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Fundamentalsquantumactual/r/seduction27/08/21 04:59 AM
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Inner Game quantumactual/r/seduction07/05/21 04:43 PM
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Conversationquantumactual/r/seduction04/05/21 06:58 PM
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Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/asksedditquantumactual/r/seduction03/05/21 04:04 PM
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He’s right!
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:03 PM
1

Holy shit!!!! This describes exactly how I feel with my girlfriend now. Especially the last sentence….either a landmine, or gold mine. Very nice post. Obviously you know what you’re talking about.
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:00 PM
1

You shouldn’t do this
/r/seduction10/03/22 11:17 PM
1

Ain’t nobody fuckin with my bro from northern side
/r/seduction09/03/22 11:36 PM
0

Same…some girls don’t gaf in my experience tho lol
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:08 AM
2

Well yeah, exactly. I would say something along the lines of..”Well, you don’t sound too sure, and I want to make sure you’re completely available for a fun night out. Does Friday work or a different day next week?” You got it man.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:41 PM
-1

This just isn’t true. There’s way too many women in the world to make such a claim. There’s women who have left rich men for poor men, and vice versa. No one in their 20’s is that put together. If they really wanted that status like you claim, we’d see a lot more sugar babies running around, and I don’t. There’s some truth to what you’re saying, but if you can’t get women and you think it’s because you need money and clout, I just don’t know what to tell you.
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:58 PM
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I haven’t been engaged in SM for 3 years at least. I still have great success with women. Social media has been around for, what, 20 years tops? Women have been here with us for tens of thousands of years. Trust me, you do not fucking need ig or anything else for ‘social proof’, this makes me think I’m talking to a high school kid or something.
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:49 PM
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Don’t do it yo, I just had to end my relationship over this.
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:49 AM
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I mean, yeah, they want a guy they think is high value, but that doesn’t mean that’s what they’re gonna realistically get and long for. Additionally, women like a guy who is more mysterious than not. Whether you think it’s true or not doesn’t really matter because it is.
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:20 AM
-10

Disagreed, women like mystery.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:55 AM
1

22, haven’t used ig for a few years. I’ll download it and look from time to time, but I don’t miss it. I prefer irl interactions.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:53 AM
3

This! This is all you need! With this very tactic, my ex girlfriend was infatuated for most of our relationship, simply because most guys don’t have it in them to give their relationship space. They just need to be texting a girl throughout the day. They need a challenge, and they do enjoy the chase.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:44 AM
2

Man just disconnect for a bit. You did everything right. That’s the perfect last text for her to either get back to you on, or not. Nothing you can do at this point will convince her any more for the third date, so no, you shouldn’t reach out, ask her how she’s doing, if she got your message, any of it. Maybe if two days go by, on the third day, shoot her a text and ask her what’s up. Despite the fact you’re having the time of your life and she’s calling out your name during sex, you have to ass…
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:41 AM
1

College aged but no. Just dated a girl for a couple years and it didn’t work out. Now I’m…I don’t know. It’s just me vs the world at this point. Probably gonna relocate soon.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:36 AM
2

Then go to our south
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:34 AM
1

I can tell you, in my personal experience at least, I do not get results when I fake it. All of my results stem directly from my nonchalant, no care attitude. Women will literally throw themselves at you in certain situations.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:17 AM
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Does your life look good on paper? Don’t do OLD. If you need to develop hobbies, take professional photos, focus on a career; stick to irl interactions You can hit it off online but it’s a different beast for sure.
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:47 AM
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I’ll talk to anybody as I please as I see relevant lol. I sold cars..I’m not afraid to talk to anyone. I’ve got quite an advantage in that aspect. But yeah, having your shit together does help. It’s one of several aspects of prospecting a potential partner.
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:47 AM
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I know dude, but I can’t have girls over at my place, my car is breaking down, I have shit to focus on first. Edit: i never sweat women lol I’m not concerned in my ability to attract them
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:04 PM
8

Nice. Just waiting for a better positioning in life before I’m back in the field
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:26 PM
-2

Nice! This right here!
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:42 PM
57

Girls just wanna have fun
/r/seduction02/03/22 10:56 AM
1

Talkin about my balls?
/r/seduction28/02/22 09:51 PM
2

I’ve already got hot pussy and I’m young. Guess I don’t need to get better? I’ve achieved maximum man.
/r/seduction28/02/22 09:14 PM
1

Just being a chick bro lol
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:32 AM
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Me lol, also 22M. I’m getting into blockchain development. Building a future is super important, so why not prioritize early
/r/seduction24/02/22 11:21 AM
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Don’t rely on college parties, just work on your own people skills. Could be that, for me it was various sales jobs. Gotta come out of your shell somehow though. Then you can find girls pretty much anywhere
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:54 AM
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Shouldn’t assume your gonna get laid just cuz it’s Valentine’s Day lol, unless you find a whore. Your goal should just be meeting nice, cool people (girls) whom you can then develop rapport with and eventually seduce sexually.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:44 PM
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Uhhh no?
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:37 PM
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Let him find out
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:09 PM
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Literally yes. When dealing with women, most of the time, absolutely can be bad for you.
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:37 AM
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Casual sex is empty, most people will learn.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:36 PM
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So, the problem is, you think the video date went well. You shouldn’t have agreed to her counter date plans, because they are on her terms, not yours. IMO, this is why she lost attraction / blew you off. Gotta be a little more challenging. (I don’t love edating and I’d really prefer to see you in person, so get back to me when you’re feeling a little better and we’ll make some plans for in person).
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:43 PM
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Great advice.
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:36 PM
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No dude. It’s not ok. Wtf?
/r/seduction04/02/22 12:48 PM
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My man..you’re taking shots to tell chicks they have beautiful...hair? Online...? This is NOT a fucking approach bud, you have to actually get off your ass and do that irl.
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:26 AM
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When in doubt, pull back.
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:58 PM
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Downvoted for facts
/r/seduction02/02/22 11:51 PM
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I’ve learned quite a lot since high school. In high school I struggled a bit. If you desire to get better, you will.
/r/seduction30/01/22 09:47 PM
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Great advice! Corey Wayne is the goat, and should be advertised.
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:06 AM
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I’m 22. Got the gf. Still not super content where I’m at. Just focus on where you are now and where you can improve. I’m trying to learn a skill currently. The gf takes up a lot of time! Love her though.
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:05 AM
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Man, it’s so obvious isn’t it! I was waiting to pick up my gf the other day - lo and behold, the Amazon truck delivery driver. Was this fine brunette, almost looked like my gf, both just super pretty. She went back and forth 3 times to my gf’s apartment building, and each time she’d come back down, just absolutely stare me down. I had to literally move my head as she walked past my car because our eyes were locked 😂 Man, when you know 100% what’s going on there, I just can’t help but laugh to my…
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:58 PM
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There are ‘white’ and ‘Latin’ girls all over the fucking place bro. What do they normally like to do? Whatever people normally do, they aren’t fucking unicorns. Put your phone down, go to a cafe, you’ll see white girls and Latin girls. Have fun!
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:21 AM
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This is exactly it!
/r/seduction20/01/22 12:31 PM
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Not emotionally available? Doesn’t sound like something you want anyways lol. Looks aren’t everything trust me, and there’s tons of pretty girls out there.
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:01 AM
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Haha nice! Same! I get checked out hardcore, girls flirt with me in front of my girlfriend lol. They like what they like I guess
/r/seduction19/01/22 12:41 AM
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Just with their sass and attitude. Yes it’s stereotypical
/r/seduction19/01/22 12:29 AM
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Confirmed. Current gf is Russian. They’re like white black chicks. Best sex, best sense of humor, great partners in general. She can be a lot to handle, but she’s worth it. Every time we go out, she has multiple guys notice her. Just stunningly pretty.
/r/seduction19/01/22 12:00 AM
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You need a bit of arrogance. That’s what the ‘bad boy’ is - someone confident enough to make himself look like a fool and who owns it. You don’t literally need to be a criminal.
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:25 PM
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As much as I’ve thought it’d be nice to have multiple women - it is exhausting asf! Just need one crazy kitty and my hands are pretty much tied. But yeah, the reason I’d suggest is because of an abundance mindset. If you’re putting all your eggs in one basket, she’ll probably know, and won’t like that too much. Even if you aren’t necessarily dating other women, you should at least imply that so you don’t seem like you don’t get any.
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:55 PM
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Ya bro you’re talking $20-$60+ a girl a night. You got 5 girls waiting in line? You better have a few hundred to blow on some first dates, lol.
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:53 PM
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What do you think dating coaches talk about? Good ones talk about understanding what attracts the opposite gender, and so forth. This is what helped me, and I would strongly recommend it to anyone who needs help.
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:00 PM
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Yeah I mean, acting like they don’t exist when your goal is to talk to them doesn’t really work lol
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:20 PM
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Ya bro, if you need to ask about this, you have a lot to understand still. I’d suggest the right dating coaches, not Reddit.
/r/seduction17/01/22 01:05 PM
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‘I gUesS tHe vIbE iS sTiLl tHeRe’ .. Jesus are you 15? Don’t ever say that shit again. It’s pretty obvious she’d be down for it again, not sure why you’re acting oblivious to that. If you’re horny enough, go for it. Literally why tf did you post this? No one can help you make up your own mind. Maybe aim a little higher if she can’t make you cum? I don’t have sex with people I’m not attracted to either.
/r/seduction17/01/22 01:01 PM
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Lol exactly. “I don’t talk to girls at the gym cuz...you know...gym bro.” Also Should I wave say hello? This situation I find my self in all the time. You don’t sound confident OP. Anyways, good luck!
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:48 PM
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You don’t believe me or?
/r/seduction14/01/22 05:22 AM
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The power of Christ compels you, LGBT.
/r/seduction14/01/22 12:29 AM
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A lot of that here too unfortunately
/r/seduction14/01/22 12:29 AM
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What’s wrong with him?
/r/seduction14/01/22 12:27 AM
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My b I read it different lol, thought you meant guys don’t care about relationships
/r/seduction14/01/22 12:25 AM
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I don’t typically need to
/r/seduction13/01/22 11:44 PM
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Just under if you must know. I’ve experienced women staring at me standing next to friends over 6 foot if that makes a difference. Height don’t matter.
/r/seduction13/01/22 11:08 PM
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Probably lol
/r/seduction13/01/22 11:08 PM
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Next one over
/r/seduction13/01/22 10:06 PM
0

Not true
/r/seduction13/01/22 10:06 PM
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I’d disagree. While those things could be influential to a subset of women, many women simply care about how a man can make them feel. It’s all about engaging their emotions. This can be done simply being who you are. If you have features that are attractive (and beyond physical attraction, maybe you’re good with words, or good with how you say things). True, most women aren’t running off to date homeless men, but ‘financial stability’ will not guarantee you getting a woman. It goes beyond that,…
/r/seduction08/01/22 10:30 PM
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Gotta get past the glorification. If you treat everyone the same, and the special one a little more special, you won’t have this problem.
/r/seduction08/01/22 04:00 AM
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If you’re constantly waiting for ‘the best’ version of yourself (also according to who?), then there may never be a day where you feel ‘good enough’ to be in a committed relationship. None of us are ever the best versions of ourselves, we just do what we can.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:17 PM
1

Lol, all these dudes like ‘DELETE THIS’. Fearmongering for no reason. Where I’m from, 16 can consent up to 10 years, so you’d be fine in this situation. There’s a 3 year age gap....police would look at this and leave IMO, unless she says you did something to her. You’re good, just try to avoid it if you can. Not the biggest deal in the world.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:12 PM
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Maybe if it was my first or second lay, lol. FUCK no, now I expect them to do some work too.
/r/seduction06/01/22 12:35 AM
2

Make a meaning for your life..everything will fall into place from there.
/r/seduction05/01/22 01:05 AM
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This is a hard age man lol. Always have 15-19 year old girls STARING me down. Like I’m sorry but no. 19 is ok for me but that’s the cut.
/r/seduction04/01/22 02:50 AM
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I would’ve said ’maybe?’ when she offered. Do you want to or not? Seems like she wasn’t incredibly interested to begin with, maybe just enjoys your chatting her up lol. Also, I’d cut it with the emojis unless you really know her, or she also uses them.
/r/seduction02/01/22 05:17 PM
2

Boom.
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:19 AM
1

How?
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:19 AM
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How is disapproval being needy in any circumstance?
/r/seduction27/12/21 10:36 AM
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You’re literally sitting around waiting for a chick with a boyfriend to ‘become available’. Doesn’t sound like something a man with options would do...ever. Move on bro, if you have any chance at seducing her, the fastest way to get her attention is to remove yours.
/r/seduction27/12/21 07:44 AM
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Then you can’t. This is what guys need to understand. You can’t negotiate a woman’s feelings. If she isn’t feeling you, the best thing you can do literally is to never reach out or talk to her again. Women are like cats. And when cats run away, the worst thing you can do is chase them. It’s best if you let the cat come back to you at their own pace - many do, sometimes they never will. Gotta accept either outcome.
/r/seduction24/12/21 07:45 PM
1

Trigger an emotional response
/r/seduction24/12/21 03:15 PM
2

I’m the same way. I’ll be pulling thru McDonald’s for a free water, and sometimes they’ll charge me $1.00. Most of the time, most McDonald’s will give you the water. But in some cases they don’t, so I’ll ask them why they’re charging me for water. My girl HATES when I do it LOL. Or just haggling in general .
/r/seduction24/12/21 03:24 AM
2

