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Sounds like you are one of her gay friend already. If you are willing to get her, you must be willing to lose her. Don't treat her as a friend or let her treat you as a friend. Don't ask her if you could be more than friends again or try to date her. Pull back for a period of time and let her initiate contact. Invite her to your place but don't say to her that you are going to fuck her (directly or impliedly). Just do casual talks and be neutral. Let her feel that you will not be her dancing mon…
/r/seduction31/08/19 10:15 AM
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Just message her with 'hi'. This will be your last message. If she doesn't reply, time to move one. Is she your 1 and only match? If yes, need to fix you pics and bio. Always come from an abundance frame and not from scarcity. That means, matching and chatting with lot of girls. You can do approaching too to add more options. <------------------------------------------------------------> Advertisement: Posting my video if anyone have spare time to watch. I do not intend to force anyone to watch.…
/r/seduction31/08/19 09:38 AM
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You've kissed her but did not took her to bed. You are kinda sick. What exactly happened here? I think she lost interest in you. What kind of kiss? What place? Motel, restaurant, her place, your place? Don't send her voice saying you think you have something special or mentioning about the kiss. Just move on. Don't talk to girls just because you want to faze her. She knows that you are doing it to get her attention. Date other women and don't give a fuck about her. Do not message her again. Ther…
/r/seduction31/08/19 09:15 AM
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You don't open your feelings to a woman. That's validating her. Woman should be the one validating you ( like what the woman you don't care about is doing). Just flip the frame, don't care about the attractive women. They will sense if you like them. The moment you say to yourself that you like a woman, your energy will be needy and invested to her. Girls will sense this and lose interest. Ways to improve: Meet other women (approaching) Improve your aesthetics (fitness, fashion) Improve your min…
/r/seduction31/08/19 07:25 AM
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Thanks Brad
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:52 AM
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Betas breath too. So to get girls, we don't breath
/r/seduction30/08/19 03:26 AM
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Women don't know what they want.
/r/seduction30/08/19 03:17 AM
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If you ask women, they want you to validate them but lose interest/attraction if you do so. Don't do what beta do, always liking and commenting on their post. Instead, dm her and ask her to go out. <-----------------------------------------------------------------> Advertisement: Posting my video if anyone have spare time to watch (not forcing anyone thanks). Online dating tips: https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction30/08/19 03:17 AM
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Yes, don't hesitate. <-----------------------------------------------------------------> Advertisement: Posting my video if anyone have spare time to watch (not forcing anyone thanks). Online dating tips: https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction29/08/19 03:11 PM
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Usually I wont push for a quick meetup after getting the number. Text is 1 day after i got her number. Meetup is after 1 week or so. It's just me because I am doing other stuffs like work and meeting other girls ( right frame). Setting up date immediately may come off as invested and you like her so much (too available for her). She'll see what her friends will be doing seems like you are in her low priority list right now. Raise her interest level by creating space after the initial text convo.
/r/seduction29/08/19 03:07 PM
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Tough spot if you have logistics issue. How about inviting her to meet half-way? I'd still go with the tight line, create mystery and space for her to be curious/interested to meet you halfway or full way.
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:52 PM
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Women at work knows that they can bend rules because it is in favor to them. If you do that to a woman, they can report you and the company can take action against you. Woman can touch and seduce you at work but you cannot do the same. It's hard to seduce woman at work unless you will play the beta male/ provider/bf role (giving her by attention and putting her to pedestal) which sucks. In your case, she is married and can't do this type of shit at work (involving with another man). If she will …
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:37 PM
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You are solved puzzle for her. Interest level has gone down. Do not message her again. Keep doing what you are doing. Travelling and enjoying life. She will let you know once you got her attention again. This time don't mess up. She has been chasing you from the beginning (liking and commenting on your posts), don't give her your validation easily next time. Setup dates and avoid long text/chats. Make something happen. <-----------------------------------------------------------------> Advertise…
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:08 PM
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Day Game Night game Social game Niche game Teritorial game Online dating Tinder Tips: https://youtu.be/dXkdrRG0vqw
/r/seduction28/08/19 05:03 PM
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F) Improve inner game. <-----------------------------------------------------------------> Advertisement: Posting my video if anyone have spare time to watch (not forcing anyone thanks). Online dating tips: https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction28/08/19 04:15 PM
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Yes, if she is reciprocating the text conversation. Based from OP, it is not. He is the only one doing the all the effort. Need to pull back for a while to restart attraction.
