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In my experience, girls don't care that much about looks. it depends of course. But if you dress nicely and know how to make her feel good and how to seduce her, then she can be a 10. Also she might have not gotten your snap. Snapchat does that sometimes, it's weird. Please let me know if she comes to the date or not
/r/seduction13/08/20 06:52 AM
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What I recomdmend is you make some hot friends. Just put them in the friend zone. That will make you more comfortable around beautiful women
/r/seduction28/12/18 01:03 AM
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One day. As I said "yesterday"
/r/seduction21/12/18 08:35 AM
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I'd say "hey, are you better? My aunt was also sick yesterday lol what a coincidence" Or something like that. I wouldn't want her to think I'm asking to know if we can meet. Or you can just wait for her to text and go meet other girls in the meantime
/r/seduction19/12/18 10:42 PM
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Where are you from man? Romania or Israel?
/r/seduction03/12/18 11:01 AM
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You can get really close and then kiss her cheek, or run your fingers thru her hair and get really close and then slowly grab her hair kinda like pulling her away from you. Or say you wanted to check her eyes' color
/r/seduction15/11/18 02:11 PM
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Are you worried you'll seem desperate if you contact them now? I would contact them now because there are lower chances of them making other plans. But that's me. I haven't "gamed" in a while so I could be wrong :)
/r/seduction15/11/18 01:51 PM
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holy shit. at least she took it ok lmao. maybe you could fill her in and you would just reestablish the connection haha
/r/seduction09/07/17 05:45 PM
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A friend had this situation. Here are some details: Okay so its this girl that I work with. We have one mutual friend. The other day, I was hanging out with this "mutual friend" and we were talking about her (the girl Im having issues with) Our mutual friend says that we should have just made out just bc I told her that it wouldn't really even be weird cause we talk a lot of shit at work. so then i msg her on FB the next day just to say hey and we talk for a while and at one point she sent me a …
/r/seduction27/05/17 08:35 PM
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If you stare between their eyes they will feel like you're making eye contact anyway. Or that's what I've heard
/r/seduction24/09/16 05:25 AM
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If he kisses her and she kisses him back, it's awesome, but if she ends up not liking him he might want to get out of that friend zone, meaning that he would leave the friendship anyway, so what if he's not respecting the friendship, no offence.
/r/seduction20/09/16 03:41 PM
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Kiss her. That should answer your question.
/r/seduction20/09/16 05:52 AM
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Your question doesn't really have sense but still: When you're walking make eye contact with everybody and don't look away before they do. If it's a cute girl you can even smile. When you're talking to a girl and the conversation dies, look deep into her eyes and think about how awesome you are, don't look away until she does or starts talking, or you can do #3 (that if she's already comfortable with you) A girl friend used to look into my eyes and give me an instant boner, that's how sexy her l…
/r/seduction17/05/16 03:59 PM
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Search the sub for outcome independence
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:59 PM
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I would definitely want to read more about this. Why don't you post about it?
/r/seduction30/03/16 09:21 PM
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Yeah. Stop everything that's sexual between you and put her in the friend zone. Just like them bitches do to every other guy.
/r/seduction30/03/16 09:06 PM
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She might get scared by that word. You don't need to use it. You can say "hey, go out with me this Saturday at 2 pm". What really matters is being direct, and don't fucking ask her, tell her, because you're a man.
/r/seduction30/03/16 08:59 PM
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It's normal to feel awkward at first, but the more you practice the more natural it will come to you.
/r/seduction12/12/15 10:45 AM
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You could actually be a player and move on to other girls. Just an idea...
/r/seduction07/12/15 07:32 AM
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Yep. I already do some stuff without even noticing.
/r/seduction22/11/15 07:19 PM
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Awesome post!
/r/seduction22/11/15 07:16 PM
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You should kiss her during the date, so she won't expect it. Maybe they don't kiss on the first date, maybe you need to escalate more
/r/seduction22/11/15 07:12 AM
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Ask her about her childhood, her career and her passions
/r/seduction14/11/15 09:54 PM
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Just stop thinking about her. You control your thoughtsJust stop thinking about her. You control your thoughts.
/r/seduction13/11/15 01:24 PM
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Your lips seem soft
/r/seduction12/11/15 09:15 AM
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Looks is only about 30% when it comes to attraction. Just improve your lifestyle, learn some body language, kino, how to have a conversation and NEVER lower your standards.
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:46 PM
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Come on! This belongs to askseddit. Wtf?
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:00 PM
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Bail.
/r/seduction04/11/15 03:27 PM
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You have to try to kiss her unless you want to get friend.zoned if she rejects you try later. If she kisses back you'll be busy doing that.
/r/seduction04/11/15 01:31 PM
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That's comfort not attraction
/r/seduction02/11/15 12:20 PM
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It's a numbers game. The more girls you talk to, the bigger the chances.
/r/seduction01/11/15 02:26 PM
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It's a numbers game. The more girls you talk to, the bigger the chances.
/r/seduction01/11/15 02:25 PM
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Come on, this is supposed to be on askseddit. Read the rules please
/r/seduction28/10/15 07:35 AM
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This should be on askseddit.
/r/seduction24/10/15 06:52 AM
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how do you flag a post?
/r/seduction22/10/15 06:47 PM
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The moderators should do something...