It’s more about how well you can trigger them emotionally
/r/seduction18/12/21 08:05 PM
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She’s probably fucking another dick on the side, and maybe he’s under the impression they’re monogamous. Treat her as an option, nothing more nothing less.
/r/seduction17/12/21 10:11 PM
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Terrible.
/r/seduction14/12/21 10:00 PM
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Don’t try to.
/r/seduction13/12/21 09:09 AM
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Stop trying to be a catch, and just be a catch. See the difference?
/r/seduction11/12/21 03:16 AM
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No, they are attracted by men who go for what they want, who will speak what’s on their mind, and won’t allow any woman to deter them, make them feel insecure, or anything along the likes. That is a ‘bad boy’, it has nothing to do with being a loser, or even having ‘power’. Being able to walk away from your woman when she doesn’t play fair is the powerful man they want.
/r/seduction10/12/21 01:25 AM
0

Don’t give a straightforward answer. ‘I’ve been dating around, but it’s a no brainer - you’re my favorite’, or something cheeky.
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:07 AM
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Despite the downvotes, you’re correct. It should be able to be led to a successful conclusion in the bedroom. Lunch dates are for friends. Can you get away with it? Yeah, obviously, no shit. If she’s really into you, she’ll put up with a lot of shit. But ideally, you will set dates in the evening, and as the evening progresses, it allows for a fun filled romantic opportunity to take place at your or her place, appropriately at night. Anyone disagreeing with this either doesn’t know what they’re …
/r/seduction09/12/21 11:04 PM
1

Pull back, don’t contact her. If she reaches out, take your time getting back to her. Set up a time to see her if she reaches out. It’s likely she’s already chatting up a new guy, so I’d suggest you start dating yourself. Sorry brother, this happens all the time though.
/r/seduction09/12/21 04:53 PM
2

Then stop texting dude...lol. I’ve been in a relationship for 2 and a half years and my girl knows this by now so she calls me when she wants to talk. Or she’ll send me memes on Instagram or whatever. It also helped that I didn’t meet her on a dating app.
/r/seduction06/12/21 10:20 PM
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Hey this is what a girl told me once :( She said I looked like a ‘fuckboy’. I was genuinely confused. She then asked me out later. Is this a woman’s way of saying a guy is attractive without actually saying it?
/r/seduction06/12/21 02:40 AM
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Best comment
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:37 PM
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Gotta get something newer bro
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:35 PM
2

Lol I’ve never heard of that. There’s a lot of single people here in general though. The 420 mountain state got some really beautiful women too.
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:20 AM
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Mixed bag in Denver but it’s mostly laxed, although the county recently reintroduced the mask mandate in public. Some other counties though like Douglas county isn’t enforcing it.
/r/seduction04/12/21 01:46 AM
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No dude...stop. Just ask her about HER. Be interested in what she has to say. Keep your own answers rather short, but leave space for her to wonder. Sex can be brought up, but it has to be nonchalant and appropriate. Please do not ask any of these questions.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:16 AM
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I love how you say ‘all’ as if, indeed, all women want to talk about these things. How about, just be yourself, if she likes you, great, if not, her loss. It’s not about what you say, what you talk about, etc. It’s how you say it. It’s your nonverbal communication. No offense, but guides like this one are the reason why a lot of men struggle in the dating field. “Oh, i should talk about this, and not talk about this”. No. Talk about whatever the fuck you want, and own it. Going on 3 years with a…
/r/seduction30/11/21 09:04 PM
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Number one is the biggest thing for keeping women in your life
/r/seduction14/11/21 12:47 AM
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Attraction isn’t a choice. A woman can be ‘on the fence’ about you, thus properly seducing her should be enough to raise her attraction, and get a date. This isn’t possible with someone who has no attraction towards you at all.
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:29 PM
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This is what seduction has always been about...you can’t seduce someone who isn’t in to you.
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:22 PM
1

Cool and all but idk why you’d be going for someone about to get married. You can say her man is this and that, but it doesn’t matter, she chose him not you.
/r/seduction04/11/21 03:55 PM
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You don’t know how attraction works if you think you need to speak to them in order for them to be attracted. Sure, a conversation can be an easy way to tell, but so can extended periods of eye contact. You’ll have a higher success rate if you go for the ones whom have your attention to begin with.
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:49 PM
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That’s ridiculous honestly. If you approach 700 people and can only lay 3, it’s because you’re not taking the time to assess the attraction of the other person.
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:38 AM
2

Weird ass measurement scale there ‘out of 5’, but yes I agree. It’s never the goal to get a woman who isn’t into you to suddenly like you. That’s not how seduction, or anything relevant works for that matter.
/r/seduction02/11/21 10:05 PM
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Wow. Worked up over this one. You cant change what you have no control over. Why waste energy pondering about some fish hole who has yet to contact you, when there’s others who are willing to? Lose the oneitus.
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:31 PM
2

Bro, why the fuck are you doing an extensive breakdown like this? No offense, but you probably know next to nothing about what attracts women. And as others have said, you’re engaged a year and a half into dating someone. It better be a picture perfect relationship because that’s incredibly stupid. Seems like you have more to learn.
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:30 PM
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Just gotta accept it and move on. You can’t change what you can’t change, which is what has already occurred. From here on out, do yourself a favor, and no matter how long your dry spell lasts, try only having sex with women who really blow your socks off. It makes all the difference in the world. I had a buddy who I would go shoot the shits with in downtown bars and clubs. This man would fuck just about anything. He wouldn’t give you that information up front...it’s just something you had to ob…
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:06 PM
0

Well that’s lame. I feel really...spoiled I guess? My ex (whom I still love and talk to) and I just...have amazing sexual chemistry. I’ve never had better sex. I imagined that’s what having sex with an older, more experienced woman would be like, but I guess it’s really just dependent on the person. Some of these young girls really know how to fuck
/r/seduction22/10/21 12:56 PM
1

Thankfully I’ve only had regretful sex once. I’m also 22. I’ve also done a lot of stupid shit that I don’t regret per say....but maybe would do differently if given another opportunity. That’s cool though man! Sucks that it wasn’t that great, but to be honest I’ve kinda wanted to lay a 30 something just to try sex with an older woman. Was this your first experience doing so?
/r/seduction22/10/21 12:48 PM
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It’s not a weird experience. Is this your first girlfriend or something? So she told you she has commitment issues. Okay, FINE. So date, have fun, hook up, and don’t mention ever getting into a relationship with her unless she does. That’s all you have to do. Don’t fall in love with her. Can you do that? If not, I would look somewhere else. Because in other words, it seems like she’s looking for something casual. If you aren’t, this won’t work well. In the meantime, however, like I said, just ha…
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:56 AM
1

This is usually a sheit test to see if you’ll message her before she does. Easy to pass, but I’m sure a lot of guys don’t lol..which is why she does it.
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:36 AM
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As you may have guessed..it’s not about the song. Always assume if a girl is reaching out like that, she wants to see you. What you do with this potentially new information is up to you. Edit: after 3 years, she’s almost certainly back after some chad broke her back a bit and dipped
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:33 AM
1

Most women don’t like the idea of bi/curious men. Can’t blame them. Most people are straight, heterosexual beings. Of course, there are people who don’t mind, but they are not the norm. Naturally, things may be a bit more difficult for you.
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:17 AM
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I’m 21, somewhere around 12. It’s definitely not what it’s hyped up to be. I’m glad for my experiences, but I wish part of me didn’t do some of it to ‘fit in’ and appear to be ‘doing well’ amongst my peers. Women are great, but they can be very distracting for any young man trying to build his future. I’m learning these things through living.
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:39 PM
1

Absolutely not. Anyone can find a partner.
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:17 AM
2

He’s not sending mixed messages, he’s giving hints. Anything that’s not messaging her to meet up is games. Women do these things all the time. Few men will give up sex and the woman entirely if he enjoyed everything there was to offer. Wouldn’t take it personally, everyone experiences rejection.
/r/seduction11/10/21 11:11 PM
2

If you see the world through that lens then yeah, it’s no surprise you aren’t successful with women. It’s better to be arrogant than to be defeatist. Gotta change your mindset if you have any hopes of getting laid buddy
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:40 AM
1

Count me out
/r/seduction03/09/21 02:53 AM
3

3 is only true if you have no self control and no self awareness.
/r/seduction03/09/21 02:52 AM
1

I told her that I wanted to be with her, but that I’m not going wait around for her to make up her mind. And this is where you dropped the football. You don’t ever tell a girl this until she has confided already that she wants to be with you. It’s feminine to ask these questions. I wouldn’t text or call her at all, if she’s interested she’ll reach out to you.
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:48 PM
1

Enjoy it for what it is. If you can’t, open up about how you feel about her, and get declined. Remove your feelings for her - find a woman who actually wants to be with you.
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:38 PM
2

I can attest to this, Corey Wayne is the best dating coach on the internet. Truly a hidden gem of our world.
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:24 AM
2

Wow bro your self-esteem is near zero. Like really? (Your username). If you think you’re a loser, you think any woman would want that? As a 21 year old who’s had 11 ‘bodies’, including a current girlfriend, I can tell you that you need to stop giving a f. And I know it’s hard, I’ve been in your shoes. I actually lost my virginity at 17, and at that age I thought I would be a virgin for the rest of my life. It’s just something most young guys go through until they make it happen. Don’t beat yours…
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:23 AM
1

Being a virgin at 21 really isn’t rare at all. What you should do is listen to some of the comments, especially the eliminating the ‘need for sex’, because it makes you desperate, which makes women run from you. Be calm, cool, and collective about it. I’ve had sex with 11 partners, currently 21, and I have girlfriend now. Biggest advice I can give you is to put yourself out there, make yourself a bit uncomfortable. What helped a lot was having friends who knew each other and knew girls. Now that…
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:15 AM
1

Wow
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:37 PM
1

Yup, that’s exactly what my experience was. I wonder if that’s a form of narcissism.
/r/seduction29/08/21 04:01 PM
1

Uh huh
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:03 PM
3

Sorry you feel that way. Doesn’t change the reality of it. There’s always outliers, which I acknowledge. We don’t make the outliers the norm, however.
/r/seduction29/08/21 02:38 PM
4

Can’t even tell you how many times I’ve been out and seen couples, and the girl just stares at me so intensively...I can already tell where that relationship is going soon lol
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:13 AM
2

I did. Watch the video.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:56 AM
1

You’re laughing at your own idiocy, way to go idiot.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:50 AM
2

You sound retarded
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:47 AM
1

Okay idiot, well I gave you a video of the inventor telling you exactly how it works, and what it cannot do, which is assess viral infection. If you want to continue to be a dumbass, that’s of your own accord. You also don’t sound very intelligent. Are you like a little teenager or something? Lol. No wonder why you can’t grasp a simple concept.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:29 AM
1

You must not have a brain between your eyes. The own creator could tell you otherwise, and you’d still be an idiotic brainwashed moron.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:22 AM
1

First of all, your propaganda ‘fact check’ site says nothing about the PCR test. Only trump, which I don’t care about. Secondly, you cannot use a propaganda site, meant to purposely disinform the reader (you), about how science works. Try again.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:20 AM
2

Okay, so I guess this guy, who fucking made the test, is lying when he said “you can find almost anything in anybody” because of the way it works. It’s not meant to be used to assess viral infection you fucking idiot Edit: in case you haven’t had enough, here’s your own beloved Anthony Fauci discussing the flawed nature of the PCR test Anything else you want to be proved blatantly wrong about?
/r/seduction29/08/21 06:57 AM
2

I guess the inventor of the PCR test is a conspiracy theorist too, because he said it cannot assess and diagnose viral infection.
/r/seduction29/08/21 06:44 AM
2

With a test not testing for a virus. Gotcha.
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:40 AM
2

Okay...’don’t disagree more’ then. My question to you is: how do you know they had covid? Masks and face shields provably don’t work against viral transmission, so I’m more inclined to say they were not sick at a level of transmissibility, and you’re largely LARPing
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:03 AM
3

I think I’m gonna do without porn from here on out. Masturbating though...that might be a dif story
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:47 AM
4

She knows how you feel about her, that’s why you asked for her number. It’s obvious she’s interested, otherwise she wouldn’t have agreed to the date. These little nuances that guys glance over get them killed. Makes women roll their eyes. Like no shit she’s interested.
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:54 AM
9

Your vibe. If you’re a nerdy ass bitch own it. Trying to appeal to something particular will throw you off. Just have a good time bro, that’s it.
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:52 AM
3

Unbelievable. People don’t wear these things because they offer protection, they wear them to feel that illusion, whilst also appealing to anonymity. I wonder if we’ll ever go back to normal.
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:45 AM
3

I’ve only had one friend do that shit. Must’ve been feeling some sort of superiority complex until I put him back in his place.
/r/seduction28/08/21 11:39 PM
1

You’re 54 and never thought you could get STDS from oral sex? Yikes.
/r/seduction28/08/21 11:37 PM
10

Yeah but if you don’t care then it doesn’t matter. I don’t care how anyone sees me. Maybe it wasn’t the best way to respond to the situation, but it’s what I immediately went for and it always worked (because it has happened multiple times). I’m not an asshole about it, I just call him out on his shit. Like why are you doing that to a homie?
/r/seduction28/08/21 11:31 PM
20

I had a friend who would try to call me out and put me down in front of people. It was always when I was shining, feeling good about myself and the place I was at, etc. I would always just immediately spit back at him and say something like “yo what the fuck are you doing? Why you gotta be acting like that in front of all these people?” Etc. It seems like some guys constantly try to be ‘the biggest man’ in the room, and when there’s another ‘threatening presence’, they lash out. Usually it’s not…
/r/seduction28/08/21 11:25 PM
1

11
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:04 PM
90

Then stop hooking up with multiple girls. If you want to hit it raw, find one girl, build an emotional connection, and see where it goes. There’s always risk with new partners, or even just people you see casually. Especially single mommies, they love validation.
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:48 PM
1

