I have been lurking around here latelly and there's been a question on my mind for quite a while.

For me the whole ideas around attraction are quite simple. If you really want to hookup with a girl you can make it happen.

Do you think that perhaps all these techniques available are a way to put your shit the fuck together and figure out what you want your attitude towards women to be, or is it a necessary (or useful) way to get the result if you have your mind already set up?