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t_11 · 2015-08-02T19:02:54+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I guess a huge part of building confidence is to learn to feel happy for others rather than envy. Anyways don't give up teaching that lesson to your friend maybe he needs someone like you. Good job

xdel · 2015-08-03T01:14:17+00:00

~~Women~~ people like positivity. Think about how negative people radiate such poor energy. Now, think about being around positive people and the environment they create.

Having a positive outlook on life doesn't just increase your appeal to women, it improves your social skills.

DubZer0 · 2015-08-03T03:57:13+00:00

Ima a hater. Didnt realize that till I read the part about approaching a cute girl.

Now to figure out how to change that.

Thanks a lot.

kindlebluemoon · 2015-08-02T22:47:54+00:00

Realizing this has been a big part of me transitioning into a more mature and better person. Not to say that the journey is complete, though.

alex0919 · 2015-08-02T22:53:12+00:00

There's a trend I've noticed with people who're losers, they want to bring you down so you can't progress with them. They hope by attacking you or others trying to succeed bitterly or spitefully enough, they'll drive you or others into defeat and hold them back.

Fact is, if you need to lie to get something or hold other people back with you, you're the weak one, not them.

I choose to be a winner, I don't care if you try to win with me, in fact if you remind me of myself I'll try to build you up, be it I'm still competitive as hell.

Look at this experiment with monkeys:

http://johnstepper.com/2013/10/26/the-five-monkeys-experiment-with-a-new-lesson/

They hold each other back from climbing the pole because of their personal reference points of experience (e.g. getting sprayed off). Now frame that into anything, be it business, seduction, or a sport - if they suck, they don't want you to win, from their experience, you can't win, they want you to lose with them.

Those people are nasty and only bring you down, like a virus.

ripsa · 2015-08-03T00:40:50+00:00

This is something they teach you in CBT to get over anxiety.

rawckee · 2015-08-03T01:15:38+00:00

bitter is really hard to get rid of

larrylegendary · 2015-08-03T02:18:44+00:00

I think this is the practical reason for not judging others. When you get in that mindset you can't help but be judgmental to yourself too.

HelloJapan1 · 2015-08-04T00:34:54+00:00

looks money status is everything

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