Well best of luck to you. Most of us guys don’t ‘have it’, it takes a very long time for many, and I’d say many never really do figure it out. If you’re really interested in learning how female attraction works (which will really help you out), I’d suggest watching Coach Corey Wayne on YouTube. There’s a lot of dating coaches, and pick up artists, but this man teaches flawless information that truly does work.
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:08 PM
4

Then that girlfriend probably didn’t have great sexual chemistry with you. My girl is amazing at what she does. People pay for less of a performance than I get for free. I couldn’t deal with a woman who doesn’t try in the bed.
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:36 PM
3

While I’d agree and say sex is overrated, sex is sooo much better with someone you’re close to. You guys can communicate about your wants, and be completely comfortable while doing so. Sex with an escort is not where it’s at - not that I’ve done it, but for me personally, I prefer to have a connection if I’m gonna have sex with someone. This is also why I can’t bode well with casual hook up culture.
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:34 PM
1

I think maybe you should, it’s been three years! 🤣🤣
/r/seduction28/08/21 11:18 AM
1

I never said that makes it the definition, where are you getting that from? Try to stay on track. You’re in a seduction sub, and I assume you’re a man, interested in women. If that’s the case, then understand that women see compliments as bribery, unless you know how to do it correctly...not all the time, really mean what you say, etc. Women get called beautiful all the time, pretty much from the time they come into this world. So, what makes your compliments any more significant than the guy at…
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:46 AM
3

It seems to be the case that the guys who are the most successful care the least about these things. They are simply enjoying themselves, and won’t care to say something stupid to a girl because, well, she’s just like anyone else after all. However, being a virgin, or extremely inexperienced, you’re pressed about these things. Therefore, your interactions with women will be more conscious of how you come off to them. This in turn will prohibit you from simply having a good time, enjoying yoursel…
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:08 AM
1

It’s all about the fairytale in their head. Women who are really into you, get really mad when you’re not being a masculine and secure man..because it doesn’t align with their fairytale of being swept up and held by a strong man. As far as everything else...yeah pretty much. It’s like with virgins..I see so many virgin guys on this sub say: “I told her I’m a virgin, now she won’t answer me. Did I screw it up?” Uh yeah you did because you made yourself look not very valuable in the sexual marketp…
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:55 AM
2

raspy dick sucking voice heeeeeeeeey Lol. yeah. Sluts are cool for a little bit, until you realize they have no long term potential, and that you’re largely wasting your time with them.
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:45 AM
1

You should be able to enjoy sex by not fucking a new person every month. If not, you probably have issues.
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:14 AM
1

Yeah I mean, being overly judgmental isn’t good, and maybe I was here: to think you can be a rampant slut and face no consequences is idiocy, that’s all I’m saying. If you’re an 18 year old with 100 sexual encounters, people are going to be a little put off. Why? Because it shows you have no self respect, which is indicative of other problems, usually psychological in nature.
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:54 AM
1

Nnoooo...they engaged with my post, not yours. See how that works? Stop being an apologist for your shitty post.
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:02 AM
1

Aww, you’re just bitter from our previous exchange. I must have struck pretty deep for you to return to my profile a mere 12 hours later.
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:01 AM
2

Can I not practice seduction and not be a slut? You’re not too bright.
/r/seduction28/08/21 03:39 AM
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Um, no, everyone is not a slut. That’s a result of the conditioning of our hyper-sexualized society. You will struggle to bond with one partner in a long term relationship, and every new dick you take will make it more and more difficult. This is why, I imagine, most men and women in these new generations will end up single and miserable.
/r/seduction28/08/21 03:28 AM
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Being a slut is not something to be proud of LOL
/r/seduction28/08/21 03:19 AM
1

Great. It just so happens that I’m a busy man, and women chase me while I’m pursuing my endeavors. I try to share what I can with others. I know I’m above average, so it’s probably a little easier for me than others, but the core concepts stay the same.
/r/seduction28/08/21 03:04 AM
1

Playing games and having a sense of how women work are two different things. Try to be less closed-minded.
/r/seduction28/08/21 02:13 AM
1

Great! That means there’s consensus about what works and what doesn’t, more of a reason to adhere to them.
/r/seduction27/08/21 10:26 PM
2

When to make strong eye contact? Whenever you can man! Just don’t be a creep about it. It’s actually better if you notice a woman looking in your direction, to look elsewhere, and casually back towards her - if she’s making eye contact with you, that means she’s very likely interested sexually. You know, you can really communicate through your eyes’ gaze. If you’re thinking “wow, she’s so damn hot, I would do some really nasty things to her”, while you’re making eye contact, she’ll probably pick…
/r/seduction27/08/21 10:19 PM
0

They aren’t mind games, people have devoted their whole lives to figuring out how female attraction works, and we get to enjoy the fruits of that labor. Say what you will, but it has worked quite well for me. There’s way too many men to count who “are just themselves”, and struggle intensively to find women to even bat their eye in their direction. But, again, thanks to devotion, as well as trial and error, we know what basic principles are involved in attracting women - and beyond that, how to …
/r/seduction27/08/21 10:09 PM
2

You need to establish yourself as a sexual, romantic partner, and not a friend. Yes, it’s great to make the ladies laugh. But if you never advance on them beyond that, then you’ll just be their cool guy friend. If you really like a woman, then let it be known. Ask her out. Make strong eye contact. Tease her a little more than the other girls. Etc.
/r/seduction27/08/21 10:00 PM
1

Chasing women is not what a dominant man does. Sure, he’ll go for what he wants, but a dominant man will be busy pursuing his mission and purpose in life. Surely, there’s nothing wrong with asking a woman for her number. However, when it comes to long term relationships, or even casual dating, women should be the ones pursuing and initiating most of the time. Women will do it naturally as their attraction level raises, and less so when it drops. They want to feel their men, so they reach out and…
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:42 PM
1

That’s also a good one! Nice.
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:38 PM
2

Bro.... what?
/r/seduction27/08/21 08:46 PM
12

Compliments are seen as bribes for sex most of the time, so no, probably not. Women want to feel that they’ve earned it, which is why they enjoy men who aren’t constantly telling them how hot they are. They know.
/r/seduction27/08/21 08:02 PM
3

People don’t like the truth, or they just hop onto what everyone else does like band wagon dick riders lol. Such is life.
/r/seduction27/08/21 07:59 PM
2

Less is more with texting, or with seeing your SO. You cannot be missed if you’re always there with them. They have no time to wonder about you, if you’re always hitting them up, always hanging out, etc. Don’t get me wrong, I love seeing my girl. But when I’m busy working throughout the week and don’t have time for phone calls, texts, or hanging out, it’s always so much better to finally see and hear from her. Her interest is always through the roof, and she just makes everything easy for me. Th…
/r/seduction27/08/21 06:44 PM
1

You must be an idiot then and not know what projection means.
/r/seduction27/08/21 06:05 PM
1

Yes, I will.
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:08 PM
8

There are reasons why men are advised not to take advice from women about women. The advice in the post stands firm, but thanks.
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:07 PM
1

I asked for suggestions on videos to watch, not advice on how to act with women. Hello?
/r/seduction27/08/21 04:24 PM
1

Dude, I know, I do watch what I want. I have a hot girl, and always do what I want. I’m just asking for suggestions on good content, that’s literally all. Idk why everyone feels the need to assert their advice when I don’t need it lol
/r/seduction27/08/21 04:21 PM
6

You definitely did not fix it, hence why no one is engaging with this. I actively use all of those points and I’m very successful with it. So, how is any of it misleading myths? You’re probably just not attractive enough.
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:55 PM
9

There’s a lot of tall guys that certainly don’t get laid. This is ‘feel bad for me I’m a little bitch’ behavior. I’m average height and I couldn’t care less about it, I have plenty of success.
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:52 PM
1

Depends on what you want
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:50 PM
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No, every sub is an echo chamber for covid masks and vaccines. Men and women are on this post in agreement. Also, I don’t really care for agreement or not, because I know what works for me. You’re some rando hating on my advice for others. I will still continue to get laid and be successful with hot women. You can be cynical and unsuccessful for all I care.
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:49 PM
1

Should’ve figured out when you’re going on a date. Stop being a texting buddy. When women reach out to you, assume they want to see you.
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:38 PM
-2

Your lack of perspective and understanding isn’t my fault. It is a good post, and many people have agreed to that. Go be a crab somewhere else.
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:35 PM
3

Hey look, you made a dumbed down version of my post exactly, including the title. Nice!
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:31 PM
1

I understand what you’re saying, and these things can easily become apart of who you are. There’s no need to act ‘inauthentic’, it’s called experimentation. If somethings working, you’ll do it more, and it will eventually become part of what you do. Right? I’m confused where there’s disagreement. Trying new things (like this guide) does not equate to being inauthentic. If a guy who has absolutely no game tried it, he started becoming a little more successful, he’ll probably do it more and more, …
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:24 PM
2

Sorry, it’s not non-sense advice. You can make these things apart of who you are. We can ‘be ourselves’, but all people are flawed, and should aim to change for the better, in accordance to what they want. If your goal in life is to be attractive to women, then this is it. Not all men are attractive to women for ‘being themselves’, so they need to learn of new material and methods in order to become more attractive. There’s nothing wrong with it frankly. Women like what women like. You can debat…
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:14 PM
3

I’m not going to trust you, I’m going to trust what I’ve been doing, which is not manipulative or deceitful, like I said countless times. You can find someone who ‘accepts you for who you are’ if that’s what you call it, I’m going to let women chase me and be head over heels because of it.
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:10 PM
3

It means you have a scarcity mindset. You really shouldn’t care whether you did or not. Look at the logistics, look at the fact that you have to ask us which probably means yes. A guy with plenty of options, or if he understands his value, should not really care much whether he ‘fucked up for good’ or not. It’s this behavior that might actually get her back.
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:03 PM
2

Oneitus!
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:59 PM
-1

Yeah, again, it’s all about being light hearted, witty, so forth. It has nothing to do with manipulation, or deceiving. Rather, when asked “Are you dating more women?” “I always have room for another girlfriend”. Or “Why? Do you want to be added to my roster? I’m looking for a star player actually, this is perfect.” Something along the lines. That’s way more fun and exciting then “no, I can’t multitask.” That’s simply boring and predictable. Again, I’m not encouraging people to be deceiving or m…
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:57 PM
6

Thanks for your words. I know in an ideal world, 50/50 communication might make sense, but women do like to chase. I would say the golden zone is about 70/30, which seems unfair, but like I said - women enjoy to chase. Let me be clear here, because some people get confused - women enjoy to chase men they are with, or have an emotional connection to. Not random stranger men. Just had to clear that up. In every relationship, exists the idea that one person likes the other more. It’s simply always …
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:54 PM
6

Exactly..you’d think this is rocket science for some people. Jeez.
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:45 PM
0

I mean, yes, but ‘being yourself’ can lead to incredibly needy behavior, and other things which turn women off. No one is saying don’t be authentic. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be conscious of other things in order to keep her attraction level high.
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:44 PM
2

Then you guys should have a great relationship
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:42 PM
2

That’s not what #3 is, it means to not always be so direct. Be light hearted, fun, make her wonder, “beat around the bush” sometimes. If you’re like a robot and answer her questions exact then it’s simply boring and who wants that
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:40 PM
1

I don’t think you get it
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:38 PM
3

It’s less about what you say, more about how you say it. Also, not sure what anecdote you’re looking for...it’s a mindset shift.
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:53 AM
-10

It actually is helpful. Learn how to read female attraction. Your failure to understand women isn’t my problem.
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:51 AM
5

Okay. How about this. I’ll go be ‘insecure’ if that helps you sleep at night - you go fantasize about things that will never happen while you refer to yourself in 3rd person. I must agree with the overwhelming consensus of those who have acknowledged you prior - you’re lunatic. I know every woman dreams of being treated like a princess, and being romantically involved with someone they think is their world..but you fundamentally need to change the way you think if that’s ever going to occur.
/r/seduction27/08/21 08:02 AM
2

You’re so cringey it’s unbelievable. Good luck with your ‘coffee shop’ guy. If he knew that you break up with people in hopes that they chase you to get you back, I’m sure he’d nope right the fuck out of that situation, like any man with a pair of nuts would do. Seriously, you should consider a psyche evaluation. Good luck fr fr
/r/seduction27/08/21 07:54 AM
5

You’re the definition of a female incel. Go find an actual man, not a bitch. If you want to use intelligence, go back to the subject of debate, and attack the actual argument, not me, which you continue to do here.
/r/seduction27/08/21 07:49 AM
3

You just love being presumptuous and wrong about everything. Good luck in life. Try having a positive attitude for once.
/r/seduction27/08/21 07:42 AM
5

Tread carefully when getting advice from women about women. They don’t understand themselves largely, and most are fooling themselves to respond to this in a defensive manner. As a man with success with women, you’re way too fucking invested. Who cares? You lost your virginity, congratulations. Never say anything about it again to another woman. Save it for convos with the boys. Move on from this one, she doesn’t want anything serious, it seems like you do. She asked you when the last time you h…
/r/seduction27/08/21 06:49 AM
4

You’re exactly spot on about it. Any woman who’s in her feminine and understands the dynamics between men and women would personally attest to this. This leads me to believe the commenter in question gets bottom of the barrel and is resentful because of it.
/r/seduction27/08/21 06:37 AM
2

