The night started out great and early. My wingman decided to go to a bar near where we live and get some food. I saw a pair of an HB7 and HB8 sitting nearby so I decided it would be great to go and sit at the free table next to them. My wing and I ordered food and shortly after I noticed that the two girls ordered an unusually large pitcher of margarita drink. I opened by asking if they were really going to drink all of that and thats how the conversation started. It ended up that we share a lot in common so I decide to progress the night further by asking them to come out to a dance club with us. They agreed.
It was at the dance club where I made my move. I learned three things from my [FR]3.
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I should not be so defensive on shit tests. I read, http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/iq6nx/common_shit_tests_and_how_to_defuse_them/ and this really got me in the right mindset to defuse them. Basically as the top comment says, "tl;dr Make everything a joke." This really struck an epiphany with me so that's basically what I did the entire night. I stayed in state the entire night just relaying that in my head.
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Escalate fast. I could've F-closed in [FR]3 but I was too much of a pussy to K-close and escalate after that. I learned from http://www.reddit.com/user/peterclemenza that I focus too much on numbers and I should focus on the F-close. There were tons of IoI's from the HB in [FR]3 but I was giving into my primal instincts where I was too afraid to venture into that dark unknown cave.
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Do not over think things. I relayed the Charlie Parker quote in my head where he says "You've got to learn your instrument. Then, you practice, practice, practice. And then, when you finally get up there on the bandstand, forget all that and just wail." This is just like seduction material where if you think about all this stuff in field too much you're dooming yourself for failure because you're over thinking things. This post reinstate this well http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/l7t19/ive_been_away_for_eight_months_and_come_back_to/
I was going for HB8 and my wingman was a trooper and occupied HB7 really well. He really wasn't that into her but he did a great job as my wing. I initiated light kino to HB8 at the bar near to where I live and I escalated heavily at the dance club. It ended up in a make out session at the dance club. I used the isolation technique where I said I wanted to get some air and she agreed. That's where I went in for the kiss.
After the dance club we hit up a small bar nearby and it was there where I seduced her into coming home with me. We hailed a cab and headed to my place. The night was perfect so far but I had too much to drink. Fucking whiskey dick. I could not perform. I made her cum once just with floor play but I could not perform the way I really wanted to. She didn't spend the night. I guess lesson learned for next time. It's ironic that I started the night out challenging myself not to drink and hit on girls after reading http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/l7lob/straight_to_the_point_tough_love_on_why_your_game/ where #3 states that "You use alcohol as a crutch." All the times I went out I was drinking so I wanted to change that tonight because I wanted to practice being sober like in day game, but my wing talked me into drinking that night.
All in all this was the greatest [FR] I've had so far because this is the farthest ever i've ever been. It's all thanks to this seddit community and reading encouraging posts about working on inner and outer game. Thanks guys for all the support, feedback, comments and posts. Hopefully next time I won't be the result of the dreaded whiskey dick.
Also any pointers on what to say to the HB8 the next day would be great. I don't want to make an awkward situation more awkward than it already is.
TL;DR Fucking whiskey dick.
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