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[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I can't believe I am reading this. End that friendship. Your friend deserves better.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahahahahhaaha
[–]jeff_goldberg420 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Bros before hoes dude theres so many fish in the sea, why hit on your friends girl.
[–]Revolutionary_Run206 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You right mate, she’s the one making the moves though so…..her choice. I’m trying to make that clear here. It has been her this whole time
[–]jeff_goldberg420 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
True. But girl like that probably isnt faithful so if you are looking to have relationship with her dont be supprised if she starts hitting on your other friends.
[–]Revolutionary_Run206 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s not that I want a relationship, and I make that clear from the get go. I don’t think I’m personally doing anything wrong because it’s her job to stay faithful in the relationship. Honestly about her hitting on other dudes, I don’t care, end of the day I’m still getting cash flow from my job, and caring for myself
[–]jeff_goldberg420 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean do what you think is right. But expect if you proceed that you will lose a friend. Few years back i was in the very similar situation and didnt proceed which i regret from time to time but at the end i feel like i did the right thing.
[–]Alpharettaraiders09 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude no!
It's your choice! Reject her advances!
Who is more important to you? Your buddy or some floosey? If you say and choose her, you have no values dude.
Be the better person and tell her to stop looking at you the way she is, stop making advances on you, remind her that she is dating you buddy, friendship between you and him is more valuable than you and her. She is EASILY replaceable, but a true hommie isn't.
Don't be stupid chap. I know you can get wrapped up in a female showing you attention...but your loss is more significant when she bounces to the next chap, bc you lost the girl and your hommie.
[–]Radio_Unique 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nah, usually girls do this to get more men attention, I don’t think she will proceed to be ur gf.
[–]Revolutionary_Run206 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel like that’s true. In the end I don’t know why she wants my attention
[–]draconic_leo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Are you guys really friends if you have only known him for a month? I think you would be more associates
If you don't want to steal his girl then let him know up front that you think she is unhappy and talk to him about treating her better (if you want to be a good friend and not ruin their relationship)
If you want to take his girl then clearly she is up for grabs because she is not happy.
I think it's also important to take into account how long they have been together.
Is he happy with her?
[–]Revolutionary_Run206 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
From what I know from being around them, he is happy with her, but she seems to be losing patience with him for some reason
[–]draconic_leo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you really want to be a friend I would bring it to his attention and talk to him about. It's not about what you say, it's how you say it.
Let him know like, "Hey, you guys seem to be arguing more than often. If you want to keep her maybe you should try and talk to her about it."
Let him know that arguments will make a girl lose interest and gauge how he reacts. If he doesn't care then take her because she deserves happiness too.
[–]AruiMD 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Danger, danger Will Robinson.
Bad news. This will not end well.
For anybody tbh.
[–]Mshalopd1 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont listen to anyone on here tbh. Do what you want. You barely know either of them. If you genuinely have chemistry with her then maybe it's worth it. But I don't know what's actually happening only what you're saying. Trust your gut on this one bro, whatever it's saying is probably right.
If you care about your friend you will tell him that this is going on. If you barely know him and don't care much, I might ask the girl what is going on and see what she says. But again...trust your gut.
[–]Tipilitip 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Imagine being so desperate that you want to fuck your friend's gf just to get laid. There's like millions of single girls out there and you chose your friend's gf, cmon have some standards
[–]Revolutionary_Run206 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s not me being desperate, I really don’t care enough, I’m just pointing out the situation I’m in
[–]Tipilitip 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're literally asking us if you should go after your friend's gf. You should know the right answer to that.
You’re right man
[–]throwaway096934 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she’s going to act like this behind your friends back, she will behind yours. She isn’t high value. Tell your friend if she makes any advances on you and save your friendship instead of loosing your friend and a low value girl
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Coolest thing to do is to be cool with a nigga and fuckin' on his bitch.
Go ahead. Then years later bad karma will get you and your wife will be stolen by your friend
[–]SweetChocolate02 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What you fail to see is the your friends girl is a HO! I’ve have had this happen to me as well. If you’re friend is a good friend remain neutral, if he’s low key a hater I say go for it. Girl always look at their bf friends for a potential hook up. ALWAYS
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