Kinda seems like the start huh! 😂
/r/seduction27/08/21 06:20 AM
7

You sound bitter and resentful. What happened in your life to make you this way? I respectfully, not defensively, dismantled your argument, showed how you were wrong, and you resort to ad hominem attacks, continuous assumptions, and more of your asserted, unwarranted perceptions which have no basis in reality. That aside, my way of attracting her will work with any woman who has a high level of attraction for me. Whether you want to assert your opinion of that or not doesn’t matter because I’m s…
/r/seduction27/08/21 06:07 AM
7

You’re completely confusing not only what I’m saying, but you’re also asserting your own perceptions in, which are unwarranted. Firstly, I don’t have a lot of money. So there debunks your first point that Eastern European women will settle with ‘any guy’ with money. It’s simply not true. That aside, she’s American born. Extremely attractive Russian girl who all the guys gaze upon here. You sound jealous of Eastern European beauty lol. Secondly, women do chase men! It happens a lot actually. And,…
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:51 AM
-21

How about..just take your fucking mask off? Jesus Christ.
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:41 AM
3

What?
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:36 AM
8

Respectfully, women don’t even know what they want. I’m gonna stick with what I know to be true, because it has helped me maintain relationships with high value, and extremely attractive women, some of which are Eastern European, or from other parts of the world. I can promise you, a guy constantly initiating conversations with you is not a guy you’re going to be interested in for long. It’s just how it works. You can tell me I’m wrong all day long, but it works and I know I’m not wrong.
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:34 AM
9

Sorry, but this is based on tested results. I know what I’m talking about. You don’t become uninterested in a guy you’re head over heels for, and you will chase him. It’s how it works.
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:22 AM
-8

If you’re doing everything correctly, she will chase you 75%-90% of the time. No need to be careful if you know what you’re doing.
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:20 AM
1

;)
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:04 AM
7

Shit I don’t even like the video
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:50 AM
1

Do exactly the opposite: have a POF mindset, don’t chase anymore.
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:32 AM
4

Nice, yeah I love that too. We usually watch try not to cringe videos or other funny compilations, just curious to hear from others.
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:31 AM
3

You don’t want to sleep with a girl who lets you with little or no investment, trust me. You can be hot and attractive but you still have to create an emotional connection. Until that happens, you gon’ be ‘astrugglin
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:51 AM
2

Who cares what you think lol
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:48 AM
2

Thanks for this.
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:02 AM
1

Shut the fuck up
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:51 PM
1

Yeah, because I’m the one who chose to go through your comments and assert myself in your discussions. Typical projection and idiocy from people who think like you.
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:49 PM
1

I’m not clicking that you fat goon
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:36 PM
1

Whatever helps your fat ass sleep.
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:31 PM
1

Whatever helps your fat ass sleep lol
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:29 PM
1

Sorry, I hardly acknowledge fat bitches. So I definitely won’t be doing that.
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:26 PM
1

Whatever helps you sleep fattie.
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:24 PM
1

Tell yourself whatever makes you sleep at night fat whore
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:22 PM
1

Wow, look at all that bullshit I’m not reading. Thanks for wasting your time 🤣
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:18 PM
1

Yup. That’s what I said. Thanks for your expert insight, you should go shove some donuts in your fat mouth now and be proud of your internet victory!
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:11 PM
1

I’m sorry, but your stupid ass opinion on me caring or not doesn’t change anything. I don’t give a single fuck what some stupid fat bitch says. Sorry your angry and bitter about it, maybe you should try working out and not sitting on Reddit all day. I can get away with it because I’m young, healthy, and good looking. You cannot.
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:10 PM
1

I’m sorry, but if you think I care about what some fat ass ugly bitch says on the internet about my sexual performance, you’re severely mistaken. Enjoy being a disgusting piece of shit.
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:06 PM
1

Jeeez you really think I read any of that? I really don’t give a fuck what you say. I’m young, healthy, hot, and so is my girlfriend. You’re a fat disgusting piece of trash, and you want others to be miserable like you. No thanks.
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:04 PM
1

Aww, I really struck a cord calling you a fat bitch. It must be true :(
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:59 PM
1

I didn’t change the subject, I decided to go talk to other people about other subjects, and you decided to assert yourself. That’s your fault, not mine. At any point you could return to the original conversation.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:57 PM
1

Didn’t I say nothing you say is based in reality? Yeah, it stands true here as well. Keep talking out of your fat mouth bitch, all I hear is ‘gabble gabble gabble’ lol. You’re disgustingly fat probably, that’s why you get a kick out of trying to bring others to your shitty level
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:57 PM
1

I didn’t actually once say that, I was simply making an inference. There’s simple logistics as to why it’s wrong for old to date young.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:54 PM
1

So, because you lost a formal and logical debate, you resort to attempted emotional abuse. Don’t think so? You’ve said you enjoy deliberately being a nuisance. You must be a shitty ass person.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:53 PM
1

Gross. Good for you. I’m content with the fact that nothing you say is based in reality, therefore it doesn’t matter what you say. Go tend to your boyfriend fattie.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:52 PM
1

Right, like I said it was, when you decided that some non-comparable analogy somehow disproved my point. Way to go.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:49 PM
1

Okay, you can say that if that’s what you believe, but it takes two to tango right? That means you’re also unable to disengage from conflict. Good logic there dumbass
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:48 PM
1

I imagine you’re a severely obese woman, and this is how you cope with your shitty life and the fact that no one wants you. I’d hate to be you too.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:46 PM
1

Yeah, you can do that. Just don’t try to deny it, like you tried to. Now we can point out the fact that only a big fucking loser would do such a thing. Get lost.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:45 PM
1

I didn’t say that, did I? I was pointing out the fact that it was not coincidental, and that you’re following me around the site. Try to pay attention to what’s being said, without, again, asserting your stupid ass perspective and opinion.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:42 PM
1

Dude, it’s over. I’m not having this discussion with you anymore. I already said, you have your idiotic opinion, and I have mine.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:42 PM
1

You’ve never posted in seduction - it’s not coincidental, you’re being a loser because you have absolutely nothing better to do, than to be a nuisance. You’re right, I don’t have to keep replying, I just think it’s funny that I’m living rent free in your head - to the point that you follow me across this website and try to assert yourself into my conversations. Who the fuck does that? Get a life Jesus Christ.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:41 PM
1

I’m not having this discussion with you. Stop following my comments please, you must be the biggest loser in the world if that’s what you get off on.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:38 PM
1

That’s obviously not what I was referring to you idiot
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:36 PM
1

Your opinion has no basis, so why would I continue arguing with it? You think it’s okay to prey on little girls, I don’t.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:33 PM
1

No, you decided to follow me across Reddit into different communities, where I’m having irrelevant discussions comparatively to what we were talking about. You lost the debate, get over it, go get a boyfriend.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:32 PM
1

I really don’t care to, isn’t that obvious? You have your opinion, I have mine (which most people share). Good day.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:31 PM
1

Okay, so you have all the content in the world to involve yourself with - why are you following my discussions? You need to grow the fuck up. You lost the debate because your lack of intelligence, now you follow me around because you continue to be butthurt. Please go get busy doing anything else.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:30 PM
1

Yeah, no. There’s a reason why most people date their age, or a few years above or below. That’s normal. Preying on younger individuals is not normal. Doesn’t matter if you’re a man or a woman.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:27 PM
1

Okay, so you’re just going to assert yourself into all my discussions now? Please grow the fuck up, holy shit
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:26 PM
1

That was a shitty ass example, actually. So you didn’t showcase anything. It’s weird for an old man to date someone who could be his daughter. Most people agree, which is why most people look at him like a pervert. The mixed race couple is a stupid ass analogy - you might get some people looking, but most people will not acknowledge that as being ‘weird’, that’s a figment of your imagination.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:16 PM
1

It clearly shows most people are in agreeance that it’s not normal. Can you try to use your head?
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:13 PM
1

I mean, if you’re in your 30’s and 40’s and can only get younger women (who gravitate towards older guys anyways), then you’re a loser. If you don’t think a 40 year old and 20 year old girl going out wouldn’t get shot strange looks, you’re tripping bud. And why would they get strange looks? Because it’s fucking weird, and the dude is a loser in all likeliness.
/r/seduction26/08/21 05:59 PM
-1

The fuck are you talking about? You’re a loser if you take advantage of younger women, that’s all there is to it.
/r/seduction26/08/21 05:52 PM
-5

Nnnnah, age gap definitely matters at certain stages. Preying on 20 year olds is not it bud. I would say, if you’re an old dirtbag and are wanting a younger woman, then 25+ is your range. Anything less is..disgusting and prey like.
/r/seduction26/08/21 05:51 PM
0

Yes, everyone knows that. Doesn’t mean it’s a good idea to act on it. If you want to hold yourself back then by all means do it, and I’ll call you a loser when I see you.
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:06 PM
0

He was clearly trying to convince her..hence him saying.. I insisted let’s talk in person about this And What should I do ? Come on buddy, I know what the fuck I’m talking about. My advice stands correct, but thanks.
/r/seduction26/08/21 11:04 AM
0

I still struggle to bat with the idea that any woman in her early 20’s should be in a long term committed relationship with a dude in his 30’s. Sure, it could work, but most of the times it doesn’t. Surely, the 30 year old will be ‘pulling the weight’ financially, and perhaps in many other senses. It’s simply a lack of life experience. Any 30 year old dating 21 year old women is an absolute loser in my mind. If you can’t date women closer to your age, there’s probably a reason for it. I see what…
/r/seduction26/08/21 09:53 AM
1

Sorry, but no. Yes, women mature quicker than guys. That being said, tons of women in their young 20’s just want to fuck around and have fun. Maybe they’ll enter a relationship for a bit, then leave the relationship and fuck around more because they don’t know what they want. You can be an apologist for these young, ‘mature’ women, but it simply isn’t the case. She is not in the same life stage, and won’t be for several years at least.
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:47 AM
0

Yeah, I had a bit of a cough last week. It lasted a few days, admittedly the sickest I’ve been in years (which, was hardly at all). I’d say wait until the cough subsides, then you should be chillin. Should only be several days max, not a week and a half. Then you can take some of the kitty cats out and you’ll be slayin in no time, no text bullshit
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:16 AM
-9

Do you have covid because you took the fake test for it, or because you’re genuinely sick (with the common cold)? Either way, quit being a bitch. When you feel fine, go out on the date. It’s like saying ‘i have the sniffles, and can’t go out for almost 2 weeks’. It’s dumb.
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:11 AM
3

You should stop trying to convince her to like you, because it doesn’t work. Best thing you can do literally is to stop talking to her and move on to date other women. If there’s any chance of getting her back, it is this right here.
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:11 AM
21

I’ll be the devils advocate here: two completely different stages of life. I know these dudes love to say...”two adults! If she makes you hard go for it!” Which is what an idiot who thinks with his dick would say. I’m sure you’re infatuated, but in retrospect: this girl is hardly an adult, who recently got out of school in all likeliness. Probably knows nothing about making bill payments, probably doesn’t know what she wants in life, so on and so forth. This would be an instance, in my opinion, …
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:07 AM
-1

Well, you have to create some form of emotional connection first. Assuming that has been achieved, you can’t be chased if you’re doing the chasing. This translates to: you shouldn’t be texting and calling every day. If you’re only calling once a week to organize date plans, and her attraction level is high enough, eventually she will start calling (chasing) you, and boom, you now have a girl chasing you.
/r/seduction25/08/21 05:48 PM
1

Bump n grind
/r/seduction25/08/21 04:36 PM
2

Sometimes everything goes right, and sex still doesn’t happen. That’s why you shouldn’t expect sex to happen. Just hang out and have fun, when the time is right, y’all will hook up too.
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:18 PM
9

Like I said, if you can’t treat her like a fuck buddy, which it doesn’t seem like you can because you assume she’s ‘wifey’ material, then yes, you should run for the hills.
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:13 PM
2

Just say what’s on your mind brother. I’ve sat there and rejected 3 girls in a night by simply saying no. An easy let down is ‘I have a peculiar taste’, or something along the lines.
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:56 PM
3

It’s not definitive. You should have said ‘meet me at my place at 9’, now you’ve waited a whole day and no time. Night is too broad, 8pm? 1:00am? Like someone said, you could text her the time and leave it at that, if she doesn’t confirm then consider it dropped.
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:47 PM
4

If you can’t treat her as a fuck buddy or FWB, don’t bother wasting your time lol. RUN for the hills, and don’t look back.
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:41 PM
5

‘Oh cool peace out’ Why does there need to be some kind of retort? If she was into you she probably wouldn’t say that in the first place
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:39 PM
6

No it is not important
/r/seduction24/08/21 01:55 PM
3

I’m dating a Russian girl. Her parents moved to the US from Russia. 1) Very submissive, and very feminine. 2) Very kept with hygiene 3) Extremely beautiful, but does have insecurities We’ve been together for about 2 years. It’s been a pleasant experience, and I’d be open to dating other Russian women in the future if things don’t work out with her.
/r/seduction23/08/21 11:54 PM
7

Well people break up and get back together all the time. I’m not saying it’s a good or bad thing, but clearly she is still thinking about him given the fact that she’s playing the social media games. They’ve been in no contact for 2 months as he said. She wouldn’t be doing that if she wasn’t playing with the idea of him in her head.
/r/seduction23/08/21 03:06 PM
7

Well dude, it all depends on what you want. I’ve turned my ex into a FWB. I could’ve blocked her, but since I wanted to retain some sort of relationship with her, because I enjoy and appreciate her as a person, I didn’t, and it worked out quite well. To each their own. You wouldn’t be wrong for doing things that way, but I know most guys would want their women back and blocking them is not the way to do that.
/r/seduction23/08/21 03:04 PM
1

Nice, I kinda figured you’d ran into Corey Wayne by you talking about raising her attraction. It’s truly great material, it has made me wildly successful with women in general. It will put you miles ahead of your competition, just take it seriously and read the book multiple times. Also check out his YouTube channel.
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:58 PM
3