/r/seduction22/10/15 04:29 PM
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Kind of. You could try, but at least it's going to be REALLY HARD to win back her trust, and why be a tryhard when you can find another girl? Abundance mentality, bro!
/r/seduction22/10/15 04:28 PM
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You judged her for fucking someone. She won't fuck you anymore mate... Judging her for that is some of the worst. Just move on to the next one and stop being like that.
/r/seduction22/10/15 03:25 PM
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There might be girls that need some more work, but why would you do that when you can find easier oneThere might be girls that need some more work, but why would you do that when you can find easier ones
/r/seduction21/10/15 04:46 AM
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"I'll be ok no matter what happens"
/r/seduction18/10/15 05:52 PM
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Really? You look awesome!
/r/seduction12/10/15 04:51 PM
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I want in too!
/r/seduction07/10/15 04:55 PM
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please, stop writing ppl. It takes you 2 more seconds to write the whole word, and I believe not many people like seeing that shortcut.
/r/seduction06/10/15 04:26 PM
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but it's so awesome man! I gotta try that soon
/r/seduction06/10/15 04:24 PM
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Conversation threading, look it up. Also when there's silence just think about how awesome you are ;-)Conversation threading, look it up. Also when there's silence just think about how awesome you are ;-)
/r/seduction06/10/15 10:48 AM
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Build attraction as well (you do that through kino) and don't forget to escalateBuild attraction as well (you do that through kino) and don't forget to escalate.
/r/seduction05/10/15 08:08 AM
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The first date is meant to get to know each other, so as long as you can talk it's ok, I guesThe first date is meant to get to know each other, so as long as you can talk it's ok, I guess
/r/seduction02/10/15 02:44 PM
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It's not brainwash... We simply choose not to have sex before marriage. That doesn't meanwe don't flirt or build a life that attracts girlIt's not brainwash... We simply choose not to have sex before marriage. That doesn't meanwe don't flirt or build a life that attracts girls
/r/seduction02/10/15 01:34 PM
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"it's hard to enjoy life being single" that's the worst mindset in seduction... You shouldn't need someone to be happy. Girls don't want to be your life, they want you to take them in your awesome life, so get one and get a good mindset"it's hard to enjoy life being single" that's the worst mindset in seduction... You shouldn't need someone to be happy. Girls don't want to be your life, they want you to take them in your awesome life, so get one and get a good mindset.
/r/seduction02/10/15 05:23 AM
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You just have to be smooth, keep your hand a little longer than usuaYou just have to be smooth, keep your hand a little longer than usual
/r/seduction02/10/15 02:31 AM
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If done properly it's even better because you can see how she feels about you: shake her hand and keep it there, but not squeeze. Turn your palm slightly upwards and let her hand rest in yours. If she keeps her hand longer it's good. Also don't forget eye contact and smile.If done properly it's even better because you can see how she feels about you: shake her hand and keep it there, but not squeeze. Turn your palm slightly upwards and let her hand rest in yours. If she keeps her hand longer it'…
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:12 PM
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Not only, but if she doesn't respond well, at least I improved myknowledge
/r/seduction30/09/15 05:34 PM
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And you turn your face afterwards or notAnd you turn your face afterwards or not?
/r/seduction30/09/15 04:36 PM
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"I'll approach and have fun and I'll be ok wether she likes me or not"I'll approach and have fun and I'll be ok wether she likes me or not"
/r/seduction30/09/15 04:06 PM
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Out of the corner of my eyes? I don't get it.
/r/seduction30/09/15 04:02 PM
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ok :D Thanks! I told this one girl that her eyes looked a lot like a friend's of mine. I just wanted to know seddit's ideas.
/r/seduction21/09/15 05:38 PM
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why not?
/r/seduction21/09/15 05:26 PM
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Get this to the top, please!
/r/seduction21/09/15 05:21 PM
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Okay. Thanks for the input!
/r/seduction21/09/15 01:49 PM
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ok, haha. So am I looking at them a way that I shouldn't be, or is this normally happening? Can I change that? Give me the ugly truth (if it is ugly, ofc)
/r/seduction21/09/15 01:44 PM
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Idk, I don't usually talk fast, only when it's a long story and I'm kind of in a hurry, or try to get to the point fast, but I was talking to this girl and suddenly realized I was talking waay too fast, but it was too late. I guess you first have to realize the speed you are talking at.
/r/seduction20/09/15 07:48 PM
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You: Haven't I told you about my monkey? His name is Jack.
/r/seduction20/09/15 07:01 PM
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Ok, thanks!
/r/seduction20/09/15 11:57 AM
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haha, why not?
/r/seduction20/09/15 11:46 AM
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Could you explain the "I'm-Not-Going-To-Kiss-You" game more thoroughly, please?
/r/seduction20/09/15 11:10 AM
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you should kiss with the lips, so the teeth should not have anything to do with it. as for going down on a girl, I have no fucking idea, lol
/r/seduction20/09/15 10:59 AM
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I have braces and I love 'em because I don't care I have them so they can't mess with my confidence. It's like when the simple pickup guys get a fat guy disguise and get even more numbers because THEY WERE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE THAT CONFIDENT. So just don't give a fuck and you are goodI have braces and I love 'em because I don't care I have them so they can't mess with my confidence. It's like when the simple pickup guys get a fat guy disguise and get even more numbers because THEY WERE NOT SUPPOSE…
/r/seduction19/09/15 09:53 PM
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Don't admit you were stupid, lol. Just be happy that a girl liked you and more others will as well. You could start talking to her. Just do what you feel like doing, don't ask us that kind of stuff.
