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[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
An important note for any newbs happening on this post:
social media (i.e. instagram) plays a huge role in others’ perception of us.
While it's convenient as a technology and allows for more options to stay in touch with others and coordinate meets and social events, NONE of it is do or die.
At the end of the day, social media is a tool, like phones and computers. It is sufficient as a form of limited communication (staying in touch after that initial meeting, handling logistics, etc.), but not necessary.
But most notably, having a great social media campaign or profile, does not constitute actual seduction. It might help put you in touch with people that you meet in person later, but social media doesn't handle the actual in-person seduction. The core skill set here is still in-person social skills.
[–]TinderongKupido3 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
It has effect on the following:
Number closing. Girls sometimes give fb or instagram account instead of numbers.I usually dont get fb or insta and rather stick to number close. If you want to get their social media, give yours (higher frame). Dont be just her follower. Tell her to follow you or add you up or get her phone to add your social media.
Text/chat game. They will have short attention span because they are doing DMs with lot of people in social media. The strategy is to create space and message her to setup dates. Once a week text/chat is enough.
Interest level. You can raise or lower her interest level through your social media profile. If you are adding insta or fb close in your approaches, better improve your profile and posts.
Online dating. Girls now have other options like tinder. It is somewhat similar to insta and fb dating. You might want to explore this option from time to time because i think this will boom in the future.
Online dating tips: https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
[–]AFL-NOEL 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Biggest role for me is long term follow up with girls who are either not available now (relationship, etc.) or who I approached and don’t live in same area as me.. other than that I’m all about approaching new girls and setting up hanging out with them as soon as possible and/or right now.. everybody uses social differently though, there’s no right or wrong way.. here’s some brand new day game from Miami Beach for added inspiration, including a few girls who fall into this social media category.. sending positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/SfKDpzU01Ms
[–]WIA20XX 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Texting, smartphones, social media, and online dating are crucial 21st century skills.
Learning curve is steep. Calibration doesn't really exist.
But you can treat your dating life like a marketing campaign, and reach more women than you ever could doing offline approaches.
For me, Fat Boy Luke has been the only major coach to see the potential. Playing with Fire Alex is also doing good work.
But just like proper game, no one has really brought it all together, imo
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