It will definitely contribute. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. When you withdrawal, she starts to think and wonder about you, which raises her attraction. If her attraction is too low, she won’t bother. But seeing that she’s doing the social media bullshit tells me she still cares and thinks about you. If she calls you, then it’s okay to talk to her. Otherwise, don’t. And when she reaches out, assume she wants to see you.
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:53 PM
8

He’s actually not. Blocking her shows he cares. It shouldn’t matter how he’s seen to her. But yes, best to just leave it be, especially if there’s hope for a relationship in the future.
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:50 PM
2

Correct, you handled it correctly. Don’t give her a reaction, she wants to see that you care still.
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:49 PM
1

I said I’m glad it’s working for you, more power to you. For me, I’d rather do it naturally and find some women eye fucking me and smirking. Why swipe for hotties in your area when there’s hotties in your area not doing that shit? Lol..to each their own
/r/seduction22/08/21 12:33 AM
0

I’d rather not put up with the bullshittery. The chances of going from match to date is pretty slim. Even if you know what you’re doing. Reality is, most women on there have an inflated sense of theirselves and therefore their standards. Not saying it’s their fault, they have thousands of thirsty dogs at their fingertips. In translation, you have way higher odds of pulling the hottest women on OLD in person, than on OLD itself. I’m speaking from personal experience having used both OLD and doing…
/r/seduction22/08/21 12:14 AM
1

‘try guys no homo’ yes that’s homo, no thanks
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:14 PM
1

No thanks
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:11 PM
2

Do it yourself with people you meet out
/r/seduction21/08/21 10:59 PM
0

I like all this, except dating apps. If you’re in a new place, then you should be exploring it. Going to new restaurants, and so forth. This is where you’ll meet women, not on shit dating apps that are heavily skewed against men. Make friends > meet their friends > chix Exploring the city > chix
/r/seduction21/08/21 10:57 PM
0

bin there dump that
/r/seduction21/08/21 08:35 PM
1

As someone who never engages in text convos. It works quite well for me. The phone is to set up dates, not get to know each other.
/r/seduction19/08/21 05:58 PM
1

Then stop being a bitch..lol. I have my ex wrapped around my finger still because I stopped caring. We love each other yes, but there’s no way I’d retain a relationship like this if I was blowing her up constantly, texting her and asking how her day was, or anything. That’s for her beta simp orbiters. I’m the one she calls when she needs some dick.
/r/seduction19/08/21 05:18 PM
3

You care wayyyyy too much. Results come when you stop caring.
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:48 PM
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I don’t know why dudes think it’s ever a good idea to tell a woman they’re virgins before having sex lol...no one wants to hear that shit
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:42 PM
3

Definitely depends. I think women do go through dry periods but not usually lasting as long as a guys dry period.
/r/seduction17/08/21 04:14 PM
2

Come on bro...always assume women want to see you when they reach out to you. 9 times out of 10, when a woman says ‘wyd’, she wants you to make plans to see her.
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:47 AM
2

Lucky
/r/seduction17/08/21 12:10 AM
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He’s suggesting if you stop making them the center of your world, work on your self-confidence, and learn how attraction in women works, then there’s a good chance women will approach you, not the other way around. That’s how it works when a woman is into you...they can’t help themselves...attraction is not a choice.
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:13 PM
2

Mine shrunk 11 inches..lucky:(
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:05 PM
2

Finally some real advice. Thank you. Good luck with the 6th ouchie!
/r/seduction16/08/21 10:04 PM
-2

But I’m fundamentally scared to leave my house. Should I just watch porn and be an angry incel?
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:48 PM
-3

I know right?
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:42 PM
3

Hmm, not bad not bad. I won’t even go out with a girl unless she has at least 5 masks on and 5 coVid shots. Bucket of sanitizer in the car and a mask over the front of the vehicle of course so covid doesn’t get in through the air vents. I also carry Clorox wipes everywhere I go.
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:32 PM
1

Satire you talking about?
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:26 PM
2

If you’re an average looking guy, yeah probably.
/r/seduction16/08/21 06:24 PM
1

Gotta think bro..if a repulsive looking woman asked you out, would you say yes? I mean..you might. I wouldn’t. People have standards, there’s nothing wrong with it. Women know in just a few seconds whether or not they are attracted to you. Don’t get upset about it..even attractive people struggle in the dating scene. All you can do is work on yourself, and yes work on confidence. Whoever said that doesn’t work is bullshitting.
/r/seduction16/08/21 01:42 PM
2

You care wayyyy too much bro
/r/seduction16/08/21 10:37 AM
1

Didn’t I say when an old man and young woman go out, people look at them and clearly acknowledge it’s weird? That’s pretty much the argument. Most people think it’s weird. Maybe you don’t, because you aren’t a catch to older women. Who knows! Most people don’t think it’s okay to date someone twice your age unless you’re genuinely mature and have experience in many things. Someone who’s 18 does not, sorry.
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:54 PM
1

Men like younger women, doesn’t mean they should go for them. They should be seen as eye-candies, not dating prospects.
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:52 PM
0

Who said that’s okay either? Technically it’s lawful...yeah. Doesn’t mean it should be encouraged or tried though. You see a 30 year old and an 18 year old together, you get looks. Maybe you can justify it, whatever. To most people, it’s simply weird, because it is. It might last a year or two and someone finally realizes how fucked up the dynamic is.
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:37 PM
2

Generally, that’s the idea behind dating. You date to see how long the relationship lasts, to see if you can add value to each other’s lives, and so forth. This is why adults don’t date children, for example. Not only is it morally wrong to us, but children have nothing of value to add to an adults life. No different here, she’s a child and he is not. It’s gross, and telling of him as a person. What 30 year old wants to take out and flaunt a 17 year old? No one does. That’s like..bottom of the b…
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:34 PM
1

No, it isn’t, you’re just incapable of understanding the difference.
/r/seduction15/08/21 08:13 PM
13

You’re 29 and dating a girl who is 17? Jeez bro grow up
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:08 PM
5

Because ‘getting gains’ doesn’t mean shit when it comes to being a man. That’s what it’s about..being a man, not putting up a front because you can’t get laid. You can be 6 foot, weigh in at 280 lbs of solid muscle, and that doesn’t mean fucking anything if you don’t know how to attract women. I’m on the skinny side. I do have a solid pack, but I’m far from the strongest guy out there. Yet, I’ve plenty of success with women. It’s about being a man, not being ripped.
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:37 PM
1

The idea of seduction is to get to the bedroom, it’s not a guide on sex. So I’d have to disagree with you again. You can be god awful at sex and still be amazing at your abilities to seduce women to the bedroom. See the difference?
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:31 PM
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I’m not hating on anything, it’s stupid. That’s what it is. I don’t care what you think about it. I didn’t ask Reddit how to choke a girl, I learned by experiencing it. Thanks for being the seduction saint, but no one asked for your pussy explanation on behalf of OP. This has nothing to do with seduction right? Who cares what I say, this post shouldn’t even be here.
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:12 PM
-2

How the fuck do you think you do? So tired of the infancy on here
/r/seduction15/08/21 02:50 PM
1

You must’ve skipped the part where I said talk to her, build sexual attraction, and so forth. Way to read between the lines Sherlock.
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:56 AM
1

They make it easy for you
/r/seduction15/08/21 02:44 AM
2

Glad I wasn’t the only one hahaha, cat got her ass up gahaha
/r/seduction15/08/21 02:42 AM
3

Laughed way too hard at this but yes. My man always speaking the truth hahaha.
/r/seduction15/08/21 02:37 AM
13

What the fuck is this? Women will clearly signal to you when they want sex from you...first they will gaze at you, then maybe play with her hair and look away and smile, then you need to talk to her. While you talk to her, you can build sexual attraction by using body language, word play, humor, and so on, to which if done correctly, she will want to have sex with you. There is no ‘asking for consent’ in this process..it happens naturally as two people are / become attracted to each other.
/r/seduction15/08/21 12:09 AM
1

21M here..never went to college, had & have plenty of action. Make friends, go places, be yourself.
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:12 PM
0

No offense, but you shouldn’t take any dating advice from women, maybe aside from your mother.
/r/seduction14/08/21 11:40 AM
2

Jeez ladies..guys really don’t know what tf they are doing huh?
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:32 AM
1

Bro just turn the conversation from whatever it is to..hey it would be awesome to hang out, I know some spots around the town that I really enjoy, when are you free? Get a number, get off the app. Just gotta think, there’s probably 100 other dudes trying to do the same thing..if you’re too slow, you get slept on.
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:30 AM
1

Yeaaah I mean, I think you get the gist in these comments. Essentially, you’re doing way too much for someone who isn’t reciprocating. It’s better to be short and ‘boring’, than to offer up ‘too much’ and come off as an annoyance, or someone who has no clue how to attract women. Break the ice, get a number, get off OLD. I hear you, I’m more of a catch in person than texting too, but that doesn’t mean you should try to have an in person conversation with someone on the phone, especially a chick w…
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:22 AM
1

Then they likely aren’t interested..say have a good day and move on.
/r/seduction12/08/21 12:59 AM
2

Anything you can say or do to make them laugh, loosen up, exchange with you, etc. There’s so many possible examples, it’s hard to give you one. The best way is to say something relevant to the situation, such as “Wow, this bar is pretty neat. What are your thoughts?”. I mean, there’s countless ways to do it.
/r/seduction11/08/21 08:49 PM
1

You break the ice...like you would with anyone else.
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:18 PM
2

At parties, if they are displaying interest, I’d say go for quicker sexual escalation. Try to get her to follow you to a quiet part of the house or whatever, and make some moves on her. This is what women mean when guys don’t do this, they say you’re slow, you’re not strong, etc.
/r/seduction09/08/21 01:31 AM
7

Dude, she clearly wants something casual. If you can’t handle it without falling in love, do yourself the favor now and keep looking for someone else.
/r/seduction09/08/21 12:59 AM
1

Oh cool, I haven’t tried FB dating.
/r/seduction08/08/21 11:27 PM
1

You can approach anyone who gives you an invitation. Learn how to read people...learn how to read women. You don’t need a woman’s perspective, you need a man’s perspective who is successful with women.
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:49 PM
3

Not true. If you know who to approach, you’ll have a pretty good success rate. As in, girls noticeably checking you out, those are the girls you go talk to. You can ‘cold approach’ random women, but yes, way harder. Best thing to do is to go out and enjoy yourself, and be aware of potential women checking you out. If they are, it goes without saying. That’s the idea of cold approaching, in my opinion at least, if you want to have results. Sometimes a girl you see won’t notice you, usually not wo…
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:15 PM
2

Where?
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:00 PM
1

That’s how I ended up in my last relationship. I’ve been hit on by a lot of women, it’s nice when you can pick and choose who you want to be with...I definitely don’t say yes without second thought lol, unless she’s obviously someone I’m quite attracted to.
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:58 PM
1

Yeah bro, it’s called enjoying yourself and not sweating women. Cool that you found it out but that’s all it is.
/r/seduction07/08/21 06:23 PM
1

Kinda true in my experience....
/r/seduction07/08/21 03:20 AM
1

Yeah that sucks man. I’ve been there too lol..couple days after getting the license. Wasn’t my fault but it sucks. Good luck, hopefully there weren’t injuries, that’s the most important part.
/r/seduction07/08/21 12:44 AM
8

Yup, happened to me once. I wasn’t crazy about her, but I was enjoying myself. We were driving and she clipped the medium. Waited with her to get a tow truck, and that was that. She was really sad that she thought she blew things. I never did end up hanging out with her again. Shit happens.
/r/seduction07/08/21 12:23 AM
1

Right lol
/r/seduction06/08/21 11:30 PM
1

No you don’t.
/r/seduction06/08/21 09:49 PM
0

You’re 21 years old...nothing should happen to you. My point stands still..for many many reasons. Anyways, good luck with your venture. Be level headed. Don’t make women your priority.
/r/seduction06/08/21 09:11 PM
0

Just gotta put yourself out there bro. College or not doesn’t matter. I’m 21 and I’ve had multiple partners. If you hide out with all the antisocial kids, well, don’t be surprised when nothing happens. At the same time, find a balance. Guys who want to pussy chase probably won’t be bothered with their studies, and vice versa with the antisocial nerdy nerds being on top of it. Glad I didn’t go to college, I probably would’ve gotten lost in pussy. An expensive mistake I’m sure. Plus, you have to t…
/r/seduction06/08/21 09:04 PM
1

Wow, no one has an answer for OP? She likely doesn’t think you like her, or she’s not enough for you. Hence: Only problem was my dick wasn’t in the mood and Since that happened she doesn’t want to try it again. You’re also probably chasing her more because she doesn’t want sex now. A lot of this is testing because you made her uncomfortable. Don’t be fooled, a bed is nice, but she’ll fuck you anywhere if you’re doing your part right. Gotta be more of a man. Ask her directly, “What’s going on hon…
/r/seduction06/08/21 12:20 AM
0

Alright well when you guys develop feelings and eventually hate each other don’t say you weren’t warned
/r/seduction06/08/21 12:08 AM
0

Lol..ever heard of platonic? That’s what most people think of when someone says ‘friend’. If I were dating you, for example, and you wanted to ‘hang out with friends’, who happened to be single men, considering how you see ‘friendships’, I don’t think you could have a healthy relationship in a trusting sense. Most people realize crossing those boundaries with real friends often ruin the friendship in the long run....
/r/seduction06/08/21 12:05 AM
0

I wouldn’t call those ‘friends’, I would call those ‘fuck buddies’. You don’t have sex with friends lol
/r/seduction05/08/21 11:54 PM
1

