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[–]BlackBaby_Jesus 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In HS it is for sure more about social status than anything. No girl wants to be known for hooking up with the weird kid in school, no matter how confident he is. Also word would get around quickly depending on the size of your school.
[–]IrishARW 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm high enough in terms of social status I suppose ( I'm the captain of the basketball team) however unfortunately it doesn't bring about the same status that it would in the US , I agree completely one bad approachere and your screwed basically! Thanks for the advice
[–]Tephra1879 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I highly recommend content from a user named Informal Mantis. Search him up on youtube. He has made guides for your age group such as How to Get a Girlfriend in High School Easily and How to Flirt with a Guy or Girl in High School properly! He isnt active anymore and hasn't made any videos in quite a long time but his previous videos are still up to watch. I used material presented in his videos with a high success rate when I was in high school.
Thank you very much this should help loads!
[–]IANAPUA_Yet 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Cold approaches don't apply because the girls know who you are. That makes them "warm" approaches. But you still have to approach! Are you comfortable walking up to a girl and chatting with her? If not, you need to get comfortable. It'll only get harder if you wait until after school to learn these skills.
[–]IrishARW 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Wow I really have much to learn I see and I'm okay talking to girls but at the same time there's a very limited pool due to most of the top end girls ( looking wise) are all in relationships with older year groups and when your 16 it's quiet hard to compete with an 18! Thanks for your help !
[–]IANAPUA_Yet 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
there's a very limited pool due to most of the top end girls ( looking wise) are all in relationships
Never in your life will you be surrounded by more girls around your age than when you're in school.
These girls are entering the prime of their lives. Even the mediocre ones are hotter than anything you'll be fucking in 15 years.
Most of the guys are all talk and no game. You will never have less competition than you do now.
Everybody wants a hot girlfriend. It doesn't matter what ages we're talking about; They don't stay single long.
In other words, this is as good as it gets, opportunity-wise. Quit making excuses and get in the game.
Tough love I appreciate it !
[–]Big_TX 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You will need soooooooo much less game in HS. Don't let this intimidate you.
There is a subreddit called like highseddit or highschoolseddit or something like that.
They say you need social status. Idk about that. Every HS has a very different culture. My advice would be flirt be man to woman and escalate
[–]IrishARW 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I agree completely I'm just trying to improve it just a tad so that if something does go badly I'm not "that weird kid" for the rest of my school life !:")
[–]Big_TX 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't run around cold approaching. You'll ruin your rep. I guess last Sylvester of senior year you could if you wanna. If a girl checks you out of say go for it.
[–]johnnyfaceoff 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
/r/highseddit
Thanks!
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