/r/seduction19/09/15 07:30 PM
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That was horrible, no offense, but everybody started there, just think about that ;)
/r/seduction19/09/15 07:05 PM
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Just don't give a fuck. Go out with her and have fun! Just let me give you a hint, and LISTEN CLOSELY!!! You are going to meet with this girl, and when you see her, you will do this: You will give her a nice compliment (not about her looks, but something about her clothing for example) and then YOU HAVE TO HUG HER! I went on few dates (I'm only 17) and I always wanted to hug them at first, but I just couldn't... Even if you feel it's hard, just do it, man! Extend your arms and give her a nice hu…
/r/seduction19/09/15 06:53 PM
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It's a nice post, but still you have to care about something. If you don't care about your future you could end up homeless, lol. I would suggest you set a goal and only care about goal and nothing else. I.E: You want to become a surgeon. Then fucking invest all you've got in becoming a surgeon and stop caring about other stuff. Am I not right?
/r/seduction19/09/15 06:46 PM
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Maybe she doesn't believe in fist date kiss. Trying matters the most anyway. Girls like bold guys.Maybe she doesn't believe in fist date kiss. Trying matters the most anyway. Girls like bold guys.
/r/seduction19/09/15 10:15 AM
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So I have to figure out when is it good to start being open? How do I do thatSo I have to figure out when is it good to start being open? How do I do that?
/r/seduction18/09/15 06:49 AM
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Well, if you are both below 18, there has to be at most 6 months between you or the bigger one is consider a pedophile. So you could sew him, but I wouldnWell, if you are both below 18, there has to be at most 6 months between you or the bigger one is consider a pedophile. So you could sew him, but I wouldn't
/r/seduction18/09/15 04:56 AM
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haha
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:12 PM
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That's not necessary. there are more ideas here on seduction. You could just as well be honest and open, as mark mason says. Ask her out, or tell her straight that you like her. Maybe do some light kino to warm her up.
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:03 PM
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You have all the info you can get on this sub for free. Just search and you will find. I think it's stupid to pay for something like that.
/r/seduction17/09/15 01:21 PM
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So how do you make her confident?
/r/seduction17/09/15 07:17 AM
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Here on /r/seduction we learn how to improve ourselves. The idea is not to get as much girls as we can. The idea is to become confident, comfortable with ourselves, social, attractive and all that. So, yes! If you learn it right, it works with everybody. Even in sales.
/r/seduction16/09/15 02:11 PM
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Well, it's this girl that I KNOW she liked me and I asked her like 4 times to go out. At first she said she couldn't, she suggested other times, and when we finally met, she came with her girl friend. However it might be because we mostly spoke on Facebook, but how the hell should I see her if she won't go out with me...
/r/seduction16/09/15 01:20 PM
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lol, sorry I was on my phone and I couldn't see shit, but anyway..
/r/seduction16/09/15 01:07 PM
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What you say really doesn't matter. Just smile, shake her hand and don't take it back before she does (maybe even have her hand rest in yours). Are you interested in her or not? You should be so you should care about the basic questions. They are the way you get to know her. If not, just talk about stuff you see around you. (e.g: That dude just ordered 21 shots. I wish I partied with him, hehe)
/r/seduction16/09/15 11:28 AM
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you can always touch her arm to emphasize points, give high-fives, hugs, put your hand on her feet (when she's comfortable with you). Mostly anything...
/r/seduction15/09/15 05:27 PM
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Man, I know this is big for you, but it actually shouldn't be. There are 3.5 billion women out there. Just go to her and tell her you want to go out and talk more, or tell her straight to go on a date. Just don't do such a big deal out of it. Go to her and tell her you want to take her out. It's just a date. You'll have (hopefully) so many that you won't even be able to keep score. Don't use text. Just text her "Hey, I'm omziraal" Don't search for an opportunity to have a playful argument. AGAIN…
/r/seduction15/09/15 02:10 PM
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That only works on insecure and fucked up girlThat only works on insecure and fucked up girls
/r/seduction14/09/15 08:16 PM
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sure, bro!
/r/seduction14/09/15 03:16 PM
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play some surgeon simulator and you should be ok, lol. or try this and change your life :D P.S: It's not mine, I'm just recommending it.
/r/seduction14/09/15 02:58 PM
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That's why text should be only for setting up dates.
/r/seduction14/09/15 02:33 PM
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what kind of "illegal" sites are you refferring to? I haven't found anything...
/r/seduction14/09/15 11:36 AM
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The more you do it the more you get used to it. I used to feel so nervous when I went in front to sing a song at the guitar that I stopped doing it for a whole year, but now I have no problem, I even like itThe more you do it the more you get used to it. I used to feel so nervous when I went in front to sing a song at the guitar that I stopped doing it for a whole year, but now I have no problem, I even like it.
/r/seduction13/09/15 06:15 PM
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I just realised that my affraid of being a pig is 50% a result of how I was raised, but the other half is because I used to fap to porn a lot.I just realised that my affraid of being a pig is 50% a result of how I was raised, but the other half is because I used to fap to porn a lot...