His pipe is wack
/r/seduction05/08/21 07:16 PM
3

Maybe you’re not giving as good of sex as you think
/r/seduction05/08/21 07:15 PM
1

You’d consider sex with your guy friends...this is why no one trusts women and men being friends, lol. Nonetheless, if you don’t want to have sex then don’t. No one thinks you’re weird for it. There’s this idea in America where you have to have casual sex in order to be fulfilled in life, I think it’s the opposite. The more sex you have with rando’s, the more of your essence you give away. So yes, make it worth it.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:52 PM
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Good luck lol
/r/seduction05/08/21 01:33 AM
1

Go to one of the trillions of pizza shops and say hey to a woman.
/r/seduction05/08/21 12:00 AM
1

What would you consider an effective way to make more friends? Really, you just have to be open. Be willing to strike a conversation with someone. Talk about anything you want to. You can kinda gauge whether or not that type of person is someone you can see yourself being friends with. If you think you could, you just ask them if they’d want to hang some time. Go do your hobbies! Even if it’s by yourself. It might be a little lonely at first, but it’s good to pursue what you love with or without…
/r/seduction04/08/21 11:59 PM
2

Having a social circle that lifts you is incredibly important. Not vital, but it will make your life way easier. You can definitely get it going on your own too though. You just have to be out there. If she gives you the signal, be ready to do what you gotta do.
/r/seduction04/08/21 11:22 PM
1

I totally understand where you’re coming from. Especially the last part about seeing guys who don’t at all seem like a catch with hot ass women. It strikes deep. Personally, I grew up without a strong masculine man. Biological dad left, couple others along the way. Largely, I have to learn how to be a man on my own, which is damn hard. The biggest part of being a man is exactly opposite of insecurity - it’s security. Being so sure, you’ll defy the odds of anything happening that is other than wh…
/r/seduction04/08/21 11:08 PM
2

I’ve been that guy. There was a cute girl my best friend wanted, and she ended up having sex with me twice. I felt bad about it, but it wasn’t so direct and obvious like it is here. I’d reconsider if you want this guy in your life.
/r/seduction04/08/21 10:35 PM
1

To each their own brother. Live your life how you want. In my opinion, life is too short to be worried about not going for what you want versus losing a job that is likely replaceable.
/r/seduction04/08/21 10:14 PM
2

It’s pretty obvious. Don’t invite your friends to hang out with a girl unless she’s in love with you.
/r/seduction04/08/21 09:56 PM
2

A lot of people fuck co workers. It’s a great way to pursue the opposite gender. What if all your hobbies are male dominated? If you get fired for sexual harassment, it’s because you have no social intelligence at all. Fucking your best friends girl is not a logical comparison to seducing the stranger you work with. You sound bitter because none of your co workers would fuck you.
/r/seduction04/08/21 09:53 PM
3

The last paragraph is pretty much it. Anyone who says dumb shit like that probably just fumbled the football and would blame anything but themselves for the situation.
/r/seduction04/08/21 09:50 PM
1

Well, it sounds like you have nice features that I know a lot of women are looking for. The problem, clearly, is in your lack of self confidence. That’s why you get the ‘quit being a bitch’ advice. It’s not anecdotal, it’s the truth. You will be rejected. You have to be unphased, and realize it’s part of the game. It seems like maybe you’ve been rejected a handful of times and you assume no women want you, and it simply isn’t true. I was not successful in high school. Not because I didn’t have t…
/r/seduction04/08/21 09:33 PM
4

Yeah man I mean, you being a virgin or not doesn’t define you. This ‘anxiety’ you talk about is a fallacy in your mind because you’re preemptively worried about how you’ll be seen. A) it shouldn’t matter how you’re seen, and B) it should only come as a surprise to the woman after you’ve made sex happen, if you feel the need to tell her at all. When I had sex the first time, I didn’t tell her that. Jesus, especially not prior. I’m sure maybe she inferred that because of how quickly I came, and ho…
/r/seduction04/08/21 09:21 PM
1

It’s certainly not the case for everyone. So learn the information, and apply it to your own life to get the results you want. The other alternative is wallowing in self pity, which no woman wants. Hence, why most men are suffering. They are unwilling to be honest, and open minded in trying a new approach. It’s not, not ‘living in the real world’. Not sure how that assertion is even possible...I provably get women, so that’s my thought process coming to fruition in the real world. If you’re too …
/r/seduction04/08/21 09:03 PM
1

This just wreaks of ‘I’m not good enough’, which rightfully so, woman you try to go for will agree with you. What you fail to realize is, despite the attractive guys she may be talking to, very few men actually know how to successfully attract women. Like...3% of men know how to read women, understand them, and gauge their level of attraction. They want one of those guys. If he’s hot, it’s a big bonus. I’ve seen plenty of attractive women with not-so-attractive OR rich men. They must be doing so…
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:42 PM
1

If she thinks you’re a 6, then you have a chance...wouldn’t you want to fuck a hotter girl, than a girl you’re hardly into? She’s getting all this useless validation...yes....she’s waiting for a guy to come along who is different, and who won’t sit there and validate her all day long. That could be you. And that’s what makes her attracted to you. You’re the one guy not bending over backwards for her. “It’s not for everyone”. Not for guys who would rather wallow in their pity because they don’t k…
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:24 PM
1

If you think any woman is out of your league, there’s an issue. And personally, I only go for women who make it hard because of their attractiveness. They have plenty of options. Why would I settle for a less attractive girl?
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:13 PM
2

If you want to avoid the dreaded ‘simp trap’, then move on because this one isn’t interested.
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:12 PM
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No one wants to date someone they aren’t attracted to...obviously.
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:11 PM
1

Well attraction isn’t a choice. It’s true, if a woman thinks you’re a 9/10, she will make it easy for you to fuck her. If you’re a 5/10, you have to work harder for it. It’s not fair, but it’s life. Suck it up and work on your personality. Don’t let women use you for validation. It’s easy to do that - don’t talk to them on the phone all day, and stop giving them soyboy-esque compliments. They see that as bribery for sex. Good luck champ.
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:50 PM
6

Obviously you’re not the only one. I thought I’d be a virgin for a while, but lost it senior year in high school. Since then, I’ve learned quite a bit about how to successfully lead the interaction back to the bedroom. First and foremost, you being a virgin, is not something you should allow to wreak through your discourse. In other words. If it’s obvious that you’ve never been laid, no one wants that. ‘Fake it till you make it’. Carry yourself confidently, and it won’t matter whether you’ve bag…
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:48 PM
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You already have no chance if you think she’s ‘out of your league’. Guys who are successful see themselves as a prize - they don’t put women on pedestals. You fundamentally need to change the way you think if you’re gonna try approaching a woman who has tons of options.
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:45 PM
0

It’s true and false. A guy for instance, who is attracted to a woman, can ‘be friends’ with her, but will always be hoping to be the next man in rotation. This will become evident through the way he treats her - becoming a super duper nice guy, and ultimately, a simp with no chance. Same thing is true for women who are attracted to males that they ‘have no chance with’. The falsity of this claim is, moderately attractive men and women can be friends and not hope to have sex with each other. It d…
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:41 PM
2

I had a woman pay for our date, then take me back to hers for a good time. Last girlfriend asked me out. Yes it happens, typically it’s because their attraction level is 8.5/10 or higher.
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:32 PM
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All the guys struggling to get girlfriends are guys sheepishly hoping to get a girlfriend. Focus less on that, more on how to make yourself a better man. Yes it gets lonely, but that makes the inevitable all the more worthwhile, so be worthwhile yourself for that eventual partner.
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:29 PM
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Imagine going through an extensive guide, only to learn OLD isn’t worth it for 95% of people. This is foolish, just go outside. Save your writing skills for prospective jobs.
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:26 PM
0

If you have to rely on a Reddit post to get laid in NYC you’re fucking up
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:25 PM
1

Can’t be a simp. Women will talk to you on the phone all day long. The men getting laid are the ones asking them out. I rarely talk to my girl throughout the day. She’ll call, we’ll talk for just a couple minutes, and make arrangements to see each other in that time. Snapchatting, texting, FaceTiming all day, that ain’t gonna cut it and you’ll be friendzoned.
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:24 PM
2

Whenever it’s appropriate man. You’ll see beautiful girls, but it just won’t make sense to go for them given certain circumstances. It’s best to take what comes your way. Focus only on things immediate to you. Please don’t stop your car to talk to one walking, she will think you’re a massive creep and have her guard up big time. If you’re standing in a food line, and there’s one who walked in behind you or such, that’s much more appropriate. Unless your game is on point, do not try to pull these…
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:22 PM
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It’s called be more confident. Not caring what others think. And so forth. ‘Self rejection’ is a pitiful mindset you have that tells you that you aren’t good enough. You manifest it, and women agree with that sediment. It’s a perpetual cycle. Again, stop giving a fuck what others think. You will be rejected, so come to grips with it. Make a good comeback, or simply shrug it off, and move on. It’s a numbers game - attractive men get rejected every day, and will continue to be so until they find a…
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:19 PM
1

Just ask her out bro, stop talking to chicks on the phone if you aren’t. If she doesn’t want to, then she’s fucking with you and you should stop calling.
/r/seduction04/08/21 02:55 PM
3

Unfortunately you’ve had plenty of time to seal the deal and didn’t, so she’s probably assuming you’re not interested. Don’t be fooled, girls at that age are freaky. They want sex, and if they don’t get it from you, they’ll get it from someone else.
/r/seduction04/08/21 12:49 PM
1

Wtf LOL. You don’t want to be a simp...
/r/seduction03/08/21 05:21 PM
3

Well you seemingly can’t get what you want, which is a LTR..so maybe you should be less arrogant? I offered you advice, take it or leave it, or end up single and miserable.
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:05 AM
2

Hey holy shit how true the last part is LOL
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:52 AM
5

There’s a fine line between the douchery, and the reassurance. Reality is you’re losing your ability to bear children, which is a big no for many men of all ages. I’m sure you may still be attractive, albeit less (assumingly) than you were mid twenties. Dating someone even 10, let alone 20 years older comes with a host of other problems, consider health, etc. Best bet is to look for guys who either don’t want kids or date someone your age not on tinder. Oh, could also be high standards as someon…
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:50 AM
1

I feel that at 21...at least I’m not alone? Though I will do fine with the ladies, so I’m not bothered by that. Just...rough livin’.
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:45 AM
2

It’s his fault, not hers. He sounds like he has no idea how female attraction works.
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:44 AM
6

Correct. Guys hate it, and shouldn’t put up with it. But, you’re only having sex for free under selective circumstances. Most of the times, you’re gonna have to spend some money to make things happen. A way to look at it too is - if it was easy for you, then it’s probably been easy for someone else too. If it’s harder, fewer guys want to put up with it. I think most women can have high attraction and still wait for a few dates, but beyond that is ridiculous. Then again, man’s fault for not havin…
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:39 AM
1

This is crazy lol. The dude has no idea how female attraction works, so we’ll see where this ends I guess. If you’re gonna give him a chance, then at least be a little more open and direct, maybe he can work towards attracting you better. If not, I would let him go because you ‘aren’t ready’ for it but you’d probably have a one night stand if the circumstances were different. Figure out what you want.
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:33 AM
2

It doesn’t really matter how long you’ve been together. The longer, the harder, in my opinion. If you guys were gonna do long distance, you should’ve just broken up. If there came a situation in the future where you guys became available in person again, then you could become exclusive again. It’s hard, but like you said, communication is everything in this particular instance.
/r/seduction31/07/21 01:46 AM
4

You’re gonna have a very hard time ‘closing’ the relationship back up, IMO. Not saying it can’t be done, but usually it doesn’t work out that way.
/r/seduction31/07/21 01:37 AM
2

Agreed. Better to spend time developing your independent self. Maybe start mid-late twenties, which should be nearly 10 years post hs. I think it could be very beneficial.
/r/seduction30/07/21 10:15 PM
2

Just gotta keep going out and doing the things you enjoy. Unfortunately these things take time, but it gives you plenty of time to continue practicing skills that will help retain your next relationship. Keep your head up man, many people feel the same way.
/r/seduction30/07/21 08:41 AM
2

Same situation here, though I’d accredit our not-being-together to our independent situations. But yeah, we manage to still hang out and hook up. Sometimes I have to exhibit willingness to walk away, which time and time again has typically proved beneficial in raising her attraction. I became complacent in the relationship, which probably ultimately contributed to where we are now. She grew bitter over time. I think she comes back because she really wants me to be who I was. The hardest part is,…
/r/seduction30/07/21 08:08 AM
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You’re trying to be logical and reason with her, that’s not how it works. I thought I made it clear that you shouldn’t be texting her like that. Ask for the date, say nothing. Try it next time.
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:50 AM
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Hang out, have fun, hook up.
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:43 AM
1

I agree with all, except women want to pursue. I was dating a girl like he’s describing for a while, and she was crazy about me. Every other guy pursued and got rejected.
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:22 AM
1

Well having a clear intention is helpful. But this is more of a case of ‘treat all women the same’. Most guys choke up and act out of pocket when talking to a woman that really knocks his socks off. But notice, the women he doesn’t want, wants him. Don’t treat them differently because of their looks, it’ll take you much further.
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:14 AM
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Why are you texting her if you’re already going on a date? That’s the issue.
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:02 AM
1

Well yes, ball is in her court when you say ‘Let me know when you’re available’, but the text conversation as a whole should be presumptive that she wants to see you. That’s not ‘ball in her court’, that’s simply a shift in your communication. It’s assertive, it’s dominating, it’s taking the lead. The only time you’ll fail in this presumptive mindset is if she never was into you in the first place. Any girl willing to give you a shot will go out with you given the mutual understanding.
/r/seduction28/07/21 11:55 PM
2

