Asked girl out and got rejected with"idk, i'm just so depressed, sorry :(" "Maybe later(?)" [recovered]

Lambdal7 · 2017-09-02T18:06:15+00:00

You should have said "I'll help you with it, trust me. :)"

Apart from that, find other girls, not for revenge, for yourself.

Notarandomencounter · 2017-09-02T18:16:42+00:00

I feel like if you had made a more specific yet spontaneaus offer, you would have gotten a better ruselt. Asked her out for ice-cream right now or something similar. It was propably more the stress of getting ready for a date she couldnt handle. Build on the rapport you have and take her on a casual 'not-date'-date.

DavidGolani11 · 2017-09-03T04:14:38+00:00

"Oh what's wrong???"

A depressed girl will want to vent about her situation. Don't even acknowledge anything as a rejection, just that she wants to get it off her chest or she wouldn't have brought that up.

Its called conversation dude, its not magic but you need to learn how to have one in any situation, even in a foxhole under enemy fire.

jeremyjack33 · 2017-09-03T05:33:22+00:00

You should make a plan to do something and TELL HER to come. It'll be so much fun and you won't have to think about anything.

Jarn_Tybalt · 2017-09-02T20:32:18+00:00

I think you "asked" way too much. Sometimes you don't "ask" so much as you "suggest" or "tell."

Hey, as I yesterday said at party that it would be awesome to get known each other way more better. Would you be interested to go eat out some day?

This should have been, "At the party, we talked about getting to know each other better. Let's go out saturday. I'll pick ya up for ice cream. 3 oclock work?"

Does this mean "Never" or "Not now"

Should have been, if she rejected you or was vague, "No problem. I think you're great, so I had to take the chance. haha! Hit me up anytime."

I don't want be needy and "chase" that girl or waste any more time to her, i had just really strong crush on her, and I do not have had ever girlfriend.In fact, that was also my first time when i ask someone out

Good on ya, mate, for trying. But they way you are asking and being all quiet around her is a one-way stop to the friendzone.

They dude that is gonna go out with her instead of you, (and trust me, she WILL be dating someone very soon) is gonna have the balls to ask her out the right way.

Title	Asked girl out and got rejected with"idk, i'm just so depressed, sorry :(" "Maybe later(?)" [recovered]
Author	socialretardo1 [recovered]
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	September 2, 2017 5:34 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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