/r/seduction13/09/15 06:01 PM
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You know what's wrong and that it will affect you. We can't really help you. You just have to change your mindset. Search about confidence, meditate, help/improve yourself. That should helpYou know what's wrong and that it will affect you. We can't really help you. You just have to change your mindset. Search about confidence, meditate, help/improve yourself. That should help.
/r/seduction13/09/15 01:19 PM
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Kino matters a lot, and eye contact, and smiling/sKino matters a lot, and eye contact, and smiling/smirking you can talk about breakfast and flirt if you have all that well definedyou can talk about brea
/r/seduction13/09/15 12:44 PM
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Ofc I like hot girls, but if you are confident in a cute way, not thinking they are better than others but being comfortable with themselves, and if you have a nice personality, I can fkin love you. I'll write you in more detail when I get on the pOfc I like hot girls, but if you are confident in a cute way, not thinking they are better than others but being comfortable with themselves, and if you have a nice personality, I can fkin love you. I'll write you in more detail when I get on the pc
/r/seduction13/09/15 11:31 AM
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This is good but, however you should be genuinely interested in them, and then the questions shouldn't be boringThis is good but, however you should be genuinely interested in them, and then the questions shouldn't be boring.
/r/seduction13/09/15 11:15 AM
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You could have isolated them and maybe you should have been bolder with the kissing part. Who knows, try that next time :-You could have isolated them and maybe you should have been bolder with the kissing part. Who knows, try that next time :-D anyway, it was just one night and just few girls. It'
/r/seduction13/09/15 11:07 AM
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Just don't. Not worth it. Even if you don't believe me.
/r/seduction12/09/15 08:00 PM
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Barney from HIMYM had a starwars suit and swords, so I guess it's ok, loBarney from HIMYM had a starwars suit and swords, so I guess it's ok, lol
/r/seduction12/09/15 05:05 PM
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I'd say no dinner. Just call or text her (I'd rather call) and meetup. I have a good feeling about this so please tell me how it wentI'd say no dinner. Just call or text her (I'd rather call) and meetup. I have a good feeling about this so please tell me how it went.
/r/seduction12/09/15 05:02 PM
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I'd say it's worth it. It worked pretty well for me several times. Even if there's no Karma behind it (Universe repaying you for saving your sperm) you become more horny and you act like it, but however, a lot of guys say that it makes people around them like them better. Not fapping increases your stamina I heard
/r/seduction12/09/15 04:17 PM
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very probably. However, the idea is to assume attraction always.
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:40 PM
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Just don't give a shit about her. Be as emotionally disconnected as you can and if she dumps you, you at least had your fun with her.
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:40 PM
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Well, you should be genuinely interested in her. What do you want to know about her? Maybe you want to know if pink is her favorite (she is dressed all in pink) and then she says something like she likes Persian pink, and you talk about Persia, and you go on. You just have to be genuinely interested in her, and then use conversation threading. However, watch this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:13 PM
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you ask her what's wrong/you ignore her
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:10 PM
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"hi, how's your night?"
/r/seduction11/09/15 10:22 PM
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The thing is I'm 17 so I'll keep cold approaching for when I'm older. As for flirting and other stuff, I'm practicing basically on every girlThe thing is I'm 17 so I'll keep cold approaching for when I'm older. As for flirting and other stuff, I'm practicing basically on every girl.
/r/seduction11/09/15 07:42 PM
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They might like you... At least one of them. So they are trying to make you jealous, who knows... Time should tell.
/r/seduction11/09/15 03:23 PM
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Don't let them go and hug other guys and leave you out. When they come to you, go straight to them and hug them. I don't know if this is good advice, but I guess that's what I would do. Just don't go ask for a hug after they hugged everybody. Hug them first, before they even get the chance to hug somebody else.
/r/seduction11/09/15 02:14 PM
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So you just touched each other? You wrote on a paper or what?
/r/seduction11/09/15 02:03 PM
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FA?
/r/seduction11/09/15 01:54 PM
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Hey! First you have to change your mindset: I think she is out of my league She's not out of your league, mate. Just because she maybe looks good, doesn't mean she's better than you or something. Maybe she has a shitty personality and after you get to know her you won't like her that much. No girl is out of your league. Just imagine that they take a shit as well as anybody, and someone out there is sick of her shit. I want to try my luck This is good. Even if she rejects you, at least you try. I…
/r/seduction11/09/15 01:11 PM
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Do you have any more lines like that? "you smell nice. You remember me of my grandma'"Do you have any more lines like that? "you smell nice. You remember me of my grandma'" man, that's funnyman, that's funny.
/r/seduction11/09/15 07:55 AM
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It's never weird, unless it's 3 am really dark and no one around
/r/seduction10/09/15 10:27 PM
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haha, that's a killer response!
/r/seduction10/09/15 09:13 PM
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You take only your car and then you drive her back to her car?
