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[–]LonelyCosAutistic 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]quickjump 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You need to understand that as a man, your time and your space is your pussy. Are you just going just give her your pussy until she's ready to give you hers? No. I know that sounds absurd, but that's the dynamic she's trying to establish. It's a power dynamic and she's on top. You just gonna sit and be a good boy until she's ready? Bro, fuck that shit.
How old are you? I mean no disrespect, I'm wondering because this means she's already your gf and you haven't smashed yet. This concerns me because the right way to get into a relationship is you game her, you start having sex and then SHE suggests becoming a couple but it seems like you both agreed to be a couple and now you're waiting for pussy - it's backwards.
I would take my ball and go home, because if she's into you, she's playing you and if she's not into you, she's playing you.
But I don't think she's into you.
[–]sharpstud 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is modern poetry.
[–]The_Urban_Legend69 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I get your point , but she adds more to my life than just plain ass sex . I don't think she'd date me if she wasn't into me . But when it comes to sex , she gets turned off
[–]TheXXL2 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Well, then prepare for not having sex until you get with someone else...
[–]quickjump 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Clearly that "more" you're referring to isn't enough for you since you generated this thread but that's understandable, you have needs. A wise man once said "don't chase 'em, replace em. " Just read How to be a 3% man, mostly for pointers on what not to do. Read it 10 times.
[–]TinderongKupido3 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
That means she is not attracted to you. Go meet other girls. Maybe one day you'll get her.
https://youtu.be/tzqpjWgzW-4
[–]skatinislife446 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only you know the answer to that
[–]smoothmax 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Add her to your harem of multiple girls that you flirt with, hang out with and date. If she knows that you're a popular guy that other women are into, she might rediscover her inner sexual beast.
If she's the one and only girl that you have a shot with and she knows it, it will go nowhere.
[–]Sheroclan 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Third date rule.
If I haven't had sex by the third date I normally stop. Anyone who says sexual chemistry isn't important in a relationship is lying to themselves.
It sounds like you're bummed out by it, and rightfully so, but I've read somewhere that divorces normally happen over two things (sex and money). I get frustrated when I haven't had sex in a while (and my Gf knows it, but she has a high libido as well so that's happened like twice in 2 years when we've both been incredibly busy). If you're the same, this relationship probably won't work?
[–]The_Urban_Legend69 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So the solution is to leave or should I be upfront about it with her ?!
[–]Sheroclan 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly that's your call. She's been upfront with you (I assume) so I'm not sure how much talking to her about what you want is going to work... All comes down how important sex in a relationship is for you.
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