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[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link
1 How you’re willing to be confident if cockiness is something bad for ya?
2 what are your judgements based on?
3 How many times did u approach?
4 what have u done for self-improvement?
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[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Dude, confidence is outcome reference. Basically how you view & feel about yourself at any given moment. So its situational and temporary. Absolute confidence doesn’t exist. And so its not what you should chase to gain.. it won’t happen before dopamine(accomplishment hormone) hit.
What you think other guys (who have success with women) have, and you don’t?
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[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well experience is one thing. Easy to get
But..do u rlly believe its their looks that do the job? Or their personal view of their looks?
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[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Now question: if you had both, how would u behave/act around those women u like?
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[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And what stops you acting that way regardless?
[–]TheSunshineMan 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
5% of men are virgins until at least age 35, and the number is increasing.
So you're definitely not alone..
Confidence is why most men struggle with women.
The only thing holding you back, is you.
What are you willing to do, starting right now today, to fix your situation.
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Surround yourself with winners who are on the same path as you.
Take daily action.
Going to the gym, isn't going to get you girls.
Talking to girls is the only thing that will get you girls.
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fix your mindset.
Learn proper game, from guys who actually have lots of experience doing it for a long period of time.
Consistent, longterm results.
[–]Dontfeedthelocals 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'd never kissed a girl until i was 19, but that was the age i did. I was with a few friends and started dancing with a girl at a fairly dead club. I had no idea what i was doing even whrn we were dancing, , but eventually we kissed, and i did just about everything wrong. It was probably painful to watch, and my friends watched the whole thing.
But... I'm still here bud. 3 long term relationship in and a fair few short term things, its just a funny memory. We all have them at one time or another, and everyone is self conscious in a way you don't know about, or has a battle they are fighting. Stop thinking its just you and don't make it bigger than it is.
Your time will come. And when you've got that out of the way, you can start enjoying yourself.
[–]jankybusinessman 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m a “slow pimp” lol I chat girls long conversations get them comfy and have better relations because trust is built. I have a friend the complete opposite he’s super upfront and lets his intentions be known. He gets less but the girls he get know the drill. Try that approach. Be a bit more direct and try positive self talk. I’ve been chatting with a younger girl and tbh these girls are as sexual as dudes nowadays you should have no issue. I read the book by John Alexander around your age there is a section of beta moves check that section out and try to banish them.
[–]Acceptable-Bicycle24 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is so relatable it pisses me off
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