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[–]between5and25 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I'm happy for you dude I really am. But the takeaway here is really come from a good healthy household(where money was never an issue), have parents you can learn from, have good times with friends(which indicates a certain happiness not everyone has, and be intelligent.
Now again I'm glad for you. But this doesn't really feel like advice for people who happen to have basically none of the above here.
[–]ExpensiveNinja 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He’s also 5’11 sooo
[–]seducation-student -3 points-2 points-1 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The takeaway here for you, but I don’t really agree with this. It’s OP’s personal journey, he’s pointing out what worked for him and what he took away from his journey. OP even points it out, he’s lucky to have something to start with. But you have to put in the work still, he worked out and spent time learning about seduction. The point of r/seduction is to bring out the most in you, to have a better time turning potential dates in the “maybe” camp into a “hell yeah” camp.
It’s all about initiative. If all there was to takeaway from this was that OP had advantages other people might not have, then there wouldn’t be a need for OP to do all this stuff in the first place. He had to take action within his life, and at the end of the day that’s what r/seduction is all about
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[–]seducation-student 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s really understandable, and it’s pretty admirable you made the most out of a situation like that. I didn’t mean to negate any hard work you put in, you put in work which I feel like the other commentator just ignored to focus on superficial stuff. And given all this context, it’s really impressive. I’m glad you made it out of those dark times, it’s really inspiring and I hope the best for you
Rereading this, I don’t get any of the comments saying they only took away you had a good life to begin with. Your story’s pretty much the model r/seduction story, someone who needs help taking control of their life turning into an attractive person. I’m in the same boat with a pretty bad home life, depression, and just letting go of myself. I’m starting to change what I can, becoming a person with something to offer. We’re in this together, I hope to catch up to the point you are now :)
[–]Evocatus_ad_levare 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We have a similar storyline, now I'm working on actually developing balls day by day, talking to women
[–]Fantastic_Web45 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The only takeaway here is that you had a healthy household, strong parental figures and financial security.
[–]Alicecolemann -5 points-4 points-3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm bored, anybody want to chat😈😈 ...adf
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