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:41 PM
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Man, 10 years ago it would not have been that awesome, but these days almost everybody gets braces. 1. You have or had braces in the past 2. You will have or you don't afford braces. So, anyway, braces are soo common nowadays. I am 17 and I have braces but I really don't mind it. Maybe because I didn't like my smile before. I used to check myself in the mirror and hate my smile, but now my confidence and self-esteem are building up, so I'm starting to like my smile even with braces on. And just …
/r/seduction10/09/15 02:40 PM
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wtf, why are people downvoting this? This is so motivational and so true. Too bad they don't accept the reallity
/r/seduction09/09/15 11:23 AM
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I'm still not used to the fact that I attract girls (I was fat and shy), and I used to hate my smile, but so many people told me that I have a nice smile this Summer, that I start liking me. I'm looking in the mirror and say, man you are beautiful. You just have to work on youreself, and change both the mindset and the bodI'm still not used to the fact that I attract girls (I was fat and shy), and I used to hate my smile, but so many people told me that I have a nice smile this Summer, that I st…
/r/seduction09/09/15 08:53 AM
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It'll pass with time. I had such a crush on a girl that I was literally sick when she wasn't around, but it passed. However, to ease the pain you should meet as many girls as you can. Flirt without giving a shit even when you're not feeling like It'll pass with time. I had such a crush on a girl that I was literally sick when she wasn't around, but it passed. However, to ease the pain you should meet as many girls as you can. Flirt without giving a shit even when you're not feeling like it
/r/seduction08/09/15 09:20 PM
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Thanks a lot mate! That is such a good advice for beginners. Haha, I realised that I forget to close my eyes while kissing. It's so funny the faces they make while you kiss them, though.
/r/seduction08/09/15 08:38 PM
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There is no best time for kissing. The best time is when you actually kiss her.
/r/seduction08/09/15 03:40 PM
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haha, that's a nice one :D
/r/seduction08/09/15 03:21 PM
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Thanks! The first girl I kissed, I kissed her on the neck and she didn't like it. Why is that? How do you kiss a girl's neck?
/r/seduction08/09/15 02:48 PM
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This Girls like it when you are interested in them. Just be bold and confident, and don't give a sh*t about what your friends tell you ;)
/r/seduction07/09/15 07:31 PM
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Read everything you find here about confidence and approach anxiety, also go to /r/highsedditRead everything you find here about confidence and approach anxiety, also go to /r/highseddit .
/r/seduction07/09/15 06:26 AM
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You first make a life and then concern about girls. If you work on youreself really hard, girls will come theYou first make a life and then concern about girls. If you work on youreself really hard, girls will come themselves
/r/seduction07/09/15 06:22 AM
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I have a crappy phone. I don't know why he does that, but it's better than not giving any helI have a crappy phone. I don't know why he does that, but it's better than not giving any help
/r/seduction07/09/15 06:02 AM
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Well, if you feel like kissing her, look in her eyes then at her lips and so, and then go for it. Even if she turns away, she'll respect you for trying and you can try again like 10 minutes lateWell, if you feel like kissing her, look in her eyes then at her lips and so, and then go for it. Even if she turns away, she'll respect you for trying and you can try again like 10 minutes later
/r/seduction06/09/15 08:08 PM
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You have to touch them. Search for kino, physical escalation and that kind of stuff. Maybe di carlo escalation laddeYou have to touch them. Search for kino, physical escalation and that kind of stuff. Maybe di carlo escalation ladder
/r/seduction06/09/15 05:50 PM
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Keep it short, so you don't seem rude. Say something funny and then suggest a place and time, but don't ask her. You have to lead, have everything already set upKeep it short, so you don't seem rude. Say something funny and then suggest a place and time, but don't ask her. You have to lead, have everything already set up
/r/seduction06/09/15 04:45 PM
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Check the posts on confidence. That's what you need. But anyway, if you don't try are you not blowing her 100%Check the posts on confidence. That's what you need. But anyway, if you don't try are you not blowing her 100%?
/r/seduction06/09/15 01:15 PM
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With men, it should be a manly handshake. With women, make it soft and let it there. Let her take away her hand, not you. Let her hand rest in yourWith men, it should be a manly handshake. With women, make it soft and let it there. Let her take away her hand, not you. Let her hand rest in yours
/r/seduction06/09/15 01:10 PM
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Yeah. Teach her how to act. If you open up to her she will trust you and open herself up asYeah. Teach her how to act. If you open up to her she will trust you and open herself up aswell
/r/seduction06/09/15 01:06 PM
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Idk about the sex, but you shouldn't punish youreself like that. We're human, we all make mistakes, the idea is to learn from them!Idk about the sex, but you shouldn't punish youreself like that. We're human, we all make mistakes, *the idea is to learn from them!
/r/seduction06/09/15 06:05 AM
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I belive it's just like wearing your favorite chlotes :-I belive it's just like wearing your favorite chlotes :-D
/r/seduction05/09/15 09:59 PM
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Just go and have fun. If you like a girl just go and talk to heJust go and have fun. If you like a girl just go and talk to her
/r/seduction05/09/15 09:56 PM
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Sorry, I meant you should only set up the date. Nothing more. I mean, don't exagerate. Keep it to a Sorry, I meant you should only set up the date. Nothing more. I mean, don't exagerate. Keep it to a minimum
/r/seduction05/09/15 09:52 PM
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Just ask her out, and don't use text only for setting up the dateJust ask her out, and don't use text only for setting up the date.
/r/seduction05/09/15 06:29 PM
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Please come again, haha
/r/seduction02/09/15 09:14 PM
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Man, I get that kind of oneitis aswell, and it really sucks... I hope I'll get past that soon
/r/seduction01/09/15 03:45 PM
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Of course you don't tell her that you want to feel her, or strange things, just because you have nothing else better to do, but you don't change who you are, or say something you normally wouldn't say just because she'd like to hear that from you.
