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[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask in next time..
Ps: 3 women is so little experience. Keep doing what works, then analyze and change whatever doesn’t.
[–]Hondo456 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just keep on keeping on you got this, so three no biggie ask 10 more Comon! 🤘🏻😎
[–]AgentEmurgent 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hold on, the one woman that reacted "positively" as you said and that you "made her day", what exactly did you get from it? Did you get a date or a contact out of that interaction?
[–]Effective_Big1366 4 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
Honestly going to target to hit on women just sounds goofy as hell. Not to make fun of you or anything it’s just not the first place to go to pick up women. But your doing way better than me I am still nervous talking to women at all. I’m 18 btw. My advice would be to not be so direct I learned that turn women off for some reason. Keep an abundance mindset wherever you go that’s what I’ve learned. But hey if you could give me some pointers on growing up and finding someone I’d appreciate it as well home slice.
[–]Theoneandonlybigcock 4 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
Wdym abundance mindset and thank you. I should probably go to a coffee shop or the mall. I’m shy too that’s why I chose target. There wouldn’t be too many people around so If I get rejected I can just say thanks and bye. Sadly idk anything about finding someone and growing up
[–]williamroberthoss 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you did great! I’m in 3 is fantastic. Target is packed with MILFS.
[–]Effective_Big1366 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Bro I’ve got a fool proof plan to never get rejected by woman it 100% works. Become gay. Ha ha ha ha just kidding when I say abundance I mean don’t think of that one chick as the one and only I have to get this female if she rejects me I’m a loser. Fuck no. Your a king a God she’s entering your world. Assume she’ll be attracted to you as hard as that sounds I know it works. Or you can become gay or play Xbox in your moms basement with your dick out in boxer shorts. You are a King find out what makes you look cool and just be cool with it big bro. Shit act like you own the place this is your life your world bro.
[–]cormacru999 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It may take you some time on your own, so I'll save you some time. Having an "abundance mindset" is pseudopsychological nonsense taught by men who fake having a great lifestyle to sell you the idea that if you buy their product, you can also achieve that lifestyle. Most of them rent a hot car, rent some space in a great house with a pool, hire a couple of attractive women to wear swimsuits & fawn on them. Yes, trying to avoid shitting on yourself & feeling like a failure is good, & therapy & good, supportive relationships can help you avoid the bad mental health that many people suffer, but talking about yourself as this mighty kingly being & that women are lucky to have time with you is simply not going to make women like you, it will do the opposite. You'll live for a few years talking shit & telling people you're an alpha male (a fundamental misunderstanding of both wolf packs & the Greek alphabet), & yet will not get rich, will not sleep with dozens of super attractive women, won't have a great car, won't buy a great house. You'll get angrier & angrier & search for reasons why its not working & instead of being uncomfortable & admitting that you followed bad advice, you'll blame women, you're get deeper into the manopshere of fragile men who can't possibly analyze their behavior & motives honestly, & you could end up in an incel group measuring your wrists as an explanation of why you are unable to sweet talk a woman into bed. Do you honestly believe "You are a King find out what makes you look cool and just be cool with it big bro. Shit act like you own the place this is your life your world bro." is sound advice? How many bros do you need to use in a sentence for it to be cool enough? lol
It may take you some time on your own, so I'll save you some time. Having an "abundance mindset" is pseudopsychological nonsense taught by men who fake having a great lifestyle to sell you the idea that if you buy their product, you can also achieve that lifestyle. Most of them rent a hot car, rent some space in a great house with a pool, hire a couple of attractive women to wear swimsuits & fawn on them. Yes, trying to avoid shitting on yourself & feeling like a failure is good, & therapy & good, supportive relationships can help you avoid the bad mental health that many people suffer, but talking about yourself as this mighty kingly being & that women are lucky to have time with you is simply not going to make women like you, it will do the opposite. You'll live for a few years talking shit & telling people you're an alpha male (a fundamental misunderstanding of both wolf packs & the Greek alphabet), & yet will not get rich, will not sleep with dozens of super attractive women, won't have a great car, won't buy a great house. You'll get angrier & angrier & search for reasons why its not working & instead of being uncomfortable & admitting that you followed bad advice, you'll blame women, you're get deeper into the manopshere of fragile men who can't possibly analyze their behavior & motives honestly, & you could end up in an incel group measuring your wrists as an explanation of why you are unable to sweet talk a woman into bed.