/r/seduction28/08/19 03:28 PM
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Negging is creepy and unattractive. Push-pull is attractive and masculine. This is about rocking the boat. Push - willing to walk away ( attractive). Pull - confidence to advance (attractive). Push-pull should not be a routine (examples not needed). It is a mindset needed in life not just in seduction.
/r/seduction28/08/19 02:27 PM
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It's a restart. She is not interested enough and you are investing. Flip the frame. Don't text in 1 week. Then say just ' hi, hope you are doing fine' If she respond with one word like 'thanks or smiley'. You need restart more. Text her after 2 weeks. Once her reply is positive like ' hey, how are you or where have you been? Hold your frame. No long messages. Just say ' been doing some stuffs, you?' hold your frame. Don just set date. Until you feel that she would go out with you. You can tell b…
/r/seduction28/08/19 02:14 PM
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Cool. 2 more days before you message her again. Like 'hi, hope you are enjoying your trip'. If she doesn't reply, dont text her again for 5 days.
/r/seduction28/08/19 01:43 PM
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Go out and meet other women. She will message you when she misses you. You just need to reply.
/r/seduction28/08/19 01:17 PM
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Both haha. Focus on setting up a meetup with her. Lessen the text convo as she might not meet you if she is getting free attention and information via text.
/r/seduction27/08/19 06:15 PM
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This is a good question. You need to sleep with her man.
/r/seduction26/08/19 02:23 PM
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This is bad advice and you might end up doing pay for sex for all your life. Start your journey the correct way! Learn basic seduction skills and apply it immediately. Approach girls. Its an adrenaline rush. It is hard but you learn from experience for every approach.
/r/seduction26/08/19 01:41 PM
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I have a weird inner game so my advice will not be popular. Don't give a fuck and don't be jealous. If she sense some jealousy in you or you are affected by her behaviour, she will lose attraction. I think this is a borderline shit test and disrespect. Either way, stand your ground and dont be moved from your center. You are quiet new together so she might be doing this sub conciously to know if she found an attractive or insecure man. Date or see other girls but don't tell her. You can flip the…
/r/seduction26/08/19 01:20 PM
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You can do both but with awareness.
/r/seduction26/08/19 09:22 AM
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About to figure it out, you? Tips: https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction26/08/19 05:42 AM
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She should seduce you!
/r/seduction26/08/19 02:53 AM
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It has effect on the following: Number closing. Girls sometimes give fb or instagram account instead of numbers.I usually dont get fb or insta and rather stick to number close. If you want to get their social media, give yours (higher frame). Dont be just her follower. Tell her to follow you or add you up or get her phone to add your social media. Text/chat game. They will have short attention span because they are doing DMs with lot of people in social media. The strategy is to create space and…
/r/seduction26/08/19 02:49 AM
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Dude. Pinoy here also. You've got to have a lot of options coming from different means (approaching and online dating). Just contact her once a week and go meet other girls.
/r/seduction26/08/19 02:09 AM
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Too much mental masturbation and you are giving her free attention/validation. Arrange a meetup and drive her wild in real life. I doubt she will accept the date or probably she will flake because she is an attention whore. Probably you matched her in tinder and did not met her through approaching. For tinder tips: https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction26/08/19 01:48 AM
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Inner game of course!
/r/seduction25/08/19 08:26 AM
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Look for tom torero/james tusk/sasha daygame in you tube. Being funny is not my style. I just do it quick and simple.
/r/seduction25/08/19 08:01 AM
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The emergence of online dating and why PUA always say to stay away from these apps. With day gaming now popularized, apps will catch up too. Most likely we will do online 60-70℅ in the future and 30℅ percent approaching. As for approaching, you just really need to know the basic, right mindset, do approaches and calibration. Online dating tips: https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:47 AM
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Seems like you are focused only in outer game (appearance and behaviour). improve your inner game (mindset, confidence and self love) as well.