/r/seduction26/08/15 08:03 PM
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You don't escalate on the first date, you escalate before the first date. Man, girls like to be touched, so it's not creepy! And it's not creepy unless you make it creepy. It's vibe transmission: If you think that it's creepy, she'll think it's creepy aswell. There are not really specific comments. I know, I'm the kind of guy who would like examples aswell, but I won't give you examples now because I have none in my mind. The idea, anyway is to take what she says as sexual. Or just ask her what'…
/r/seduction26/08/15 07:59 PM
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Sorry man, but I don't agree with your advice. One shouldn't be outcome dependant, and this guy got that right. He didn't want to blow his date, he just said what was on his mind, and she didn't like it so she left. HE WAS HIMSELF! OP, you are awesome! I can't wait to get to that point where I don't give a fuck about what girls think :D
/r/seduction26/08/15 07:49 PM
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lol, girls should do 90% of the talking. that way you remain misterious and girls like to talk about themselves, so just listen to them and wait until they're curious about you :D
/r/seduction26/08/15 07:44 PM
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maaan, that girl is awesome! You were putting youreself in the friend-zone because you were not sexual enough... So, instead of making a friend out of you she told you directly that she doesn't see you that way. Next time don't be affraid of physical touching!
/r/seduction26/08/15 10:03 AM
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haha, romani pe seddit
/r/seduction25/08/15 11:32 AM
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watch this!
/r/seduction24/08/15 11:12 AM
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lol
/r/seduction24/08/15 11:11 AM
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Craig F huh?
/r/seduction24/08/15 11:07 AM
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It's awesome to spot your mistakes, but you should give yourself credit for what you did well, don't be too hard on yourself. You still approachedIt's awesome to spot your mistakes, but you should give yourself credit for what you did well, don't be too hard on yourself. You still approached.
/r/seduction24/08/15 07:55 AM
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I'd love to hear moreI'd love to hear more!
/r/seduction24/08/15 04:35 AM
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Just comenting to come back
/r/seduction23/08/15 09:57 PM
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Hahaha, that's funnHahaha, that's funny
/r/seduction22/08/15 08:37 PM
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Haha, nice point!
/r/seduction21/08/15 04:32 PM
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This would help me aswell...
/r/seduction21/08/15 12:28 PM
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There are a lot of guys with crooked teeth who date or fuck 10s. I don't really have crooked teeth, they're more like too big or too small, but I put braces 2 months ago, and I have NO problem with them. Of course it happens that I see a girl who's really pretty and when she opens her mouth I am a bit turned off, but if she is beautiful and fun and has a nice character, who cares. And I'm a guy. Girls care a lot more about the emotions you can give them.
/r/seduction21/08/15 08:44 AM
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I have braces and I have no problem. Even hotter girls like me. Don't tattoo youreself until you gain some muscles, so the tattoos won't be strecheDon't tattoo youreself until you gain some muscles, so the tattoos won't be streched
/r/seduction21/08/15 07:24 AM
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Yeah, I'd love to hear your best and worse approach, and stuff like that!
/r/seduction20/08/15 10:53 PM
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Move on! You love her, she doesn't. You're just wasting your time, and you won't be able to approach other girls because of heMove on! You love her, she doesn't. You're just wasting your time, and you won't be able to approach other girls because of her.
/r/seduction20/08/15 03:48 PM
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watch me!
/r/seduction19/08/15 02:13 PM
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I'm glad it helped. That video really is awesome! Can't wait to try it on my own...
/r/seduction18/08/15 08:08 PM
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I didn't have a chance to try it, but evrything he said seems pretty logiI didn't have a chance to try it, but evrything he said seems pretty logic
/r/seduction18/08/15 02:21 PM
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Nice! Thanks!
/r/seduction18/08/15 08:50 AM
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try this
/r/seduction17/08/15 10:36 PM
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nice one :D
/r/seduction17/08/15 10:09 PM
1

dude, check Justin Wayne Dating
/r/seduction17/08/15 08:02 PM
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Even if you go at the gym and don't feel like talking to anybody, JUST DO IT! Talk to people on the street, and not just girls, guys too. Maybe old people wwho are bored. Thats fun. LOL, I just realised that I could learn how to have fun when cold approaching by talking to old people, HAHA
/r/seduction17/08/15 05:30 PM
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I don't always think I'm ugly, butt I hate my smile, and when I smile in front of a mirror I feel like shit, and I'm still working on it. You have to realise that there are even uglier guys who get 10s with no problem, and then accept that looks don't matter that much. Of course they matter at first, but if you know how to play your cards you're good :D I hope this helped!
/r/seduction17/08/15 05:24 PM
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watch this
/r/seduction17/08/15 05:10 PM
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Dude, you say that you are outgoing and have no problem talking to girls, and then you ask what if somebody else hears you and how to continue the conversation. No offense... Just go to her, tell her in the ear so you don't have to scream. What if guys hear you? They will respect you unless they like that girl. How to continue the conversation? Just ask her how is she, and just be genuinely interested in getting to know her. Then, you can use what this guy says in this video
/r/seduction17/08/15 05:06 PM
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You are leaving in a couple days anyway, so you'll most probably never meet any of the girls you will approach. So just do it. It's not useless. You can improve your skills and maybe even get some kisses.
/r/seduction17/08/15 04:42 PM
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but if she's shy you can use the "wait" line, or just place her hair behind the ear(or something like that) and you should capture her attention.
