Ok what the hell ?? (cold feet) [recovered]

TheXXL · 2016-12-14T07:06:57+00:00

Could be anything, but I guess it's either you lack in screening, only picking girls that are not really interested/only in for the attention, or you fail to build enough attraction and comfort for them to die to meet you.

RytekBJJ · 2016-12-14T21:47:34+00:00

You need to build more tension. A woman needs to decide she likes you, then have some time to wonder if and when you're going to ask her out. This can happen in just a few minutes in public because she knows without your contact info she'll probably never see you again, but in a situation like a coworker where you are going to see them again for sure it can take longer.

I used to work IT in a hospital. Hot nurses everywhere. They would flirt and I'd ask them out and they'd make an excuse. Eventually I noticed that nurses in areas I was in all the time were more friendly in their behavior, and nurses in areas I rarely went were more flirty. Having a really fun and flirty interaction, then not running into them for a week or two was a great way to build some tension and get them much more likely to say yes.

That's one reason things like teasing is so effective. If a woman is 100% confident you are going to ask her out she will probably say no. Teasing her is enough to get her to starting thinking maybe you aren't that interested, and then she can start thinking that she does want you to ask her out, and then she'll be ready to say yes when you do.

Title	Ok what the hell ?? (cold feet) [recovered]
Author	broah3250 [recovered]
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	December 14, 2016 5:17 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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