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]I would not text her back at all. You just asked her out on a date for a specific place and time and she hasn’t responded. 2 points about this… you’ve asked her out and she hasn’t responded. You do NOT assume the date is on. You need a response from her. She could be busy and hasn’t had a chance to respond. But my guess is she’s not interested. I’ll bet if you were some multimillionaire A list movie star her ass would have picked up the phone and typed out a quick response of “yes sounds awesome… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 02:52 AM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]Refurbish one room at a time . Keep a a couple of rooms clean and usable and date closer to home. Or get another place in the city too | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 01:06 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]WAIT HOLD UP - this is already weird… Chicks rarely want to bring a guy back to their place for a whole host of reasons. Why can’t you bring her back to your place? You’re 39. You should have a place. Keep it clean, bathroom clean, bedroom clean…. Ask a woman back to your place. Get a place. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What everyone else said. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 10:31 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Duuuuuuuuuuuude. Seriously. Take a deep breath, walk away for a while and don’t reach out to her. My god! Let things settle out from the first date for a few days before you reach out again. Give it a rest for a few days and then text to schedule a date with her for a week or 2 out. Don’t be so overeager. She has a busy life just like you….. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:19 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Try to stop constantly texting her and tone that down…. Use the phone for setting dates only to see her in person …..you have probably been talking to her way too much. She obviously has high interest. Try to tone down the texts. Set dates and see her in person where she can get to know you. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Going to my first date ever tomorrowThere you go again blowing it waaaaay out of proportion….. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Going to my first date ever tomorrowOh man. Why do people take it to the infinity degree. I didn’t say job interview the poor girl I said talk to her and make her the focus point. I’ll bet you’re the kind of person that just wants to talk about themselves all the time. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Going to my first date ever tomorrowHave fun!!! | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 09:19 PM |
| 8 | Going to my first date ever tomorrowAwesome! That’s what you should be doing. The one piece of advice I would give you is to talk to her and ask her a million questions. Get her taking about herself so you can learn all about her. Don’t blabber on about yourself. Stay a little bit mysterious. Let the focus of the convo be on her - her likes, hobbies, about her family etc. Show interest in who she is as a person and get to know her!!! She can learn all about you later. Woot woot! Have fun and congrats! Oh one more thing. At the end… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 08:49 PM |
| 12 | Going to my first date ever tomorrowOh man! Congrats! And dating a tall girl! I love tall women! So attractive! Be yourself. She’s obviously attracted to you so that’s awesome ! Congrats buddy! Thing is your a couple years older so that’s cool - she’s a little taller. It all evens out lol. Just be yourself. Be confident. Did you plant the date or did she? Who got the museum / Restaraunt thing planned? Your the man, so gently lead , take her hand and walk with her and just keep the conversation natural! | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | 25 - is it too late for me?Amen bro! Me too! | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 02:24 AM |
| 11 | 25 - is it too late for me?Is 25 too late? 85 is not too late. Get out there and put yourself in front of people ! | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Oh well you didn’t say it was so cold out. Dating arctic circle style. Hmmmmmm I’m fresh out of ideas | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 08:50 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]You’re first date is at your place, inside not going out? That might be why there’s no 2nd date…. Who wants to be introduced to you at your place for a make out session and not go or doing anything and then the next date is the same thing? Sounds kind of lame if you’re asking. get outside and go somewhere ! Even for a walk | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Not if it’s presented in a light hearted fun, simple way! And it doesn’t have to be anything extravagant… can simply be for a coffee the first time… it’s an opening. and a way for those two to get together. It’s only in how you present it imho | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Do this, ping him on social media and simply say “Hey! How are you doing! Take me out, let’s get to know each other better! I’m free on x day, x time ….” And then don’t say another word … just go about your life and your school and your pursuits. If this guy is interested in you and available he will respond to that and likely take you out. That’s how you do that! | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 06:35 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You’re actually telling him to take YOU out! Lol. Slight difference in semantics but an important one. Make him earn you! Make him take you out. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 05:52 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]3 things. Sorry but I’m gonna tell you to Temper your overwhelming crush. What if he’s gay, what if he does have a girlfriend, what if he doesn’t want a relationship, or a relationship with you? Sorry to be blunt but I don’t want you to get devastated if it doesn’t go how you expect …..etc … Do this, ping him on social media and simply say “Hey! How are you doing! Take me out, let’s get to know each other better! I’m free on x day, x time ….” And then don’t say another word … just go about your … | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl takes such long time to reply?—1 to 6 hours might not mean anything. Let’s ask a different question - you really only should be using your phone to set up dates with this girl? Have you set up a date for a specific day and time? Did she say yes? That’s all that matters. Stop chatting incessantly on your phone (texting , social media etc etc etc) and ask this girl out for a specific day and specific time. And once you get a date- then focus on yourself and your life and date night. You’re going to chat her right out of not wa… | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 08:27 PM |