/r/seduction17/08/15 04:35 PM
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Please please please give me that article on making out. And many more would be appreciated
/r/seduction15/08/15 01:30 PM
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The idea was to try. If he walked away he could have been the most handsome guy on eartThe idea was to try. If he walked away he could have been the most handsome guy on earth
/r/seduction15/08/15 06:05 AM
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Wrong way of saying it. I am not trying to amuse others, but myselfI am not trying to amuse others, but myself.
/r/seduction14/08/15 05:40 PM
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I don't know how, but as I am becoming a more sociable person, I am becoming funny aswell. And all I did was to amuse myself more than anyone else. Before I would have tried so hard :D
/r/seduction14/08/15 02:33 PM
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be like: "dude, I F-Closed that girl" "You f***ed her???" "lol no! I got her Facebook"
/r/seduction14/08/15 02:06 PM
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A girl told me this story: She went to see the sunrise and when on the beach, there was a handsome guy in front of her. She said to herself that it would be nice to watch the sunrise together, and before she even finished thinking that, he went to her and asked if he could sit next to her. They spent all the day together and she had one of the best days in her life. The idea is to be bold and just do it, no fear. You could even try going to see the sunrise and maybe you meet someone, who knows. …
/r/seduction14/08/15 01:58 PM
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crappy phone, lol
/r/seduction14/08/15 01:54 PM
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Just remember not all girls will be like that. Keep going anyway and loose the fear of rejection.
/r/seduction14/08/15 08:26 AM
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We are learning here not to be the guys who go to the same place at the same hour to see a girl (that seems like stalkingWe are learning here not to be the guys who go to the same place at the same hour to see a girl (that seems like stalking) and when her mom was there? Really? If I was her I would have tought you want to rape me loand when her mom was there? Really? If I was her I would have tought you want to rape me lol
/r/seduction13/08/15 02:47 PM
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Or you can tell her that she seems nice and you want to get to know her better. But just do what you want. Do you truly want to know her better? At least you shoulOr you can tell her that she seems nice and you want to get to know her better. But just do what you want. Do you truly want to know her better? At least you should
/r/seduction13/08/15 02:41 PM
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Being the man and doing what you want is good, but gaming? What are you, 16? I'm 17 and already realised what a time waste it can bBeing the man and doing what you want is good, but gaming? What are you, 16? I'm 17 and already realised what a time waste it can be
/r/seduction13/08/15 02:37 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction08/08/15 05:40 PM
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not so much...
/r/seduction09/06/15 08:22 PM
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I was just saying that I already know that and I need that "basic social skill" you were talking about. My inner game is ok. I just don't know what to do on the outside. Like, what should I do to get myself inches apart from her?
/r/seduction23/04/15 06:52 AM
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When I smirk in the mirror, I look like a psychopath LOL. Is that how you are supposed to look when smirking?
/r/seduction08/04/15 06:57 PM
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Anyway.
/r/seduction07/04/15 08:22 PM
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lol, meet sounds pretty much the same with meat, and I'm not native speaker, so
/r/seduction06/04/15 02:33 PM
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Maybe you can try daygame. Do you like reading? Then try the library. Do you like travelling? Go to places where you meat travellers. Are you religious? Try meeting girls in churches.
/r/seduction05/04/15 09:33 PM
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It is not really a specific girl. I was talking about girls that want to really get to know you first. I was asking if should I get to know a girl really well first, or go fast for a relationship.
/r/seduction03/04/15 08:23 PM
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So, I talked with this girl last night who's 9th grade (I'm 10th grade) over facebook. Short backstory: when I passed by her at school, we used to give strong eye contact every time, and then she added me on facebook and next time she saw me, I smiled and she waved to me So, we talked, she seemed pretty interested, it was casual texting as it was the first time, and now I might meet her in school tomorrow. What should I do? Hug her, or is that too much? When should I start flirting without makin…
/r/seduction20/03/15 08:09 AM
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check this out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1wNR6jrC_s
/r/seduction20/03/15 08:03 AM
1

nice answer :D Thanks for that!
/r/seduction19/03/15 07:04 PM
1

but if they do, then where's the mistery? Isn't that important aswell? Letting her think about what will happen?
/r/seduction19/03/15 12:44 PM
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Bro, EVERYBODY has AA, and you can never get rid of her. You just get used to it. You have to practice everyday, actually, or you might end up with AA again from where you started.
/r/seduction17/03/15 11:23 AM
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Here's what I did: I really like this girl from the beggining of the school year, I still do, but I went on a date(the first one, and it was horrible), and there's this girl that looks pretty interested, so even if I like that girl (I would marry her this second), I still try meeting and dating other girls, and that oneitis feeling fades away easily, and soon I hope it will be gone. Idk if this is a good advice, but I tried :D
/r/seduction17/03/15 11:06 AM
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this shit is nice, bro!
/r/seduction16/03/15 05:15 PM
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maybe go here: http://www.reddit.com/r/highseddit/
/r/seduction16/03/15 10:28 AM
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please get this to the sidebar or top posts
/r/seduction13/03/15 08:31 AM
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I talked to her like 4 times, so I guess it goes to the first option.
/r/seduction12/03/15 06:08 AM
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maybe that's what you want to believe.
/r/seduction11/03/15 04:43 PM
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Dude, just stop masturbating, try washing your face with water everytime you go to the bathroom, and let it dry on your face. make sure you never have fat greased on your face. clean it with your forearm so that you don't get your hand greased aswell. That's what I'm doing and like, in one week I have only the scars.
