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[–]unholyfaith 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bro they already get hit on/stared by 95% of dudes there. Its annoying. They're already on guard, and besides they're there to work out and focus on themselves, not socialize/hook up. Of course its a bad idea. Not saying there is not a possibility for success. I would just say that there are better places where women may be more open to conversation.
[–]tvrrx3 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
True unless a girl is giving you clear choosing signals, looks approachable & it’s in a place where there’s not a lot of people to witness if it goes south lmao. I think if you’re gonna approach at a gym you need to make sure it looks more friendly than creepy
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I disagree. I say it depends on the situation. Is she in the middle of her workout? Is she taking a break? A sip of water? Did you smile at her/interact with her briefly before getting the number? The main thing here is to gauge whether she will be okay with you getting her number or not. Most guys jump into it without receiving friendly signals and then it doesn’t go there way. The gym is the best place if you want a fit woman. 9/10 she values her appearance and takes care of herself. Women want to be approached but they want to be approached by people they are attracted to. Enough said.
[–]poorshaa 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea the second girl was staring at me for like an hour and a half and she as taking a break. That's the one I got her number. Previous to that there was nothing and obviously I failed.
[–]neversleeps212 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think the key is don’t interrupt her workout... if you’re both waiting for a class or getting water or she’s like looking for an attachment for cable machine or something, it’s one thing to try and opener. But don’t make her pull out her EarPods AND stop what she’s doing... that’s so low percentage (and kind of rude) that it’s not worth doing...
[–]mjshibz 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bc it sucks for the girl. It’s like trying to talk to chicks at work. She will want to be nice to you since it could be awkward since you both still go to the same gym, but that doesn’t mean she’s into it and she can’t just say if she isn’t for that reason
[–]Insaneflirt_max 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Everytime I did direct game at the gym it was a h ge embarrassment for everyone involved lol.
Go indirect and see how she reacts. Then act accordingly
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