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[–]Therocksays2020 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
There’s no reason to wait if they clearly want to see you again
[–]TH3BUDDHA -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea, if this is was a first date with a new girl, I wouldn't wait. The only reason I ask is because things were a bit squirly between us previously and her attraction definitely dropped low. Seems to be high after we met up last night, though.
[–]Therocksays2020 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You must have won her over. Good job
[–]wanlas -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You’re wrong
[–]Therocksays2020 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Nice rebuttal.
Momentum is valuable in dating. If a woman is super into you there is nothing wrong with seeing her often. It’s a great way to escalate
[–]wanlas 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My thoughts were show a little disinterest and take it slow like he is right now. Like what he is doing right now seems good. She really wants him, he’s limiting it. This only increases her desire and excitement for him. He shouldn’t just make himself transparent.
[–]Therocksays2020 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That’s a fair take but he can set up the date and go cold so she chases him.
[–]wanlas 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I decided to give the old and current post a read and as you can see she had no interest in dating OP even after he confessed, she didn’t want him. The second she found out he went out with another girl she got upset, pulled back and it clearly affected her.
Now all of a sudden she wants to date him, go out on more dates, and is up for a relationship?
From the sound of it, a girl like this, OP needn’t be transparent, instead play it cold, hard to get, etc.
Otherwise, I agree, if a girl is showing interest like this, “be transparent, just date” in most cases. But judging off her past behaviour I feel that’d be a mistake.
[–]Therocksays2020 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it matters what his long term goal is. Does he want to get laid? Set up a date. Ignore her until the date comes. Just ignoring her completely has some risk.
[–]Sup3rHD 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask her out, if she doesn't say "yes", dont text back and ignore her.
[–]Space_Ape420 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The fact that she is messaging you first is a very good sign. It shows interest on her part.
There is no point in beating around the bush. Strike while the iron’s hot and ask her out again before your window of opportunity closes
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