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[–]KinoChris 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lies. There are two types of couples.
The happy ones
The not happy ones.
I have been in all 3 roles, the cheated on, the cheater, and the cheated with.
Example, i was just out last weekend, while they weren't married. They had been dating 6 years.
Guess what? the girl was flirting with me, we ended up making out and I got her number. Even though her boyfriend of 6 years was there. She flirted with me in front of him, even leaving the party to explore the hotel with me. Long story short she got kicked out, and even though i have her number she probably wont talk to me. Lmao seeing as i kinda am the reason she got kicked out.
My point is, not everyone who is together is happy. If someone is married/ with someone, it only matters if it matters to them. Past that, it's irrelevant .
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I don't agree at all that married women or girls in relationships are harder to pick up. Some of them are way easier because they haven't had thrilling sex in years. Many of them are sexually pent up and frustrated about it.
[–]KinoChris 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Good job, as you approach more you will get more comfortable with talking to women. You should take a look at my pillars of attraction post. A new guy like you might benefit from it.
[–]Flomosho 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
I've realised all of this before but I've never put it into action until recently when I realised how much potential I have. I've been complimented on my dressing habits and am usually said to be handsome, and on a smaller note rated 7.5 - 8 by others (I don't like ratings though, too subjective). My biggest problem is social skills. I've pretty much always had bad social skills, and when I am talkative I get called annoying, mainly because of my ADHD. But eh, I'm only 18. Still got a lot of time.
Gonna try my luck again over Spring Break. Thank you!
EDIT: Just realised I didn't cut my nails before then. THAT'S why she didn't want me, lol
[–]KinoChris 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Might I suggest working on your non verbal game first. This is something I have been working more on myself. If you are already considered decent looking, you should have less problems as you are already desired.
Work on more kino. High fives, hand holding, etc
Remember most communication is not words. It’s body language and tone, I have mixed feelings about RSD after reading Neil Strausses “the game “. However I saw one RSD Tyler did that I think will be a good excercize for you
[–]KinoChris 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hmm 🤔
[–]KinoChris 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WYBMtAbiUqA&t=984s
[–]cookiemistery 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the youtube video and the book. I find it difficult to be confident in an interaction with a girl, I feel like I get distracted in my head and I don't know what to do about eye contact. I wonder if just bringing discipline into the 6 pillars of attraction will give me more confidence overall.
No such thing as a magic bullet. The six pillars are only what is generally “attractive” it will help put you in a positive light, but you can still fuck it up.
Relax I still get in my head sometimes, when I find myself doing that I try to slow down my talking, breathe and focus more on listening and being in the moment.
Also don’t be too outcome dependent. Like if every set you expect sex you are doing it wrong, punish yourself only when you miss an actual opportunity
[–]mtunkara1191 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Same 18 too and just did my first ever approach yesterday but in school lol got rejected but got a good laugh and some experience out of it.
[–]KinoChris 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
you learn more from failure than success. Keep trying. I make out and hook up with randoms somewhat regularly, and guess what? I still get rejected and blown out too. I would suggest working on Non verbal openers. Get a small smile or wave going on first, make eye contact first, then go in. Also small side note, never approach from behind always the front.
[–]mtunkara1191 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thanks appreciate the reply I just went in completely cold but made sure she seen me coming lol but now I wanna wait for some interest and then go accordingly with the new approaches.
[–]KinoChris 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
anytime
Message me if you ever have any questons. I'm new to reddit, so keep a look out for my posts
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you learn more from failure than success.
Absolfuckingutly.
Ugh fucking shit dude!! Holy cringe!
Nice job man. I’ve literally probably done worse and totally suppressed it.
Next time dude. 👌🏽😎
Holy fuck she said good luck
Again nice fucking job.
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