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[–]ExpensiveNinja 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Insane wall of text with no format, but why would don’t you just setup another date…?
[–]double_prong 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was thinking just waiting till like friday or sat and saying like "hey, my friends and I are going to this bar later and you're more than welcome to come" something along those lines.
She wants to see you, not your friends. Wait a few days and ask her on a date. Make the event sound fun, and don't do any of that "you're welcome to" shit. Either tell her to come, or say that you want to see her.
[–]iTopMostly 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I could say I’m in the same boat RN, but def don’t lead with any “you’re welcome to” or “my friends” this is where you alpha up and tell her I wanna see you Friday night let’s go to blah blah.
My situation is, I like the girl, already had sex, don’t wanna just be an average booty call so try to engage in some amount of texting and communicating. My problem, what to text? Usually just something silly or a pic of me and this happens on both ends, but sometimes I just over think it and seems like that’s where you are too. Just be you and keep going with the flow, just don’t become overly needy for her.
Next time there’s a what we’re you doing or how was ya 4th type of topic, I’ve learned giving a play by play of it all isn’t the best response either, make it funny or worthwhile reading
(But yes text her again something casual or funny but soon after set up for this Friday! I wanna bear some good results!
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