I was wondering today, about the difference between say you meet someone at your job or in some class and you know each other for months and have many interactions and over a longer period nothing happens and you one day hook up, something happens or something serious grows and starts vs you go on a date or 2 dates through apps and you don’t escalate enough and boom the attraction is gone. Help me explain the difference here, why in the first situation does that happen all the time and in situation 2 it’s one not amazing interaction and it’s done