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[–]JacobMoogberg69 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Focus on: becoming your own best friend, liking yourself and cherishing yourself despite any flaws or mistakes you may have. Focus on challenging yourself with things that will grow your self respect. Find something difficult and challenging to do, kind of like your own rite of passage.
Embrace the role of being a man, wjth all its benefits and burdens. This means taking full control and ownership of what you do with a girl. Don't wait on her to approach you, express interest, talk to you and put your dick in her mouth. Take responsibility for everything.
Finally, don't forget to love them for who they are with all their idiosyncrasies. It doesn't mean let women disrespect you or manipulate you or have their way with your, just learn to appreciate them for what they are.
[–]evotech229 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This.
Dont go too hard on the pua stuff. Try it out and see what work tho, it can be really fun. Keep what works best. Most of all dont rush for getting a girlfriend. Learn to love being alone :)
Good luck m8, wish u the best. PM if u need any advice
[–]ZayVierNator 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100%. I feel like many teenagers rush into relationships when they're unhappy with themselves to have some moral support and they want someone who loves them back. Rushed relationships just lead us into an even deeper whole of loneliness once they inevitably end. I will try to just improve my social skills and build confidence for now. I appreciate your reply man :)
[–]LARPing_Kiltsman 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eschew females, acquire currency
[–]Lifedeather -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Try to find a boy you like and date him!
[–]truthbomb999 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Advice for a 16 yo
Go lift. Do your cardio. Eat more protein and less carbs. Learn about money and stay away from any drugs or stupid shit like trying to be YouTube famous or pranking people.
My friend group is all boys and I find myself struggling to get a girlfriend
That's because it's hard for most guys at this age. Go lift and the women will come.
Am I too young to try the pua shit or hit on chicks in public?
You should build some social skills, not necessary pua type stuff. Don't make this a focus of your life.
I've tried Snapchat (pretty much just tinder for teenagers)
Tinder for adults is fucking stupid. SC isn't much better.
I doubt a 20 yo would date a 16 yo for legal reasons.
Talk to women your age or younger.
I've actually been going to the gym for 7 months now (COVID fucked me) and enjoy it a lot. I've dialed in my calories and training and I'll definitely keep improving on myself. I do find myself overthinking a lot of social interactions, it's as if my brain is in defence mode whenever I conversate with strangers. I reckon I'm still at the stage where I'm an insecure teenager who does just need to learn to care less about what others think and keep improving on myself. Thank you for the reply
[–]Lifedeather 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The truth bomb that lifting is the end all be all for getting women
[–]TheNerdsQuest 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, you just have to figure out where the girls your own age hang out, and then start cold approaching at those locations.
I wish I had started doing this at your age. I would have gone to the mall, the public library, public parks, and maybe even a few of the other schools in my town just to look for girls hanging around outside.
But this was all more than a decade ago now so the world has changed. I don't even know if teenage girls go to malls anymore.
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