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KinoChris/r/seduction15/03/19 08:05 PM
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Mixed feelings. If you watch Todd V he mentions"premise" which is exactly the sub text as to WHY you're talking to the woman. Direct game tends to be less desirable than people think in my opinion. It gives your power away to the woman and lets her decide the interaction. Mystery can be powerful. Have you ever wondered if a girl likes you or not? It's a vexing feeling. Even Niccolo Machiavelli said something similar a LONG time ago. He gives an story of a woman who begins to like this gentlemen.…
/r/seduction22/12/19 03:56 PM
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You got my upvote.
/r/seduction18/03/19 08:42 AM
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Meant * in night game
/r/seduction16/03/19 07:27 PM
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I respectfully disagree, you never get a second chance at a first impression Def not most important but it is in my core six because first impressions are powerful, I’ve learned the hard way 😅😅 Most humans know within a minute if they’d give that person a chance, not that it will happen, but it COULD happen, not making a good visual appearance can only hurt you. Think of all the things you sub communicate by dressing nice
/r/seduction16/03/19 04:18 PM
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Some women care about various factors. No night game your three are kinda the trumps
/r/seduction16/03/19 04:16 PM
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u/finchfry157 good tutorial tho. I do feel like since you closed on a k close this worked well. I would also like to see one where you start off from not a high point. Like let’s say meeting a girl at the gym or grocery store , where there is attraction but no real escalation other than light kino. But In all good tutorial, will be putting this into practice.
/r/seduction16/03/19 03:57 PM
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You need to reframe / rebrand yourself. As someone who has done sales, I’ll tell you. People buy you before your product. In this case they “aren’t buying you” Check out my 6 pillars of attraction post. At some point I’ll make a post about rebranding and reframing. But for now I’d say, change your hair, new clothes. Do something different, no, it won’t immediately get you a number, but it will force people to reevaluate you. As humans we look at things in a general viewpoint, often grouping thin…
/r/seduction16/03/19 03:48 PM
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Anytime, keep an eye out for my posts 👍🏾 Check out my 6 pillars of attraction post if you haven’t already
/r/seduction16/03/19 03:42 PM
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Good shit
/r/seduction16/03/19 07:32 AM
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I’m from Chicago so while not completely necessary, it helps
/r/seduction16/03/19 04:06 AM
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Relax I still get in my head sometimes, when I find myself doing that I try to slow down my talking, breathe and focus more on listening and being in the moment. Also don’t be too outcome dependent. Like if every set you expect sex you are doing it wrong, punish yourself only when you miss an actual opportunity
/r/seduction16/03/19 03:40 AM
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No such thing as a magic bullet. The six pillars are only what is generally “attractive” it will help put you in a positive light, but you can still fuck it up.
/r/seduction16/03/19 03:36 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
/r/seduction16/03/19 02:04 AM
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If done right it should just happen 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction16/03/19 02:01 AM
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Learn to use more kino and how to escalate properly
/r/seduction16/03/19 02:01 AM
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Who dared downvote this man!!! He had one of the better ideas, lacking but good. Remember 90% of communication is non verbal. Go somewhere you aren’t expected to talk if you don’t know the language, like a dance club.
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:55 AM
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Remember, at some point. Everyone was strangers. Even your family.... Now take a deep breath, and prepare to be uncomfortable. To gain rapport you must make yourself vulnerable and be comfortable with it. We all have flaws, fix the ones you can. Own the ones you can’t
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:50 AM
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Don’t pressure it, go out, don’t hit her up the first day. Build some local social proof, hook up with someone else locally if possible. Invite her to coffee like day 3-4 and chat if she’s available and interested. If not that I’d your answer
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:47 AM
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I say learn to be more comfortable solo, often times you will miss opportunities by being a duo instead of a solo
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:41 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WYBMtAbiUqA&t=984s
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:22 AM
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Might I suggest working on your non verbal game first. This is something I have been working more on myself. If you are already considered decent looking, you should have less problems as you are already desired. Work on more kino. High fives, hand holding, etc Remember most communication is not words. It’s body language and tone, I have mixed feelings about RSD after reading Neil Strausses “the game “. However I saw one RSD Tyler did that I think will be a good excercize for you
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:20 AM
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Hmm 🤔
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:14 AM
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Lol me too, to be honest I usually go out solo or with my wing. But sure I’ll make an exception 🤟🏾
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:11 AM
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Right, gotta ask yourself. If women only cared about looks. How’s that possible? Because women aren’t as shallow as you think.