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:18 AM
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Problem with day game is the mass approaching. Imagine 20 guys in the street doing the same thing approaching every girl to gain experience. This is one of downside of emerging day game coaching system. The effectivity rate is going down due to this low quality approaches. I honestly think that online dating will improve in this technological advance era. An app for approaching will be invented. Real time meeting/ location based.
/r/seduction24/08/19 02:16 PM
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Subject: new Message: hey, i am new here. Does this email work? Online dating tips: https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:35 PM
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I've already told you what to do but you are more concerned about your reputation.
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:27 PM
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But you were that guy that night. Scared as fuck. Accept your mistakes and learn from it.
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:25 PM
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"What are you up to?" is a bad text. Depends on the initial approach, text game and logistics ( how far the girl is, is she busy).
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:22 PM
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Did you sleep with her before when you were together?
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:18 PM
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Why you wouldn't want to appear as guy that fucks girls? Nice guys finish last and unattractive
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:16 PM
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You are fine! Scenario 1: normal (part of day game) Scenario 2: good for number close. did you ask her for a date immediately? Can you post the text convo with time stamp? I'll check your text game
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:13 PM
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Don't overthink. Just be normal. Why do you care if the other girl thinks you fucked or not? Are you gaming her as well? (Bad move)
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:10 PM
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Yes! Don't make a deal out of it. If its a deal to you, she will feel the vibe and she will feel uncomfortable. Act normal like the way it used to be. This is a hard spot but enjoy the situation and learn from it.
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:07 PM
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You'll get 2 numbers in 10 approaches if you know the basics. Reason for rejection: Bad day Waiting for bf/husband You are not his type You are his type but the approach is bad Whats your opener and the conversation?
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:03 PM
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Yes. Always think that you can close. Time is short (3months) and she knows it. She'll get it with you if she likes you. If not, raise her interest level by not being too needy. Do this if she rejects you for a date: No texting after the program. You'll see her the next day. Let her text you first or let her come to you. Game other girls (not the other one). This will give you an abundance swag. Ask for a date after 2-3 weeks again. If she decline. Time to move on and enjoy the program. Just inc…
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:59 PM
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This is why you need a wingman or a friend that knows seduction. Your friend should help you isolate the other girl by getting it also or entertaining the other. Don't game 2 girls at one time if you are with them. Choose 1 only and focus on her. You should have ask her if she (the girl you like) want to get coffee and make a move there. She's having madonna whore complex and concern to be judged by her room mate. To salvage this, you need to go out with the girl you like. Just both of you.
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:50 PM
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My bad. Removed the link. Thanks
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:37 PM
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Use catching up /meet up. Use the word date in the future if she shows interest/green flags after the first date as a reward. Online dating tips: https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:09 PM
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Search for tom torero's beginners guide to day game. I have a copy. Send me your email. Open>Stack>Vibe>Invest>Close Link below is for online dating. https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:05 PM
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Just speak your mind and be comfortable. They will know that know little in english language. If you make it a big deal, they will also ( mirror effect). Being confident and good body language is crucial. https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:07 AM
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Something more meaningful is based from your social conditioning. When you use 'game' it feels like its fake because you have not fully embrace it. Thats why you could not consider this as meaningful. Somewhat you need to decide if you will cross the bridge or stay on the other side. https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:56 AM
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Know your archetype and find a seduction style best suited for you. Definitely not sasha day game style but i would suggest james marshall (natural). I am an introvert also and we cannot do what alpha males do ( extrovert). Best option would be sigma male traits. You cannot change your core personality but you can improve your true self and get better results. This is why most people rejects seduction/pua because they want to follow a certain style ( extrovert) but they fail at it. Also, when gi…
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:45 AM
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Filter women. Thats part of seduction. Look for red flags during your interaction. Always bring and USE condom! Online dating tips: https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:09 AM
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I did not read your whole post. Here's what you can do. Get your own place for f close Approach women Invest your money Learn PUA for free (youtube) I do not agree when you said that PUA is embedded to you already. Because you will not be playing money game if you truly knows the game. You can also do online dating: https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:55 AM
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I agree with others that we need some video on how you walk. Most of the guys today fakes the alpha male posture and you can tell if they are faking it. Even the energy is fake. There a certain balance needed to be attractive, alpha male and confident. Maybe you need to add the cool and calm traits.