/r/seduction11/03/15 05:13 AM
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well, I am refering about 19-22 years (maybe? Not to old anyway). Here's an example: I plannified a meeting with an old friend from another town. He came by train, and in the train he met with the sister (19) of another old friend. So, I got to the train station and we all decided to go somewhere to get a drink. At first she said that my voice is very sexy (lol), then we went through rain like 20 minutes and we were under an umbrella and very close and flirted a lot. The idea is that I think exp…
/r/seduction07/03/15 07:12 AM
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Once I told a girl that I liked her and asked her if she wanted to be my girlfriend (really stupid that time), and I felt like my body was on fire (not a painful one). Really awesome!(even tho she rejected me)
/r/seduction06/03/15 08:12 AM
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I just tought that it's nor necesarilly aspecific girl... I just asked about all the shy girls, but with an example from my stuation. Sorry for doing that. I searched "shy girls" tho, but I haven't found very much
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:00 PM
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still... not the next day. Give her some time to breath, to think about what you guys did. Plan the date at least 2 days before so she could think about it. Sometimes, her thinking about what will happen can be a lot more effective than the whole date.
/r/seduction16/01/15 10:18 PM
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sadly, I have no sister... Even tho, my friend told me today that I should try that :D Now I really have to try it. Thanks!
/r/seduction12/01/15 08:51 PM
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If you approach 1000 girls and get rejected 999 times, but you still get that one girl, it's great. And dude, i bet you are a great guy, so if girls reject you, then why would you even want to be friends/have a relationship with a girl that doesn't like the way you are?
/r/seduction08/11/14 10:29 PM
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come on dude, looks don't matter. Only as the first impression.
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:10 PM
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Dude, girls are not so interested about physical looks as they care about your personality. Just talk to them and don't think that you are not atractive psyhically. Start talk to them and when they'll get to know you they will like you. Just learn how to kino, how to use body language, be confident, smile and they must be yours. P.S: check this guy, he fucks a lot of girls and he is ugly as fuck https://www.youtube.com/user/Johnnyberba
/r/seduction08/11/14 12:16 PM
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Just don't think of it as a big deal, because it actually isn't... Hugging or tapping someone's shoulder is really easy. When you'll start holding hands, placing your hand on her lap, or kissing her, well... That's when you have to pretend it's not a big deal. For now, it really isn't a big deal. P.S: I'm 16. If I can do it, then you can fuking do it.
/r/seduction03/11/14 05:28 PM
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how the fuck did you miss? Was it dark and you couldn't see? Are you blind? lol what do you mean?
/r/seduction03/11/14 09:22 AM
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Actually, he said "This.", which means that my answer was good, and he added some more info, but it doesn't matter anyway :D
/r/seduction01/11/14 06:35 PM
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It's a cold approach... you could basically do it anywhere.
/r/seduction01/11/14 10:45 AM
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the fuked up thing is that i don't know if i can recognize her, as it was really dark and everything happened so fast...
/r/seduction30/10/14 07:32 PM
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I am still shy, even tho I am trying and I started to introduce myself to everybody I have the chance to, so I am not so good giving advices, but still. Girls love to be hugged (for example), so they shouldn't think that you are creepy starting to do that. Read this: http://www.seductionscience.com/2011/how-to-touch-a-woman-friend/ If you start touching them, you build sexual attraction.
/r/seduction28/10/14 07:41 PM
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If you were with your guy friends and a girl came to tell you that you are handsome/cute/whatever, would you feel embarrased? If you compliment a girl she is only going to feel good. You'll make her day. I have a question: Do you give a shit about the other girl?
/r/seduction28/10/14 08:18 AM
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Also, if you talk to girls like that from the moment you meet them, they will be used to hear you making that kind of jokes. If you just start doing that, like from nowhere, you will be creepy.
/r/seduction28/10/14 08:12 AM
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that's nice bro! i can assume how you act with girls... really, you are so funny and awesome!
/r/seduction22/10/14 07:41 PM
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REALLY NICE BRO! I'm only 16 and today was the first cold approaching ever, so i sucked hard time especially cuz i didn't know how to open, but after reading this i feel a lot more prepared. But still... When i approached the girls, my balls were shaking. I was so scared that i couldn't keep my arm steady when we shook hands... Is that gonna pass in time or not? Thank you very much!
/r/seduction20/10/14 07:18 PM
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here ya' go: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JJFBtHcBnM and this girl is actually REALLY hot and pretty
/r/seduction19/10/14 08:36 PM
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I feel exactly the same, or maybe felt... I pretty much new what to do but i was too afraid to go start chatting with a girl and i tried to find any excuse not to. I used to say that i don't go home from school until i talk with at least one girl, but never did. This week i had a flu and stood home and read A LOT of tutorials and FRs and all that. Now i feel really confident and i imagined how would it be if i was confident and chill and all. Tomorrow i have school and i really hope that on the …
/r/seduction19/10/14 01:51 PM
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just imagine how would it be if you were the one inloved with her, and she would be in your place. How would you like her to tell you that she thinks of you only as a friend?
/r/seduction17/10/14 06:49 PM
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thanks a lot guys! i really am a beginner, but i will give my best. tho, the thing is that i am really shy...
/r/seduction23/09/14 09:53 PM
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