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[–]Rolling-Rudi 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do you live in an urban area? What is your profession? Do you have any hobbies (except gaming or Netflix an so on)?
How much spare time do you usually have available?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I have tons of spare time. I’m so depressed though all I do with it is play video games. It’s sad, I’ll play video games 8 hours a day without even eating. The worst part about it, majority of the time, I don’t even want to play video games, it’s just the only thing I feel like I know how to do
[–]ItIsICoachCal 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That seems like priority one to me. What options do you have for mental healthcare?
[–]slaybrownbeast 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
25, no friends, never had girlfriends never had relationships, I absolutely fucking love video games and watching movies anime tv by myself, nevertheless I forced myself to pick up 100 girls, no dates yet. And I really don’t enjoy taking to people and I fear asking them out. But I guess I will just keep trying and land a long term relationship to solve my sex drive problem so I can be myself again - a recluse who plays video game- there is nothing wrong with not having friends or not living the lives other people approve of. I just do whatever I need to fulfill my need and enjoy life
[–]PaleontologistNo2785 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How do u make money though
[–]slaybrownbeast 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I quitted my job for a oversea surgery and am unemployed . But I am working on getting a new job, get the reason to wake up and get a schedule soon
[–]ItIsICoachCal 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you're putting the cart before the horse there. Not that practice is a bad idea, but there might be some underlying issues that need to be addressed if you're 0-100 yeah?
[–]slaybrownbeast 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am looking to find new wings to teach me a thing or two when I got back to North America. I certainly have huge issues in my approach but knowing where I was coming from, a kid in freshman year sneaking out of dorm at 5am to do laundry just to avoid seeing peers or saying hi to people, a kid who pretends he wasn’t in his dormitory when friendly floor mates knocked on my door to invite me to parties, I would say I have gone a long way. There are so many nights after I did 5-10 approaches , I laid in bed trembling and could not sleep from the overwhelming excitement and just pure chaos in my fast beating heart. I am probably extremely socially uncalibrated and underdeveloped. Base on my situation I hope to find my first girlfriend before 30 years old
That is a lot of progress, but things like no job no friends no hobbies besides video games and TV, I just think there could be other avenues you could work on in addition to what you're doing. Doing 100s of cold approaches with no foundation hoping to roll the dice enough times to get a "yes" once every 5 years (by your math) is just the most difficult and least rewarding way to go about things. Do you get where I'm coming from here?
[–]pokemonpokemonmario[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here's a video the explains exactly how to do it step by step no bullshit. https://youtu.be/PYaixyrzDOk
Your username is "AddictedDepression", so I'm going to guess that's a factor here. It's a cycle, loneliness begets depression, and depressions isolated you. Forming friendships will help with depression, but also forming friendships will be easier when you are able to fight back depression more than you are now.
I wouldn't worry about birthday texts if I were you, and instead focus on how you are going to care for yourself and improve your mental health.
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