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[–]Massap24 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol offer to meet this girl at her place or somewhere close to where she lives and take her there. If she’s new and you’re in a big city help her out. Also, don’t be nervous, it will help if you stop overthinking this. It’s just another date don’t worry about what she’s after, just make your intentions clear through your actions and watch how she responds.
Do you want to kiss her? Then start making her laugh and touch her early on in neutral places such as shoulder, hand, upper back. Because your a rookie this might be difficult but just do it. At some point during the night if she’s responding well go for a kiss. If she still seems a bit shy it’s okay to hold off. Don’t you dare even mention a fucking relationship this early on.
[–]I_fail_this 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont have to text her everyday, just confirm plans as it gets closer. Hug her when you meet her. You can ask if you want or just have fun and escalate
[–]High-__-there 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]nfscarbon2 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can you recomand-me some books to improve my verbal with woman?
[–]cliff_lord1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
The way you’re phrasing it, it sounds as though she’s from SA. If not, the following still applies: make sure you plan out the date, you’re the one taking her out to see a city you know, let her enjoy the ride and have everything planned out, even the potentiality of taking her home to your place. Flirt subtly but often, and make sure having a good time is your priority, romantic agenda can be secondary but still make it happen if you’re interested. When it is established that you’ll make the decisions for the night, she doesn’t need to second guess or think about anything except for enjoying herself, which is a load off her plate being from another county unsure how to navigate the city and cultural dating norms. If she freely follows you around the city with you leading, she’ll be much more open to you leading the date to a romantic level, cuz one yes will lead to more yes(s) which leads to an overall positive experience.
Also, make sure to use words like date to establish what the relationship is. I used to use tinder and was afraid of using the word date, even though that’s the entire point of the app. If you get her number, call her instead of texting. If she’s from SA and you don’t speak Spanish or Portuguese, make sure your jokes and teases aren’t referencing too much pop culture, something universal so they don’t land on deaf ears or require excessive explaining.
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[–]Massap24 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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