So I met a girl a week ago We kissed, everything was there. The chemistry, everything was right. However, I was kinda sick and didn’t have the energy to take her to bed so I cut the date short and figured to just set up a second date. She agreed, but after the date, she stopped responding quickly, went cold, and I heard from her orbiter friends she was unsure if she wanted to meet me again and that I’m not her type.

The last text I sent her was to let me know when she’s free so we can meet up. She didn’t respond to this day.

We still occasionally see each other in TeamSpeak, and she’s always flirting with other guys now, seemingly desperate to find a guy as high value as me. She’s ignoring me mostly. I also started talking with other girls on there, but it doesn’t seem to faze her one bit.

The last thing I would try would be to send her a voice message or call her and tell her this: “Hey, I don't know if you normally kiss a guy like that and vanish, but it was kind of a special thing for me and I was pretty surprised and a little hurt to not hear from you. Anyway, maybe I got the wrong impression about you early on... but I was hoping we had something there. I guess maybe we didn't... bye."

What do you think of this or what do you think I should do? I haven’t send her any other text messages or chased her in any way so far.