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[–]autfag 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you did great, keep on trying, there is no formula which will get you a guaranteed close. Sometimes you were just unlucky and the girls didnt want to have anything atm.
[–]cmatute 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro, kudos. Really. You had some healthy degree acceptance after your first night. Do you realize that? Just picture yourself after the 10th night. You'll be drowning in pussy by then if you keep playing at this level of confidence. Nicely done, friend.
[–]kevlarthevest 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks for the kind words guys! I'll keep at it and be sure to experiment with different strategies to see what works best for me.
I ask about isolating because the biggest barrier really did seem to be friends. Either a friend would interject and start whispering to my target, clearly asking something like "Is this guy annoying you? Do you want me to bail you out? Are you sure?" (with varying degrees of bitchiness) or my target's friends would move to another part of the bar as a group and she would inevitably follow her friends as they walked off.
So how do I combat this and prevent my target's friends from ruining my efforts?
[–]xisth 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you're flying solo, then you need a pawn to distract the bitchy friend.
[–]Sparkydavies 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's always next time, sometimes you are just gonna have nights where girls aren't keen and others where they are :)
[–]ThatSpecialPlace 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As soon as you get her warmed up to you, BOOM, isolate. Especially with cockblocking friends around.
But I thinking you're looking at the night as failure rather than an adventure. You literally got better at approaching, better at kino'ing, and better at dealing with external shit. (If you can't warm them up to you, try to isolate the girl.)
Just because you didn't k-close doesn't mean you didn't improve.
[–]Alpha-Turtle 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You could have isolated them and maybe you should have been bolder with the kissing part. Who knows, try that next time :-You could have isolated them and maybe you should have been bolder with the kissing part. Who knows, try that next time :-D anyway, it was just one night and just few girls. It'
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