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[–]HerrLogic 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You became less attractive, unable to work and provide, so she lost interest. Ultimately women don’t care about the reasons why, only your ability to live up to their standards matter. If you can’t live up to their standards, they lose interest, reasons be damned.
[–]No_Ordinary4482 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree a lot here. I feel that she thought I would be unable to provide in the future and that she would be providing for us both, as she is very successful and comes from a successful family.
Thanks.
[–]hecatonchires266 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The closure is telling yourself she's gone for good and you have to move on. So sorry for the daily pain you go through on your back and I can't imagine what you're going through. All I can say is try to deal with this breakup as a way to try to get back on your feet slowly and steady. It seems the injury is what made her stray away and family members may have also told her the same. What good is he now if he's got a back injury that's quite severe which will impact heavily on your relationship? You'll be alright and I do hope you find someone who will love you for who you really are and not look at your current predicament as an obstacle to finding happiness. Best of luck man
[–]No_Ordinary4482 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]HappinesSource 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That woman is mean, and that's the main reason why you feel like you still need closure. Because she is so disrespectful that she isn't willing to give it to you.
I'd advice to build a new life and once you have fully adapted to your injury, only then you will be able to invite a decent woman to join your life
Thank you.
[–]AK1010 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm sorry dude this happened to you, all you gotta remember is this, the person who is meant to treat you right wouldn't do any of this so clearly she's not for you bro. And another thing I would say is she most likely cheated on you near the end. If you be with enough women you'll realise that their love is based on a check list, if you don't hit it, they'll cheat or leave or both. Gotta forget and focus on yourself. You're worth the most in your world and what you put up with shows you your own worth more than anyone else can tell you or show you so focus on that. Good luck.
[–]david10277 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"She asked you if there was anything you wanted to say" and you said no?
Confused here..when she stated her reason for breaking up you had the opportunity to talk about her concern and you didnt do it.
2 weeks later - ??
She was probably was like - ok - you dont care. Anyway sorry about what your going thru. Seems like you need to have a final chat with her and then move on if it can't be reconciled.
I simply said "ok" because I couldn't understand the situation and wanted to give her time.
I was not trying to be a "cool guy" or play mind games with her.
I also didn't want to have a conversation like that over the phone, but rather in person.
I've never begged her to take me back or anything. I just simply asked if she wanted to discuss different options, but she didn't ever reply.
I understand its over. I'm just trying to wrap my head around it all. To go from all lovey a week before, to just not talking the following week.
[–]JacobMoogberg69 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Paragraphs my dude
[–]No_Ordinary4482 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It did have... I'm not sure what happened. 😂😂😂
[–]Beautifulgorgeousman 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
When she said she wanted to break up.....
You simply said "OK"
Why did you have that kind of reaction? Was your feelings indifferent?
Or were you just pretending to be the cool guy?
Anyway, there's not much else to say, bro. She doesn't want to be with you anymore.
Once a girl makes her mind up that it's over, it's over. Don't cry and beg her to take you back.
It's over, let's move on.
[–]No_Ordinary4482 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Beautifulgorgeousman 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's best not to think about what you did wrong or "if only" you did this or said that, she would still love you etc.
It's pointless trying to wrap your head around "why" she fell out of love with you.
She doesn't love you anymore, and that's that.
Please forget about it, work on yourself. You'll soon have a new girlfriend in the near future.
Best of luck bro.
Thanks bro.
[–]MO_drps_knwldg 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You want a woman long term that will be by your side when the chips are down. It’s for the best.
To be blunt, it does sound like you became less attractive and had a victim mentality. Women are utterly turned off by that. They want guys who go out there and go after what they want, regardless of circumstance. Not saying it’s right, but you have to accept reality for what it is. Women want a strong leader in in the relationship, not someone they feel they have to constantly support.
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