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[–]Yourbunny3 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
She responded to you and I feel like there is no need to go deeper in this. Just tell her what you want and also tell her that you are sorry for what she is going through (maybe even offer to be there for her if you want, if not- not) and do not expect anyone to do anything, I am pretty sure she won’t reach out to you just like that. Because why would she?
[–]Mmm91for[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Don’t ever say sorry. No sir.
[–]Yourbunny3 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
A little empathy never hurts nobody
[–]Mmm91for[🍰] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
First of all your entire reply to op is empathy on crack. You’re telling him to be a shoulder to cry on… this is r/seduction not r/friendzone. Common man you got the game fckt up
[–]Yourbunny3 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
He asked how he should reply… I btw. mentioned if he WANTS to be there for her then he should be. If not- then not. Seduction is not only about getting her into your bed. If he is here he may want more and you do achieve more by being empathic and NICE to people that you allegedly care about. She has a lot of stress going on- Which she mentioned. Not trying to put you all in the same pot but most guys don’t get girls because you don’t listen carefully. She is NOT feeling well so if you want to talk to her sometime you either acknowledge her emotions and respect her and try to be there for her or 2. You leave her alone. The best he could to in order to “get closer to her” is to be there for her.
I was just giving my opinion to OP. I didn’t want to lie to him and tell him yeah definitely like ask her out NOW like literally tell her you guys should be going out RN cause she craves you.
[–]Mmm91for[🍰] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Man if you don’t stop with that nice guy game🤦♂️. Regardless of whether he wants her in his bed, if you show all that emotion to a female she literally loses respect for you hence throwing you into the friend zone. Guys think by being nice and sucking her toes they’ll eventually have a shot with her. The truth is you gotta be cold the game is cold, these women won’t ever care about your feelings. You can be the guy she talks to about her feelings to or you can be the guy that’s railing her out. They’re only obsessed with you when you don’t give them attention.
You don’t have to lie to him about nothing. She obviously just doesn’t feel some way about the guy. No girl leaves a message unread from a guy she’s actually into no matter how much stress she got. Matter of fact she’d try to get more attention by telling him if she cared.
[–]Yourbunny3 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
“If you show emotion to a female she loses respect” bro.. you are not okay lol. YES, by being nice you get a girl. By being a jerk you lose a girl. Just because you've been hurt doesn’t mean you should tell other such a BS. If you wanna play games and you gotta be cold you got the wrong girl! And love is not about obsession. Bro I’m worried about you… you should get some therapy fr.
Um sorry, but people may have problems that are indeed more important that someone that texted you (not talking bout you OP) lmao!!! I literally don’t know whether I should laugh or cry because of what you said😂🥲 well if that’s you way of finding “love” than you gonna wait some time hahahaha
[–]Mmm91for[🍰] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Man you really know nothing about female nature. “Being nice gets you a girl, being jerk doesn’t” you done lost it spewing this bs on this sub😂💀. Man it seems like you don’t know what happens to nice guys either. Bro I really do hope you pick up on game for your own good. All this feminine behaviour is gonna scare the birdies away.
[–]Yourbunny3 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Well, happy to say there are enough men interested in me…☺️😉 funny how you as a man think you know more about us women! 😜 and I do know that nice guys can also often be rejected but rejection has nothing to do with them being nice. Regection is nothing bad at all lmao! You stress over nothing. You ain’t gonna find a wifey with that mindset🥱
[–]Mmm91for[🍰] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There you go I was talking to a women this whole time💀. See men this is why you don’t listen to females for dating advice. You don’t ask the fish how to catch it, you don’t ask the deer how to hunt it. They will lead you astray because they genuinely don’t know what they want. Use this as a lesson; do the opposite of everything that she said to do in this post.
I’ll tell you this though. Men are attracted to submissive women like yourself. That is a real turn on, so I’m glad you’re like that. That’s why you have many men interested in you. This is not the case for female attraction towards men; instead you guys want a leader that exerts masculine traits.
[–]Radio_Unique 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just tell her.
I want you, it’s holiday I wanna see you again
Blunt and no emotions
[–]willgo-waggins 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Speak your piece and let her know what you want and how you feel.
Either she is into you and she responds positively and wants you around, or not.
Either way you will have your answer.
[–]GhoulChaser 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t even bother responding. Cut your loses and move on. Besides she’s going through things and you don’t want to be dealing with her problems either especially if the relationship is new.
[–]Impulsive666 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is over, forget her.
[–]Electr0Mad 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel like she told you she isn't doing well ... How about asking her about it and be there to possibly hear more of her emotions.
You'll also learn if she's mentally available or not...
I don't think she'd be down to go on dates, and it's holidays soon, so she might need someone to talk to!
[–]gangoni -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why be in a relationship where you have to deal with this, the door is always open to walk out of.
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