I have no problem with the first approach, I can be like a god, but after that it's hard to keep that god mode on.
that's one problem- what to do after first approach, and here comes the second one:
I started talking to this girl on fb, and at first I was rocking. Any girl would fall for that version of me, I'd say. And I kept that stance for, let's say a month, but after that it started fading away, topics were less and less.
What can I do about that?

P.S: I wrote this from my phone, so sorry for any bad formatting