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[–]TrevorHarris62 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Don’t ask for snap homie you are a grown man not a middle schooler
[–]vardarac 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
snap has been around since 2011 and people of all ages use it i really don't get why some people look at it like this
i mean yeah the dog filter is juvenile but i'm assuming he's not sending those
[–]TrevorHarris62 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You look and sound fucking stupid asking a women for her Snapchat
[–]vardarac 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You do you buddy
[–]Lord_Gudda 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wouldn't it be easier to ask her for a drink?
If she doesn't know you, she will not give away something as private as her phone number.
[–]JacobMoogberg69 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Please don't do that. That's weird and creepy and desperate. Try to at least flirt a few times and get some kind of conversation going. Never ask a woman out because she looks good. Ask her out because you find her interesting or charming. Otherwise you are just another loser.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Have you talked to her before? Doesn’t sound like it. See if you can’t build a little bit of a rapport first, check the vibe, and then think about asking. Creepy as fuck to just walk up & ask for her #.
[–]Available_Chemical97 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree - your first time talking to her should not consist solely of you asking for her number or snap - that is creepy. In my.opinion building some kind of rapport is necessary before asking for her number/snap and only if you get the senses that she is showing signs of interest in you too.
[–]Frosty_and_Jazz 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Approaching her at work is not a great idea. It looks creepy and could get her in trouble with her boss.
[–]TheBurgessChurchill 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
First of all, I don't suggest that close. It will trigger autopilot responses. You want to talk to her first and then use this line, "What steps can we take to continue this conversation later?". It's indirect and it's vague. It has been tested and it works well. Send me a message. I can help you.
[–]Available_Chemical97 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"What steps can we take," sounds a bit stiff to me. I think something more like, " I'm enjoying talking to you, but realize you're at work. How about we continue this over coffee or a drink sometime soon, my treat?" would work better
[–]TheBurgessChurchill 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That can work. The line I gave is tested and works well but yes, adapt it to the situation. For example, "I have to go now and I realize you're at work, so what steps can we take to continue this conversation later?"
The line is not specific on purpose. We're just asking how we can continue talking to her. We're not asking for a number or to have drinks. She might say Instagram and if that happens you know you haven't generated enough comfort or it could be an autopilot response (it depends) or she might give you her number (they usually do).
[–]WheelIntelligent1354 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its complicated. Snap is easier to get won't necessarily make it easier to get a lay.
[–]SyreksDungeon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask her "Hey, I think you are beautiful. Can i get your snap?". Ill tell you how the "creep" shit works for women.
She finds you attractive: you will be considered "brave" and "hot af" for being direct
She doesn't: you are a weird creep.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Depends on who you are and who she is. If you’re in college or if she’s in college, she’s gonna find it weird if you ask for her number. If you’re both outta college, ask her for her number. Simple as that
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