| 10 | 1st date went amazing, now she is the one proposing ideas for the 2nd date, should I accept or should I be leading here?Read the title only. That’s awesome. She’s interested. Tell her to plan a date for you both and go out and have fun! | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:26 PM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]Lolo. Dude get off of ticktok, start acting like a man and either ask the girl out in person or on the phone or don’t. But what are you??? 6 years old? “Do you realize how silly this sounds? A girl put extra letters into her response - does she like me more?” COME ON MAN! Ask your self these real questions. Has she reached out to you via text to say hi? Does she talk to you at school? Does she talk to you outside of school? Does she ever reach out on her own to see what you’re doing? Does she ev… | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Got called desperate for the first time in this Tinder convo -- not sure how to feel?I was fairly clear above, but will explain further….. you, as a man, should be building a life on your own that is fulfilling for you. A woman, that you decide to invite into your life should compliment you, not “complete” you. You need to build your own successful life, your career, hobbies, interests , what goals , aspirations and things that make you an interesting man to be with that attract women to you…. ? Get off the gaming machines and out if the house and experience the world around you… | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 02:45 PM |
| 6 | Got called desperate for the first time in this Tinder convo -- not sure how to feel?Your mistake is that you asked a woman to validate you, you asked a woman to tell you why she liked you? That was the most gigantic fail ever. You never never never ever ask a woman why they like you- NEVER. It could be 1 reason, it could be a million reasons, hell it even could of been a mistake swipe… but you took a potentially interested woman and turned her interest into complete distaste in about 10 seconds. From now on, instead of asking a dumb question that’s a complete turn off for a wom… | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 06:16 AM |
| 0 | Never ask if she has a boyfriendWhat are you rambling on about? I don’t even think you know what you’re talking about. People like you that don’t know what you’re talking about scare me. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 03:15 PM |
| -10 | Never ask if she has a boyfriendYou don’t care if she has a boyfriend. You don’t care if she has five boyfriends . YOU DON’T CARE! You date her regardless. If she’s willing to make dates with you then who cares! Date her! | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 05:24 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Talk to every woman you see. Young and old, talk to them. say hi, how are you. Hey what are you up to! That looks fun, that looks awful, enjoying you’re day? What are you doing there? What do you think about this weather!? Hey nice car, nice shoes, nice outfit, hey love you’re hair, great style, awesome job on that project congrats, hey what are you doing for dinner, let me treat! I want to know more about you, etc etc etc. just talk to every woman you encounter during your day and say hello and… | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 01:26 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]That might be in your favor… she may want to come back to you (if you choose to even accept her). Or it might just jog your thought process into realizing that is she really likes this guy who’s so much more messed up than you, uglier etc…. Maybe her standards are way lower than yours and maybe your standards are so much higher and it’s time to find someone even better.. Have had that happen to me 2x in relationships and i never got back together with them and it always worked out in my favor by… | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Breakup into friendzoneI agree with this advice 1000+. It’s the exact way to respond for these situations. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 01:57 PM |
| 0 | How to pick up girls at Frat Parties?My dyslexia side kicked in and I read how to pick up fat girls at parties.and I was like “damn. This dude is struggling ! The struggle is real!” | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 05:48 PM |
| 8 | Be willing to walk awayAgreed 100% | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 11:30 AM |
| 6 | Rejection after rejection kills you slowly slowlyNo way! It builds you up! Everytime you get rejected you learn a little something new, what worked , what didn’t and quick rejection is awesome because it ensures you don’t waste your time with someone who isn’t worth your time! | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Girl is "feeling ill"That’s good to hear about the work situation, But Saying it’s a bitch move shows how emotional charged and invested you are over it and you literally don’t know anything about her. All woman acts flakey, some more than others, especially when they don’t even know you. They gotta get to know a guy, and feel comfortable and know they’ll be safe with a guy to start opening up to the idea of spending time with that person. She could have all sorts of situational things going on in her life…. You nee… | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Girl is "feeling ill"It’s not going anywhere for now . She has low interest. And what’s with the creepy comments about eye@?)(ing this girl and sexual tension when you literally just met her at work. You need to slooooooooooooooow way the f down there tiger…… If you work with this girl, you better not make it uncomfortable for her in a anyway possible or your job, career could be at stake. Need to keep things strictly professional at work at all times. She had low interest and hadn’t committed to a date until you te… | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | I couldn’t believe it worked boysSnap? Stop being a beta male and ask for her number like a man | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 01:15 PM |
| 6 | Feel intimidated by attractive women, not sure how to fix it.I used to be and you know what I did? I began asking every attractive woman I met out. And some I got dates with and some I didn’t and some of the ones I did get dates with , I discovered that attractive women can be just as flakey , boring or more flakey , more boring than average attractive women……..attractive women a lot of time rely on their looks and so they don’t develop hobbies or a personality and this they can be boring AF. and that approach in forcing myself to ask out and go on dates … | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Not fun or engaging or flowingNo. THEY ARE THE ONES NOT INTERESTED. Of a woman is interested in you after you go out on a date or 2 - she’ll reach out. In fact after the initial first few dates , if a woman is interested in you she’ll be texting you a lot more than you ever would text her. If you go out on a few dates and she never ever texts you or reaches out…..the heck with her. She has low interest and you should find someone better. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Not fun or engaging or flowingStop texting. You text a woman to set up a date. That’s fin it! Stop texting women so much, non stop all the time. You’re making yourself boring because there’s no mystery about you because you’re always fin texting them. Only text a woman to setup a date at a specific place and time. Then STOP! Don’t text anymore. Go have some cool hobbies and do fun stuff and forget about her until your date | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 01:11 AM |
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