Do you honestly believe "You are a King find out what makes you look cool and just be cool with it big bro. Shit act like you own the place this is your life your world bro." is sound advice? How many bros do you need to use in a sentence for it to be cool enough? lol
[–]Happy_Ending1 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This Is Art.
[–]Theoneandonlybigcock1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Interesting okay that makes a lot of sense. I am kind of an incel in the way I can’t get laid. But I don’t believe in any of that women are inferior or they shouldn’t have rights stuff. I just hope I don’t fall into it. So how do I avoid that trap if you can tell me thank you
[+]cormacru999 -8 points-7 points-6 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
The idea that you go in public & randomly ask women out comes from seduction experts & its a deeply gross idea. Women do not want to be harassed during their day by random men EVEN IF one woman seemed pleased. Women talk about this all the time & how much they hate it. There are avenues for men to meet women that are already established. You're not supposed to randomly ask women out, you're supposed to develop a relationship with them. The fact that even your name here involves your penis suggests you are a complete mess & really should just leave women alone & stick to porn which is free & probably suits you better.
[–]themostgianthorse 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is the most dumb fuck response that I’ve ever seen on this sub.
[–]kurapikachu020 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The last part of their comment was a bit too much, but they're partially right. Not all of us women want to be approached in public places when we're minding our own business. If I'm going out shopping at Target, then I'm there to shop, not to get hit on. It can come off as creepy.
[–]Theoneandonlybigcock 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Also this is probably rare so excuse me. But on my groupchat with girl friends in it the girls are like commonly “Omg a guy asked me out” so I honestly don’t know but I keep it respectful
[–]Happy_Ending1 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If they said this they were probably in Target. Keep up the good work.
[–]Theoneandonlybigcock 4 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link
That’s why I want to change. I’m sorry for that. But where can I meet women my age? I’m 18, it’s not I can go to clubs or bars do I really have any choice? Dating apps don’t work for me
[–]themostgianthorse 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OP - don’t listen to the bullshit response from cormacru above.
I commend you for having some balls and approaching women in public.
You’re 18. If you were 30, I’d say going to Target to specifically pick up women was a little weird. But you’re not. You’re getting experience which is precisely what you’re supposed to be doing.
You need to cast a wide net and use multiple different avenues to meet people. Any over reliance on one area is likely to result in failure at some point.
Keep your dating apps. Search for dating app profile advice specifically for men.
Go to parties or where other people your age are hanging out. Allow for things to happen organically here.
If you do not have a large social group, consider joining a group through the meet-up app that does something that interest you.
Keep approaching women in public when appropriate. Girls with their headphones in sprinting at full blast typically don’t want to be approached.
Keep it up man!
My only critique is to change your username.
[–]kurapikachu020 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Are you a college student ?
[–]Theoneandonlybigcock 4 years ago [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link
No how come?
[–]kurapikachu020 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Ah since you're 18 I thought you were probably a college student, since it would have been easier to meet people at college.
Yeah honestly meeting women anywhere would be I guess weird. I mean I could drive to college campuses I guess with the only purpose being to hit on girls 😭.
[–]kurapikachu020 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Not sure it would be a good idea to go there for that sole purpose. If you're not a college student it might come off as creepy.
[–]Theoneandonlybigcock 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that’s why I’m kinda stuck really. I can’t get into clubs or bars, and dating apps don’t work. I wanna get some experience or anythign you know
[–]kurapikachu020 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You can join clubs to meet people that share the same interests.
Can I join clubs if I’m not even in college? Or did you mean just in general any club
[–]kurapikachu0201 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
There are clubs that exist outside of college.
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