Question about abundance.

djdante · 2019-03-15T21:16:35+00:00

Hey mate, I think this sounds like a sensible question from a sensible guy.

Try not thinking about 'abundance' right now - I mean the idea of an abundance mentality is a powerful one, and I don't want to dismiss it, but I think it can't serve you right now. Like telling a poor person 'it takes money to make money' - Which, while true, isn't the only path to success (spoken as a guy who was once poor and still started a thriving company with a total startup fund of $1000).

Instead, think about being the master of your life - Being Empowered - IF you focus instead on taking control of all aspects of your life. Take charge of your finances (even if there isn't much of them), learn to be responsible with spending so you've got control. Take charge of your health - eat less junk, start getting exercise regularly.

Start asking yourself what you want from your career, and start moving that direction ON PURPOSE. It will take a while to build a successful career, but just take charge of the path and do things on purpsoe to move toward your goal.

If you are feeling lonely, or want more friends, start taking charge of that too - Start going to more social events, you'll eventually start to make friends - or pick up a weekend sport at a local sport club, or a hobby with a meetup.com group...

If you start taking charge of your life, you'll feel personaly empowerd, and that IS abundance in a deeper sense than most guys consider it. If you feel personally empowered, even if you arent' rich yet, women are going to find you much more attractive, AND your sense of self-worth will be far higher than it is now.

WildinCuzImYoung · 2019-03-15T22:57:46+00:00

Is that the JRE with Alex Jones? Jk.

For real though it's all about value just like with women. Abundance is having so much value you are still good if you lose some and people can see it in you. Its basic economics that you won't be able to make much profit from exchanging value with those who have none so why dafaq would a people looking to have fun loiter around a depressed loser or than for moral charity.

Start living like a rock star or whatever that you find cool and people who resonate with that will be attracted to you. If you are in a small town where shit does not happen, all the kids are board and then you start playing music or doing motorbike tricks through flaming wheels in you back yard people will be like shit that's cool as fuck I want in on that.

When basic survival needs are met what do people want? Fun and confront to take their mind off the depressing reality of life and its pain. That's why drugs are such a big industry. You need to have self esteem and an awesome life reality everyone wants to be a part of. That's the drug you are selling them like a pimp.

Learn vibing and make your life awesome. Once that's handled build on that with real shit like getting money and connections. Eliminate this needy bullshit by providing for yourself and people will want to do more business in you socially and emotional investing.

Tl:dr lil pump

folasanmi · 2019-03-15T20:41:23+00:00

Few thing in your post:

1) its true, people are attracted to people with abundance, because the opposite of abundance is neediness which is the most unattractive quality a person could have, especially toward a girl. Needy people reek of an agenda, or that they want something from you. Just imagine,your walking down the street and all of a sudden some homeless guy starts asking you innocuous questions about the weather. Without him even continuing you know he wants something from you. Same with women, as a guy if you walk up to her trying to take something from her, that’s super creepy and will lead to blowouts right off the back.

2) so...how do you become more abundant you ask and still do pickup. The answer is you cant. You need to do cold approach anyway because you need to start some where. Don’t make the mistake of working on your inner game for years and still shitting your pants when it comes to opening a group or a hot girl. It’s both and not either or.

KinoChris · 2019-03-16T01:50:25+00:00

Remember, at some point. Everyone was strangers. Even your family.... Now take a deep breath, and prepare to be uncomfortable. To gain rapport you must make yourself vulnerable and be comfortable with it. We all have flaws, fix the ones you can. Own the ones you can’t

Title	Question about abundance.
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Date	March 15, 2019 8:29 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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