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:48 AM
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Ask your best friend first. Bros before hoes https://youtu.be/9IRtGW8DPoc
/r/seduction24/08/19 08:38 AM
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This is not an approach if you offer to take them pictures. Maybe you did not showed your intent during the interaction. They view the interaction as friendly type of thing. In approaching a group of sets, you need to focus on 1 girl only (your type of girl). Get her number and ask her out. You invited both of them to go out and one of the girl might like you but you've been cockblocked by the other one. It is hard to approach specially in sets and I admire your courage. I remember cold approach…
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:59 AM
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Noted and edited the post. thanks!
/r/seduction24/08/19 04:23 AM
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+1 Always use protection 5 steps in getting numbers in Tinder, OKcupid or any dating apps. https://youtu.be/7g_WTzZBNxg Watch and subscribe. Thanks
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:47 PM
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Eat high protein diet, exercise, sleep well. Dont look at the mirror (because you tend to compare your looks to others). Just feel your body and you know that you are attractive. 5 steps in getting numbers in Tinder, OKcupid or any dating apps. https://youtu.be/7g_WTzZBNxg Watch and subscribe. Thanks
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:40 PM
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+1 Best is to move on and date other women. 5 steps in getting numbers in Tinder, OKcupid or any dating apps. https://youtu.be/7g_WTzZBNxg Watch and subscribe. Thanks
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:32 PM
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The girl is sending signals even though she is in a relationship. Don't respect her! The approach here is to know if she wants to sleep or just using the guy for free attention. 5 steps in getting numbers in Tinder, OKcupid or any dating apps. https://youtu.be/7g_WTzZBNxg Watch and subscribe. Thanks
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:29 PM
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Ask her out to have drinks and escalate things to sleep with her. Nothing to loose, if she likes you she will sleep with you. If she dont, then she is just using you for free attention. Better test her than never. Rock the boat! Atleast you know where you stands after your move. Pull back/ mimimal contact when she rejects you. Hold this frame and date other women. She might reach out to you after a month or also, its game on! 5 steps in getting numbers in Tinder, OKcupid or any dating apps. http…
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:23 PM
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Rejections are normal and should give you lessons on where to improve. Work on your... Body language (confident and not needy) since girls always filter out needy guys during the interaction (your project experience with her) Text game to setup dates Read or watch some basic attraction/seduction stuffs Dont validate women immediately ( dont give a fuck) 5 steps in getting numbers in Tinder, OKcupid or any dating apps. https://youtu.be/7g_WTzZBNxg Watch and subscribe. Thanks
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:24 PM
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The pickup line was good but your response saying you are not very good at something is unconfident. Small chance to recover but I would ask her number and move on. Something like.. Let me get your number to send my knock knocks from time to time. 5 steps in getting numbers in Tinder, OKcupid or any dating apps. https://youtu.be/7g_WTzZBNxg Watch and subscribe. Thanks
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:04 PM
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All women are bipolar. Shit test or not, you stay in your masculine frame.
/r/seduction23/08/19 12:49 PM
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That means she is not attracted to you. Go meet other girls. Maybe one day you'll get her. https://youtu.be/tzqpjWgzW-4
/r/seduction22/08/19 11:53 AM
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Preserve that facial bone structure until we meet! Viber? Getting number fast: https://youtu.be/tzqpjWgzW-4
/r/seduction22/08/19 11:25 AM
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Just do it. You need a high protein diet to be able to overcome approach anxiety. https://youtu.be/1ryqSxhwtsE
/r/seduction22/08/19 10:54 AM
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You are aiming for fantasy. Deal with reality and improve yourself. You'll get the 8's and one day when you do not expect it, you'll get a 10. Sometimes you'll get the 6 and enjoy more than the 9's. Thats life. Inner game! https://youtu.be/1ryqSxhwtsE
/r/seduction22/08/19 10:49 AM
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