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:05 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction16/03/19 12:43 AM
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ahahahahahahahaha. Funny, but it's a thing. I have done it before. GYI the old me new me thing. I think that got posted to the top because of the article I posted on style... Not sure why it chose that as the header, but that isn't me.
/r/seduction16/03/19 12:29 AM
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LOOKS DONT MATTER! or rather, they matter less than you would think Is what the whole thing reads. ​
/r/seduction16/03/19 12:26 AM
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that's out of context
/r/seduction16/03/19 12:26 AM
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That isn't even me. I dont even know how that picture got there. lmao. New to reddit~~ However, no lie. I have rolled up my blazer sleeves. XD
/r/seduction16/03/19 12:25 AM
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I would to add my thoughts, props for effort. Here is what you did wrong in my opinion ​ First, you said on your way to work you did approaches otw to work, which isn't bad but not good either. Reason being. You need to work on state control first. Often times in clubs, bars, etc the energy is high and people are having a good time. So even when you bomb it seems less awkward because that failure/blowout/rejection can easily be handled by fading into the background and never seeing them again. a…
/r/seduction16/03/19 12:23 AM
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Great analysis
/r/seduction15/03/19 11:58 PM
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Same age then, I'm not sure if there is really a "community" here. I did hear there used to be a "Chicago Lair" in the good ol' days. However since PUAlair is dead yeah.... Chicago is pretty diverse and has a wide scene of nightlife.
/r/seduction15/03/19 11:41 PM
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Message me if you ever have any questons. I'm new to reddit, so keep a look out for my posts
/r/seduction15/03/19 10:36 PM
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anytime
/r/seduction15/03/19 10:35 PM
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Hmmm... I need to watch this but I don't think they are BS Women are often experts at non verbal communication, IOI's are non verbal / non threatening ways for her to signal she is into you... In our culture, women are rarely, if ever expected to lead the conversation/interaction. So most women develop a way to tell you they are/ or aren't attracted to you non-verbally. Eye contact, hair flips. asking alot of questions to fill the silence are all IOI's. You have to be careful not to misread frie…
/r/seduction15/03/19 10:33 PM
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Don't fall to oneitis, if you only chase her you appear needy. Go fuck someone else and just do you, if it happens it'll happen
/r/seduction15/03/19 10:27 PM
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Yeah bro, you missed your chance. Now you are kinda in the frame of "needy and not decisive" also seems like she might have been emotionally confused at the time. Seeing as she just got out of a LTR. You all had / have good rapport and that led to the comfort. I have a theory. Fuck early and often... When you take too long to hit home base you put way too much pressure on the situation ​
/r/seduction15/03/19 10:26 PM
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People often forget that and just be "text buddies"
/r/seduction15/03/19 10:18 PM
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Literally just ask, the point of the number, In my opinion is to see her again.
/r/seduction15/03/19 10:13 PM
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Lies. There are two types of couples. The happy ones The not happy ones. ​ I have been in all 3 roles, the cheated on, the cheater, and the cheated with. Example, i was just out last weekend, while they weren't married. They had been dating 6 years. Guess what? the girl was flirting with me, we ended up making out and I got her number. Even though her boyfriend of 6 years was there. She flirted with me in front of him, even leaving the party to explore the hotel with me. Long story short she got…
/r/seduction15/03/19 10:11 PM
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How old are you ?
/r/seduction15/03/19 09:28 PM
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you learn more from failure than success. Keep trying. I make out and hook up with randoms somewhat regularly, and guess what? I still get rejected and blown out too. I would suggest working on Non verbal openers. Get a small smile or wave going on first, make eye contact first, then go in. Also small side note, never approach from behind always the front.
/r/seduction15/03/19 09:20 PM
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Good job, as you approach more you will get more comfortable with talking to women. You should take a look at my pillars of attraction post. A new guy like you might benefit from it.
/r/seduction15/03/19 09:01 PM
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