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[–]DryAdhesiveness6579 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t think so bro.
You should just tell her your monogamous, and if she wants to be in an open relationship with her ex you unfortunately can’t continue seeing her.
Got to be congruent with what you want.
[–]olethrosX17 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It seems like you two communicate really well which is good. However she clearly isn’t interested in a commitment. You have 2 options here.
Explain to her how you feel and move on.
Understand that she will not be completely yours, learn to accept that, but you stay her friend, have casual sex, etc. Keyword is friend. Just vibe. Whilst in the meantime go talk to someone else.
So I ask you, which option is best ? Cause the results are the same, she will not be completely yours regardless of the options you choose, however 1 option allows you have her around for the present moment. Do what makes you comfortable. Remember, choose yourself first.
[–]rustoof 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she's sleeping with you 2 or 3 times a week she won't be able to maintain a relationship with someone hours away. Just plow through it and pretty soon she'll be telling him its just not working.
Also this gives you the chance to keep looking for someone better while still getting to sleep with her.
All told, yes it might be emotionally taxing, if you can't handle it you can't handle it and you can end it, but you have nothing to lose by giving it a shot.
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