Given the string of texts I saw, no, this was not one of those ‘rare’ instances. In a rare instance, they will still do their best to offer a counter-meetup day. It’s straight forward - if you like someone, you do what you can to see them. And it’s never hard. All the obstacles, the roundabout communication - it’s quite clear. I don’t disagree with the last two paragraphs, though it’s better to assume in this case she’s not interested, so you aren’t caught up on someone who isn’t, or isn’t clear…
/r/seduction28/07/21 11:49 PM
2

Yeah man I mean, the convo from your side seems unworthy of her time. “Question! I’m offering up this information you never asked for, you down?” Like I said. Ask her when she’s available, and shut up. She might make it really easy, and say ‘next Friday’. Maybe she’ll make it a little more challenging, and say ‘I’m busy these next couple weeks’. In the second instance, which is what you received, the only way to potentially get her out is to say, ‘Let me know when you’d be free to get together, …
/r/seduction28/07/21 11:42 PM
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I would have asked her when she’d be available to go do X. If she gave you anything other than an actual day, she ain’t about it. The way you put it (hit me up if you want to do something) is usually a turn off, because she’s likely already doing that now. You can get away with stuff like that with a girlfriend, not with a woman you’re trying to get out on a date. Know for next time..after you’ve broken the ice and get to the part where you’re trying to get her out with you, ask her *when** she’…
/r/seduction28/07/21 11:22 PM
1

In rare instances, this is true. Comment stands valid - a woman with high interest will make herself available.
/r/seduction28/07/21 11:16 PM
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Like the top commenter said, if her interest is high, she will make time for you. Chances are, you’re back burner material (to her), maybe because of the failure to ask her out sooner, who knows. Date other women, if she comes back, cut the short bullshit text and Snapchat convos, ask her out because that’s what she’s expecting and looking for.
/r/seduction28/07/21 11:15 PM
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Well, yeah.. I’m probably 7-8/10 male depending on who you ask. I get looks from some pretty damn hot women, almost anywhere I go. The case is this: The more attractive you are in the eyes of the beholder, the easier it will be for you, made by said beholder. You can have ‘off-game’, and still have pretty high odds. The closer to 10 you are to the woman, the more shit you’re able to get away with. You have to be at least a 5/10 to the woman, otherwise you have no chance at all. Being a 5/10, you…
/r/seduction28/07/21 11:03 PM
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Irl will beat OLD any day. Very nice, in depth, and interesting post / break down, but still - I have a near 0% chance landing the same woman I got a number from at the bar. Different problems for men and women, but it shouldn’t be your only source of meeting the opposite sex. It’s no wonder why so many singles are depressed out there - getting bad suggestions for meeting people, which never comes to fruition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:38 PM
1

Yes, develop new hobbies and make new friends. Like I said, hobbies and friend circles. It won’t happen playing video games obviously, so play less. There’s tons of hobbies, I have no idea what you like. I enjoy the outdoors, so I enjoy camping, shooting, etc. Surely, I could go to the range and meet a woman there. Or it might be whilst shopping for camping gear. Who knows! If you really want practice, hit the malls and start conversations with women - even ones you don’t like / aren’t in to. Fo…
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:02 PM
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I would avoid dating apps. The biggest things are growing your hobbies, and making new friends / friend circles. Those people will know people who know people who may eventually lead to your girlfriend. It’s not easy man, but you just gotta keep going. It’s going to take a lot of uncomfortable situations, and rejections. It happens to all of us. A woman will not magically make you happier, trust me, so develop your own mental fortitude first. Lose any sense of desperation - understandably, but y…
/r/seduction27/07/21 10:01 AM
3

Go anywhere dude. Maybe the bar/club isn’t your scene. Maybe it is. Only way to know is to try it yourself.
/r/seduction27/07/21 09:55 AM
12

You don’t need to drink to get girls...
/r/seduction27/07/21 09:50 AM
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What the other guy said. Just start conversations. Compliment if it’s genuine to you. Don’t worry about looking like a creep - who cares what they think?
/r/seduction27/07/21 09:50 AM
1

Practice
/r/seduction27/07/21 04:54 AM
1

I remember when me and my ex were having sex all the time, it got to the point where I could last upwards of 30 minutes, even more. Sometimes I had wished I could cum earlier lol. I know she enjoyed it though.
/r/seduction26/07/21 10:46 AM
2

Women don’t like flattery. Good idea, imo, to save it for few instances.
/r/seduction26/07/21 10:42 AM
0

Yes, largely true. Men tend to age better too.
/r/seduction26/07/21 10:36 AM
2

Not sure why you’re asking women for advice lol. Take a mans advice: don’t use it. You’re better off going out, doing things you like, and meeting women that way. It takes some balls but has a way higher success rate.
/r/seduction25/07/21 05:03 AM
4

Can confirm.
/r/seduction25/07/21 01:44 AM
10

Yoooo I’m 21 and now single...you must’ve broken up around the same time as me because now all I want to do is fuck new girls 😂 going in to 22 wish me luck
/r/seduction24/07/21 07:32 PM
0

If you can’t treat her as a FWB, don’t bother.
/r/seduction24/07/21 06:37 AM
0

Probably because they want to settle down with a guy who will take care of them. Maybe you give them the beta vibes
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:14 PM
2

Well he probably was, lol. Cheers.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:40 PM
1

Doesn’t really seem so when you’re spending so much time looking her up on the internet, looking at multiple different social media accounts, followed by a thorough post on an Internet forum. But that’s just an outsiders perspective.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:39 PM
1

I never said be dry and ask for a date, I said break the ice with her to make her feel comfortable, then ask for the date at some point soon after. Try not to twist my words. You absolutely do not have to be ‘charismatic’ on the phone in order to get the date. I’ve been there plenty of times, I think I know what I’m talking about.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:37 PM
1

I’m in the seduction sub so I can help people be more successful in dating. I’m trying to help you not fester mentally on someone who clearly has no interest. Take it or leave it dude.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:35 PM
1

Here you go again, looking too much into things! I’m sorry that you’re butthurt because you were denied. It’s wreaking through this post, I just thought I would mention it. You care too much.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:31 PM
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Okay, then yes, I agree with that. There’s no definitive answer to how many texts you need to send to make her comfortable. Too many can be bad, too few can be bad. But if you do it right, ie., break the ice, get her to feel comfortable with you right off the bat, you could certainly secure a date that same day, or in very few texts.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:30 PM
1

He doesn’t need to be charismatic or flirtatious in these interactions, he only needs to break the ice (pique her interest), and she will likely be open to meeting him from there, assuming he doesn’t ruin his chance by texting her too much. If a woman is into you, she will make it easy for you, and that’s the bottom line.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:24 PM
1

Well, as others have said, you care too much. She’s not ‘playing games’ with you, so why are you wasting your time here?? There is no psychology lesson to be had. You sound desperate because you’ve spent what sounds like hours looking her up on the internet. You’re either infatuated because you were denied, or you’re simply desperate and cannot move on. It’s silly, considering how successful you are with women.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:22 PM
1

You did not just say that, no. You’ve been arguing against the very point i’m making, which is that phone communication should be brief and to the point.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:20 PM
1

Okay...you still don’t get to know people over the phone. You break the ice, chat for a bit, and set up a time to get together. It’s that simple, and nothing else should be considered.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:13 PM
1

I never said I was a teacher, I said I simply offer help, and many have received helpful information from me in this sub. If you’re such a catch and successful with women, again, why are you dragging your balls over this one in particular - to the point of writing out a desperate post on r/seduction? Just curious.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:12 PM
0

Because I help guys like you who are needy and desperate. This post screams ‘I’m needy and desperate’.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:07 PM
0

Well this post certainly doesn’t make you look like an alpha, does it? I could never imagine making a post like this, especially if I knew I had another date lined up LOL.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:04 PM
1

Again, it is not needy. I don’t care if it’s online or otherwise, you don’t use the phone to get to know someone. Break the ice, chat for a bit, ask her out. It can totally be done same day, and no it is not ‘needy’ behavior, it’s called going for what you want as a man.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:02 PM
1

This is NOT a field report dude. You got denied and that’s it. If you really have girls banging your line like that, I highly doubt you’d be caught up on this one particular girl to the point of making this lengthy post, and still denying the fact that you can’t get over her.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:00 PM
1

It’s about seduction, and psychology relating to seduction. That’s not what this is, you simply got denied and you’re caught up on her because you have oneitus....just move on dude. And who could benefit from this post? No one.
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:53 PM
1

I’m not mad, I’m being real with you. Just move on, why are you wasting your time making a post for someone who doesn’t care about you?
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:47 PM
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No, this is not a snap shot into the mind of a woman who cancelled on you. She doesn’t want you, so move on. This is what a loser does.
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:43 PM
2

No, it’s not needy actually. You set up the date, and get off the phone. You don’t use the phone to get to know people.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:50 AM
10

If anyone believes that, they probably don’t get women.
/r/seduction18/07/21 08:33 PM
7

Cool....there’s nothing wrong with being impressed. It’s called, don’t look like & act like an idiot just because she’s beautiful.
/r/seduction17/07/21 04:12 PM
3

Take action if you want. I consciously choose not to, in an effort to the aforementioned, and it just works.
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:28 PM
1

What exactly are you talking about? Physically recoiled at the idea of focusing on your own self improvement, in which women will take notice of? Physically recoil if you will, but it’s helped me quite a bit.
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:05 PM
0

I don’t think it really matters, if you’re a 7/10 at least in her eyes. If you’re under that, you should not do that. If you are a 7/10 at least, she’ll make it pretty obvious, therefore really anything you do you can get away with to a large extent.
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:42 PM
3

Seriously...it’s a waste of effort, unless you can passively (patiently) wait, while scrolling through tons of hotties, for the slight possibility of actually seeing any of those women. This also presumes you have a solid profile, are better looking than most men to women who get the best looking men, and can successfully lead the match to an in-person dating experience. The reality for 90-95% of men with online dating, it does nothing but bring their self-esteem down, make them more horny but b…
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:42 PM
-2

I’ve never done that and I’ve had plenty of success...no thank you.
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:34 PM
1

This isn’t the sub for this question, but I imagine it’s not that difficult. Don’t use teeth, focus on the tip occasionally. Everything will come with experience, not asking questions on a ‘seduction’ sub.
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:02 PM
-5

Shitty approach. I never touch the woman unless she signals to do so...ie, intense eye contact, she’s touching me first, and so forth. Doing that, even if she is mildly interested, can turn her off. If you meet a woman you’re interested in, you should not already be thinking about how to bang her, you should be thinking about getting her out on a date with you. Secure a phone number, say the chat was pleasant but you’ve got to run, and follow up with a date later. Bad advice, do not listen to th…
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:43 PM
4

Dude..what the fuck?
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:27 PM
-9

Meh, I disagree still. You have to carry yourself like you’re worth something. Which yes, most men don’t do. You being young or old has little relevance, considering I’ve seen the full spectrum - young guys with no success, older guys with plenty of success, and everything in between. I’m still developing myself. I have a long way to go. Especially in my personal, tangible, financial life. Yet, I carry myself as if I am that extraordinary presence that has everything to offer. That’s the differe…
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:24 PM
-14

Meh, inaction is an action. Maybe I just don’t know what I’m talking about? I denied 3 girls last weekend, and funnily enough, I had absolutely no intentions that night of putting myself out there. Whereas most guys can’t even talk to one girl, I denied three. I’m talking in the context of men, not women
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:07 PM
2

I think ‘toxic masculinity’ is a bullshit term made up by people trying to enforce a message that being a man is inherently bad. Avoid the term. I’m very aware of some of the dom / submissive relationships out there. In those ‘weird’ instances like you said, that’s the direct result of the guy being the girl, and the girl being the guy. While it works for some, that’s far from the norm. Why do you think so many people are unhappy in the dating field today? So many failed relationships, marriages…
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:02 PM
0

Why couldn’t you use it to describe a person? As you said, which I agree with, masculine and feminine energies exist in us at different levels. So a guy with largely masculine energy isn’t alpha? Maybe, maybe not, I suppose it comes down to your own personal preference, but I don’t see the issue with that at all. I have no problem calling a sulking soyboy a beta, because that’s the traits he exhibits, which hinders his ability at getting women (because women are supposed to be the ones exhibitin…
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:38 PM
0

Well, believe it or not, they do exist. Alpha / beta is masculine / feminine energy. A guy who is needy, insecure, constantly seeks validation, is a guy exhibiting feminine energy, which has been shortened to ‘beta behavior’. It turns women off, because that is not how a man (alpha) acts. That’s how women act. A guy who is the opposite of those things is what we consider a masculine man, exhibiting masculine energy, or in other words, ‘alpha’ behavior. Surely, if you act like a needy bitch, no w…
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:24 PM
13

It’s not really the worst advice. Building social skills is important yes, certainly. The idea of “be patient, someone who appreciates you will come along” is a shortened version of “work on yourself, don’t worry about women because they will come”, which is true. Ideally, if you’re working on yourself, maybe you’re working, finding new hobbies, even going out by yourself. Almost all of these activities will be inclusive of women and therefore, put women on your radar. By not really focusing on …
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:14 PM
1

It’s not mind games, it’s a subtle change that makes all the difference. Girl is clearly interested, says we’re gonna hang out this weekend 3 or 4 days go by hey, do you want to hang out? Versus Girl is clearly interested, says we’re gonna hang out this weekend 3 or 4 days go by Hey baby, I’ve got a bottle of liquor and a nice spot on the beach, do you need a ride or can you be here by 9:00? Nonetheless, upon further inspection, the fuck up here was indefinite plans. ‘The weekend’ is too vague, …
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:01 PM
1

