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Too-Average · 2021-08-10T17:50:55+00:00

It only matters because it matters to you. If you're making the best of it and it's clean and tidy, she's only worth worrying about if she is humble enough to respect that having more or less wealth isn't a defining characteristic of a person imo.

joseph1k · 2021-08-10T18:10:36+00:00

Bro you're beating yourself up like crazy wit this post. I've been in a situation like this, having a girl with more money come over. Just try and keep everywhere neat and clean, if she wants to judge you because of where you come from then she aint the one. There's definitely women out there that will accept you how you are. Try not to draw attention to the fact or be anxious about it, be confident.

SiriusleighLoL · 2021-08-10T19:59:08+00:00

It seems like it’s one of your bigger insecurities and you’ll have to conquer that by either trying to better yourself mentally or financially. You either come to terms that you are poor and can be happy with it or you get wealthy by accelerating into a career or bettering your own career.

As someone who would put value into someone’s future, as I want mine a certain way and am working on getting to where I want to, I don’t mind where they’re at now, just where they want to be. You can’t make a happy, poor woman rich or a happy, rich woman poor and keep them happy because each requires a sacrifice that they desire, either time or money.

ShredableSending · 2021-08-10T20:27:00+00:00

Bro, just clean your place up real nice. Put some effort in. Especially the bathroom. You ain't gotta be fancy to make a good impression. Bonus points if you cook good food or bake some tasty homemade dessert. All you gotta do is show you give a damn and you beat like 90% of the people out there.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-08-10T20:04:24+00:00

You're way overthinking this.. fix your mindset and insecurities.

Just clean clean clean - this is more important than living in a disgustingly dirty 10M mansion.

2021-08-11T00:33:05+00:00

I heard that in prsion some guys have phones and they would talk to girls online and the girls would come over to visit them in prison... not just any girls,, hot girls from well off families.

curiouzzboutit · 2021-08-11T04:44:40+00:00

Be wealthy in character and she won't give a shit about your housing situation.

Nikkinicole57 · 2021-08-11T06:13:52+00:00

I think clutter, mess, unclean houses and poorly kept gardens can make any house look bad.

As long as you have pride in your home and look after it, it doesn't matter.

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