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[–]YesImTheAsshole_ta 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are smart to ask for help on this one. Many a man have gone wrong… but if they are all honest the signs were usually always there. Biggest thing is open your eyes and don’t get with one seriously that you aren’t 100% in control of your feelings and the relationship with.
It’s not that women are such experts at tricking men here by hiding their gold digging ways, it’s that the men are chumps and inexperienced and lie to themselves because they are too emotionally or sexually needy.
I make all the money I need for my family but know that no matter what you make if you bring a greedy stupid woman into your life, she will break your ass. But I honestly don’t view women through the eyes of their taste or income. Of course I prefer someone more modest, but it really comes down to the traits of reason and sense applied to all things. Try to find one that will put in work alongside you, whether that’s financial income, holding down the house or just being damn good at saving in order to achieve your goals together. That’s the biggest thing I buy into about long term fit, having mutual goals that you work towards together. Cheers
[–]LordCarnifex 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Easiest way is to see if she’s trying to create in her professional life a way to pay for her preferred lifestyle. If a girl has champagne tastes and boxed wine career prospects then I know she’s looking for a provider. I also look to see how comfortable she is with me paying. If she accepts it as a given then you’re getting played. If she offers to pay him or shows gratitude when you pay instead of just expecting it and assuming it then you can explore a little more. Life partners understand shame and gratitude, sugar babies are riding a roller coaster. You don’t have to have cheap dates but just find something to where her budget could conceivably absorb half the cost. If she’s never offering to cover then you’re an Uber driver without the delivery fee
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[–]monox60 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Champagne wine = high class expensive stuff
Boxed wine prospects = not earning much prospects
[–]Radio_Unique -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I let men pay when we go out, but that’s not me using him. I’m checking how generous he is coz I’m a generous person.
But there’s fine line between user and high value woman.
Check our career. I have really great career in engineering but I wanna see men pursuing me before Sex. Just check women job and family condition I guess
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