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[–]Altruistic_Flow_9253 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tell her “Pass me your number so we can call, I’d like to make sure you’re not a serial killer. That’d be too much commitment for me”. Once she passes you her number then call her in the night and leave it to anywhere from a 5-15 min talk no more. During the convo tell her “Idc we’re doing something this week/weekend” then set the spot for your meet at the time you want she agrees with. You’ll be alright man, I stuffed up a lot before I got decent at messaging.
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ya I usually ask for their number within the first 10-20 msgs. Then set up meeting within the week. Any longer and interest will be lost.
[–]No_Way2496 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Usually I try to move as fast as possible.
Eg after some banter, ask her out.
Then say; let’s conintue the conversation on whatsapp/ facetime/ IG
If she ask why
Say; easier to speak there (audio, photos, calls)
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
"How do you flirt"
"Just banter"
[–]No_Way2496 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Send me a screenshot through DM. Next tike I’ll tell you what to say. Every situation is different. Depends on context.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Please tell the OP this
[–]No_Way2496 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ah thought you were asking me hahah
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I mean if you do have good advice to give, I could give you a few screenshots. Thanks dude haha
[–]No_Way2496 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah anytime dm me your Tinder matches and I’ll give you my perspectives
[–]JacobMoogberg69 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Texting is the surest way to bore the shit out of her. If you can't make your mind up about fuckimg her, someone else will.
[–]Mikhail_Faustin08 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Charming
[–]Mikhail_Faustin08 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol downvote me because I don’t want casual hookups god save you all
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You can virtue signal all you want but he told no lie. I’m glad you have morals but we live in a society bro
[–]Mikhail_Faustin08 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Deep
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be witty and make small talk. Ask her out for a simple date like ice cream or coffee. She’ll get bored quick considering she has 30 other dudes messaging her.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ask her out within a few messages, no bs, women have unlimited options
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just like that bro “I’m dry” 😂
[–]Chewyfuzzy1313 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahahahahahahha 😂 EZ
[–]Electrical_Ad1631 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Usually what I am asked is something like "do you wanna move this conversation to Snapchat or Instagram" or "texting is easier, do you wanna exchange numbers". If I feel comfortable enough then I say yes and if I am not feeling the vibe then I say no and move on. I can't speak for all women but I do prefer exchanging my Snapchat over my cell number or Instagram (easier to block if they get creepy or weird).
When the conversation slows down or you're really enjoying it and you're just staring anticipated at the screen waiting for their response then I think that's the best time to ask if they wanna move the conversation somewhere else or meet up.
[–]NotMyBestEffort 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Meet her. Say hi. Smile. Make eye contact. Calibrate, advance, recalibrate.
[–]silentservice4u -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re dry? Well I’m sure that you could easily find some type of topical ointment at your local drug store,to solve that issue. Your welcome!!
[+][deleted] -7 points-6 points-5 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Tip: Wait for her to offer you her socials or number at some point in the convo
[–]Altruistic_Flow_9253 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
3 days ain’t bad bro, just don’t make it any longer. Take a look at what I said and go from there
If I asked now she’d give me them. I’m not totally convinced I’d like to take her out, I’m texting her just to grow my sea legs if that makes sense?
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Girls usually lose interest once they start seeing you as a penpal.
[–]Mikhail_Faustin08 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s been about 3 days of on off messaging. Does asking for instagram work?
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, snapchat and instagram are for games. Get straight to the point and ask for her cell #. Also, 3 days? Damn.
[–]rickmackdaddy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You want to practice being a pen pal or practice dating? Ask her out as soon as practical.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Forget it. You cant get women on dating apps, ita impossible
[–]No-Hope-6919 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry ko ti glih commente surfam mal na hitr sm dubu za fukat prek tinderja ampak je tema. This guy is not correct. You can find and fuck women on dating apps. Some search only for 1 time round, others relationship and so on. Just remember, it could be a fucking robot on the other site or something.
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30 mecu od tega sm sou z eno vn hahah cist brezveze
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