Funny how you loosely believe in Alpha / beta behavior, yet none of these girls want to ‘leash’ you.
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:55 PM
1

Maybe since you had the plans already, you shouldn’t have asked her to hang out, you should have presumed she wanted to already.
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:52 PM
7

It doesn’t matter considering we discussed this was a biological process.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:52 PM
1

It was not disrespectful. Every fucking man and his ballsack thinks he’s the best lay around. It is what it is dude, like I said, don’t get so offended so easily if help is what you seek. I’m very successful with women, both in the bedroom and outside of it. Guys fool themselves all the time thinking they can just ‘fuck a girl’ right into a relationship with them. Doesn’t work that way. Also, she’s emotionally unavailable, so just chill out and keep things casual until she brings up exclusivity.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:48 PM
3

I’m a man, and I’m trying to help you. Don’t get offended, I’m dishing it out as it is. If you want to continue being used as rebound sloppy seconds sex, then keep acting like you know it all and see what happens.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:43 PM
1

Don’t do it
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:26 PM
7

Seconded, realized my buddy was the reason the women were feeling uncomfortable. Going out myself this weekend.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:06 PM
4

You don’t demonstrate ‘authority’, you demonstrate masculinity by going for what you want and not settling for less.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:05 PM
3

funny how every guy thinks he’s hot shit in bed. If this were the case, she’d have jumped ship to you already. also, she’s not mentally prepared for a relationship obviously, so what makes you think you’re gonna get her to fall mentally? Further, women are emotional, not logical, so you’d want to get her to fall emotionally.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:00 PM
3

sorry dude, but no. you wreak of old man beta bucks. they’re gonna keep screwing me because I’m a young douchebag
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:58 AM
2

Why are you not sure? Women don’t like men who are uncertain. Quit being a bitch.
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:56 AM
2

women are biologically wired to change a man if he is alpha okay..I see where you’re going. What does this have to do with western women specifically then, since this is biological?
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:55 AM
1

This reminds me of the time I traveled to Dallas / fw and just drove around Texas. Beautiful state. Anyways, I remember running into a grocery store late at night in a small town and saw the checkout clerk girl give me a double take, so I walked over and called her out for it. I got her number and her interest was really high, we were texting for a while but I got busy and didn’t ask to meet up ever. It can be really easy, just have to not have fear.
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:56 AM
5

I’d give you an award if I had one, I love this. And very true. My banter is dogsheit, but I have good looks and good mindset + behavior. Way more important.
/r/seduction11/07/21 07:29 AM
2

You could be better at escalating, like said. Buuuut i also think it depends on the woman. Some women would prefer to be seeing you in exclusivity before making themselves vulnerable like such.
/r/seduction09/07/21 11:12 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction09/07/21 08:18 PM
3

Yeah for sure man. My problem 99% of the time is missing opportunities because I didn’t pull the trigger, or gently squeezed but not enough, so forth. Usually if I can get them on the date, it’s a wrap ;)
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:21 PM
2

Same here. But there’s so many chances still to go, it definitely isn’t worth stressing over. Every time I feel like I lost a fantastic woman, an even better one comes into the picture before I can even blink half the time. Don’t trip chocolate chip.
/r/seduction03/07/21 06:25 PM
1

Nah, I’ve done it before. Never came off that way, I just had no game lol.
/r/seduction03/07/21 04:53 PM
1

Don’t worry, you’re fully vaccinated? People are so stupid.
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:57 PM
1

Been there myself buddy. Didn’t get pussy until my last year. Good luck soldier ;)
/r/seduction02/07/21 11:08 AM
1

Good for you. You got this. Got lots of good advice here. Ultimately, just be yourself. Don’t over think anything. Hang out, have fun, hook up.
/r/seduction01/07/21 10:07 PM
3

Most jurisdictions in the US would consider this illegal. 17 can consent up to 10 years, 16 is 5 or something. Where I live, you’d be fucked. And yeah that’s kinda gross considering you’re twice her age. Be careful
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:42 PM
5

What comes around goes around mate
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:21 PM
1

This a million times hahaha. I recently hooked up with an old friend in the mountains because I had nowhere to go then :D
/r/seduction28/06/21 03:12 PM
3

Totally opposite for me. In school I got noooo attention. I mean, I could’ve if I went for it, but I didn’t know or was too scared. Now that I’m out of school, and have grown a lot since then into a much more confident man, holy shit. Anywhere I go, women check me out of all ages. Not to toot, I’m far from perfect. I’m still addressing my ‘game’. But it is pretty obvious. I think a bigger thing is being totally comfortable in yourself. Lots of guys go out in public with all these walls up, havin…
/r/seduction28/06/21 02:31 PM
2

The same way you do it in America or anywhere else
/r/seduction27/06/21 11:02 PM
2

Bingo
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:11 PM
2

Listen to this guy. My girl still has high attraction because I don’t play the talking-all-day-on-the-phone game. For other reasons too, but that kills a lot of you poor dudes without your realizing it. They’ll let you entertain them all day long, doesn’t mean you’ll be the one they want.
/r/seduction23/06/21 12:07 AM
1

Idk my girl is nastier than me so it works every time.
/r/seduction23/06/21 12:03 AM
1

Yeah you’re spot on man. I was beating myself up last night thinking about this very thing. Oh well, shit happens. We’ll get ‘em next time.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:47 PM
2

Same exact thing here. I got into a relationship for a while and lost touch with sexual attraction. Thanks for the pointer, I’ll give that a go. I tend to prefer my interactions to be in person but I think that can be a useful thing to try.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:10 PM
1

Yeah definitely I think this is the problem. I guess I just need to start being more direct about what I want next time. Could have women for days if I get this shit down.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:05 PM
10

Went to a club last night by myself and had a pretty good time. It didn’t end with me having sex, but I did have a pleasant encounter with a beautiful girl for a good chunk of the evening, plus she seemed really into me albeit drunk. Basically what I did was walk around and observe. I found a guy dressed well who was also by himself. We were both there for the same thing so we went on talking to different groups of people. Is it the best place to go? Eh. Probably if you don’t have any other idea…
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:05 PM
1

Lol yes op this is all you need to read. Now that she’s packing more fish she realizes she has to reduce her standards. Sad.
/r/seduction20/06/21 03:54 PM
2

Probably because you’ve been texting this girl for 2 months. Moving forward, stop wasting so much time ‘talking’ online, because you aren’t actually interacting or making connections.. If you start talking with a girl online, you try to get her out as soon as you can. Mmmmkay?
/r/seduction20/06/21 03:40 PM
7

Pretty good post tbh. The difference between asking for sex and saying it’ll happen is having confidence, being sure of yourself, and not being afraid of rejection. That’s the difference between an alpha and not.
/r/seduction24/05/21 01:54 PM
1

If a woman has a penis, that’s not a woman. Therefore, whichever ‘straight guy’ you know who hooks up with the trans girl is actually gay
/r/seduction04/05/21 11:42 PM
14

Ngl, if I realized instead of actually typing cute messages to me, my gf did all of it preemptively and automated it, I would feel slightly betrayed. So, I couldn’t imagine how a woman would feel about this..
/r/seduction04/05/21 11:39 PM
1

Wtf of course vaginas are appreciated, that’s why a lot of guys will pay for it directly. I personally love vagina, why would I not? I’m a straight guy. No, I don’t ‘idealize’ BBC’s and cocks, what the hell does that even mean? I’m happy with my member yeah.
/r/seduction04/05/21 11:37 PM
1

Over dinner?
/r/seduction04/05/21 11:33 PM
2

MO, slowly feel her body, maybe starting at the torso, then move down to her thighs. Kiss her neck too. This alone might be enough to make her grab your dick, then you know you’re in. Move closer to her pussy, rub it, albeit gently. Go back to the thighs, the torso, go back to MO, go back to neck kissing, work your way down to the pussy. Just repeat this and each time get a little more aggressive (or) sensual with rubbing her pussy. Of course, none of this is warranted until you guys lay down an…
/r/seduction04/05/21 11:18 PM
7

On the flip side of this, you’re also potentially disqualifying great men who, for whatever reason, don’t like to text. Maybe it’s because their personality can’t shine through? Maybe it’s because it’s incredibly easy to misunderstand and misinterpret text messages? Maybe because, contrary to what you believe, they build absolutely no value or connection in comparison to meeting in person, or even phone calls. Maybe it’s because if you’re texting to get to know someone, there’s little to no surp…
/r/seduction04/05/21 09:47 PM
1

Fair enough, gives me something to think about. Thank you.
/r/seduction04/05/21 08:40 PM
23

Everyone is different, but text communication didn’t even exist 20 years ago like it does now. So, while you may cancel a date because you’d prefer to have a faux connection through texting, thousands of years of the dynamics between what attracts women to men, we’ve found that women like men who are mysterious, not always available, and ‘busy’ with pursuing his mission and purpose in life. I’ve been on both sides of the token - text-heavy, and not so much. I’ll take a relationship with more fac…
/r/seduction04/05/21 08:31 PM
1

Is dinner a bad idea, maybe followed by some walking?
/r/seduction04/05/21 08:10 PM
55

I had a largely textless, online communication-less relationship, and it was the best I’ve had so far. I’ll be calling a beautiful woman today or tomorrow to set a date up for this weekend - won’t make contact after. Just think, every guy who wants her is texting her, snapchatting her, etc. Why would you?
/r/seduction04/05/21 05:20 PM
2

Same lol. I have an ex who I’ve been broken up with for about 6 months and she still calls every other week or so.
/r/seduction04/05/21 03:30 PM
2

21, can confirm
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 02:41 PM
3

Correct! I invested in the pussy and learned my lesson.
/r/seduction04/05/21 12:27 AM
2

Why not just go to the bar where everyone there will be at least 21? Young girls are fun and all, but that’s not what you should be primarily focused on.
/r/seduction03/05/21 05:36 PM
2

Okay, so it seems you’re looking for casual sex, not a relationship (?) So am I, so this is great. I’ll give you a brief breakdown of how I plan to turn this upcoming date into a FWB or such. So, I met a girl a couple days ago. She introduced herself to me. I got her number, we exchanged brief compliments, and she ran off for the night. I texted, bla bla, gonna call tomorrow to set the date up. When I call her, I’m gonna be super relaxed, say something a little arrogant like ‘i know you’ve been …
/r/seduction03/05/21 05:32 PM
3

It’s easy: don’t care. They want to have the pussy power trip over you. If you let them have it, you’ll be her bitch until she serves you divorce papers.
/r/seduction03/05/21 05:17 PM
0

I actually am quite a bit. Your emotional response and opinion doesn’t change facts of reality
/r/seduction03/05/21 05:03 PM
1

If they deny you because of covid, it’s not because of covid.
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:59 PM
2

Yeah pretty much. This is what I did with my last girlfriend, and it actually made the relationship pretty strong for a while. Then, of course, I started investing myself emotionally, and shit flew off the tracks
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:58 PM
3

Eh, I’d say my rejection rate is 30%. So, 3/10 girls will refuse to give me their numbers on a cold approach. How?!?! You can’t cold approach everyone, or you’d look like a clown. Take your time, enjoy yourself, and make your vibe and presence known to those close. Then, take a few moments exploring the room. Woah, what’s that? The group of 3 girls are looking at you and giggling? You see one girl in the back and have made eye contact a few times over the course of 5-10 minutes. Let’s say, if I …
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:50 PM
1

Is she self conscious about the way her vagina looks??
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:39 PM
-1

Yes, women were born to please men. As much as they won’t hear it, it’s true. In every way, a woman is designed to receive a man. Spiritually, emotionally, physically, and sexually. The most ideal relationships are those where the woman pushes, convinces, and propagates her man to achieve what it is that he can, which of course have material connotations that come back to the woman.
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:38 PM
13

This is a good post for some self loathing men here. A little bit of arrogance goes a long way with women. Not too much, but man, you’ve got to value yourself more. You created this world.
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:32 PM
2

Yup. Man, life is crazy as a guy. You get pussy, then lose the pussy because you were getting it too much. Hah! Nonetheless, if she knows you’re capable of being a leader, she’ll check back in with you every few months.
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:30 PM
1

Yeah man, you need to just go have some drinks at a nice diner with some buddies, then go walk to some stores or something afterwards. You’ll never know where you might run into her, but the more you get out, the better your chances will be.
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:27 PM
6

Big truth here man. Who’s more of a man, really? The guy having sex with his girlfriend every day, or the guy who’s been single for a while (through his choices), because he’s working so damn hard to obtain his goals? Of course the latter, because pussy makes you weak. It makes you whipped. You’ll do anything to get another hit of it, yet, they don’t want that. They want you to be able to put them in their place and say no. Admittedly, I learned of this in my last relationship. She gave up the p…
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:20 PM
3

Seems like you have a lot going for you, which is the most important thing. The hard part is out of the way, namely, getting a life. Making yourself interesting. Etc. The easy part is going out with your friends, enjoying yourself, and casually scanning the room for any women fancying you. See, one thing I failed to realize when I was younger, is that not every woman will be into you. Sure, that seems obvious. But what I’m saying is - there might be a very attractive woman who is into you, whom …
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:14 PM
14

Have more sex
/r/seduction03/05/21 04:09 PM
43

100%. I made a few friends last night, and have a date lined up this weekend, for simply enjoying a night out with my friend and taking turns taking our shots at getting phone numbers. Not only is it fun, but it helps to practice your confidence in talking to strangers & women, and you might just make something of it!
/r/seduction26/04/21 05:14 PM
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