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[–]Interesting-Fan-603 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I used to ignore all the time after we connected too. Mainly because of jealousy really. Doing this you will lose all the time. The girl just moves on. And tons of guys will hit on them. Staying quiet and ignoring is the worst you can do. DONT EVER DO IT
[–]Tiny-Caterpillar-696 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
True, but I have heard that showing less interest has made women go wild though? Also, have you ever been successful with "ignoring" women?
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
No. I used to do it all the time. Even when girls that kinda liked me in return. I used to have issues and did that. NEVER GOT ME ANYWHERE. A girl is likely to go out with someone that they talk to regularly(even if they wouldn't at first!!!!). If you're ignoring them someone else will gladly connect with them till that happens. I'm SRS!!
[–]Tiny-Caterpillar-696 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Okay thank you for this advise. The only thing I wont do is show TOO much interest. But no I wont be ignoring her from now on. Thanks again bro🙏
[–]Interesting-Fan-603 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. Don't ignore her. I already lost too many. And one that I REALLY LIKED a month because of this!!! It's the most dumbest thing ever. I've moved on and vowed to never ever do it again
She liked me too. And suggested we should workout and be healthy together. IM STUPID. Don't ignore!
[–]Lifedeather 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Interesting face is trying to tell you DONT IGNORE tiny caterpillar 🐛
[–]Tiny-Caterpillar-696 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Im a mf butterfly
[–]desperate_for_a_name -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Do NOT attempt that. Most girls, including me, get really hurt by it and if you push us away continuously we won't chase you. I've been through hell the past month because a guy pulled that on me. I've cried, lost my appetite and am in a constant feeling of being unwanted and not enough. Ive been looking for a fault in my behavior trying to find out what I did to deserve this. Go ahead if you want to make her doubt herself but I think you've got the message
Are you still desperate for a name tho?
[–]desperate_for_a_name 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Technically xD
[–]Cell-Senescence 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
sounds like you liked this guy since you had this visceral reaction. What stopped you from telling him how you feel? Why the games if you both liked each other, or was he just not into it?
[–]desperate_for_a_name 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I have honestly no idea. On one side he told be he thinks that I'm tho one and invites me to a dinner with his parents and on the other hand he's still on dating apps, ignores my messages or replies with one word. He told me before that he was scared of getting hurt but the way he acts just seems like he doesn't give a fuck. If we meet up everything is fine, he's a bit shy but that's it but if we are separated he doesn't even bother texting first or staring a conversation. So I don't know if he really likes me or just doesn't want to be alone and the fact that he doesn't seem to really care stops me from telling him what I feel
[–]Cell-Senescence 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
seems like a hamster wheel of emotions, give him one clear and concrete sign you're into him, and see where it goes. Maybe he's insecure and thinks that pushing you away will get you to be more interested. I've done it, wouldn't recommend it lol. If he actually doesn't like you that at least you know and can focus on other things :) best of luck
That's a pretty great advice, thank you. I'll do that. Can't change the outcome then anyway and it'll probably help me clear my head :)
[–]Therocksays2020 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s totally dependent on the woman. Some will move on but it can be an effective tool for a woman who you have deeply connected with physically or emotionally
Ok so we hang out like alot alot, but she be showing mixed signs. Should i just continue to just hang out with her and wait?
[–]GuaranteeOwn5108 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Have you kissed her yet?
[–]Tiny-Caterpillar-696 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No :(
[–]GuaranteeOwn5108 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh, I’m thinking she liked you but maybe you didn’t make a move so she got bored and mentally moved on…
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ignoring only works if she is totally into you. It’s not a method to make girls like you, it’s just for girls who already like you to like you more.
So what? Should i just keep on hanging out with her? Cause we hang out alot
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean if you wanna waste time sure keep hanging out. Overall it’s just better strategy to not put all your eggs on the same basket and instead diversify so you have more options just like girls do.
[–]Strong-Magician8743 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ruined a potential relationship with my crush by using this "strategy", dont do it you'll fuck it up lol
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