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[–]Therocksays2020 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Flirty and easy going Is the vibe. I save thr like you and personality stuff. She knows that that’s why you asked her out
[–]curiouzzboutit 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I guess I’ll keep the attitude as I would love to still take her out but not seem desperate for the date. Just don’t want to let her slip through the cracks. What do you mean that she knows that’s why I asked her out?
[–]quantumactual 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She knows how you feel about her, that’s why you asked for her number. It’s obvious she’s interested, otherwise she wouldn’t have agreed to the date.
These little nuances that guys glance over get them killed. Makes women roll their eyes. Like no shit she’s interested.
[–]Therocksays2020 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly
[–]Therocksays2020 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she’s that beautiful she’s used to guys over doing it. Act like you’re not surprised to land her
[–]quantumactual 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Your vibe. If you’re a nerdy ass bitch own it. Trying to appeal to something particular will throw you off. Just have a good time bro, that’s it.
[–]curiouzzboutit 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For sure
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[–]curiouzzboutit 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Haha thats funny man. Well it has been very stressful but I have the mind set I can't just put my life on hold. I lost a great senior level software engineer job when I got arrested, and I have had like 8 offers rescinded just due to the pending charge even though I have no convictions. Truly sucks. So far over 14 months have been lost to this whole ordeal. And I have no idea how it is going to turn out. With that being said I have just been trying to still have safe legal fun and live life. None of us are guaranteed tomorrow. You can always say well Ill do this after this happens or that happens. But don't hold on for anybody. Do what you love. Do what makes you happy. If you find yourself struggling to find the energy, just remember how fun it is. And depending on your self esteem, working on yourself makes the chase so much more fun. Work out, eat healthy, and dress nice. Obviously not going to ask a girl to marry me or commit to a long term relationship until this is settled. But going to pack in as many fun experiences, cool dates with women, hanging with friends, going to concerts, etc while it all settles out. If you ever wanna chat just pm me.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Vulnerability is the vibe
Aye different take but I will def just try to be open even if it means getting denied
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
I dated a girl who I thought was the most gorgeous girl I’ve ever met and that was my vibe. I would have thought she was out of my league I got butterflies when i seen her Honesty. Just was honest about myself, my past, my flaws/strengths and feelings. I learned this from the books models by mark manson Hope it works out for you
[–]curiouzzboutit 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How long did y’all date/how did it work out?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think vulnerability really is the key to intimacy. We were very passionate lovers but we had to break it off due to personal problems. We did not date long but we were very intimate and open with each other and Im grateful i got to have that experience, dont regret it at all.
[–]FrostyCabinet 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
First of all be yourself. You dont need to tell her how you feel, show her with your actions. Flirt with her, introduce touch early, dont agree with everything she says, have your opinion and that kind of stuff. You want her to chase you not the other way around. Also dont have the mentality that she is out of your leauge, or she is better than you in some kind of way. She is not. She is obviously interested in you if she makes time to see you. Also she already knows you are interested in her otherwise you wouldnt be going out with her. With all that said i wish you good luck and i hope it works out for you man!
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