Difference between Highschool and College?

Blue_Falcon_Killer · 2016-12-15T13:57:37+00:00

I did not go to a University but did go to community college when I got out of the Military and it was kinda a different because people were older and tended to stick with people going for the same thing. When I was in High school I had friends but was not the top of the food chain. However it sounds like you are comfortable talking to anyone and do not have a problem approaching people. As long as you stay like that you should do fine. I always suggest reading some of the books out there just to give you new ideas on how to approach and what to say. High School girls are easy for the most part. However college is the same but different at the same time. The whole liberated thing going on and what not. If you want to know some good books I can let you know best of luck hope College works out for you.

2016-12-16T01:53:22+00:00

Being in a frat will yield you many opportunities to meet woman and will give you a little social leverage in that your place will frequently be where the party is at and where all girls are welcome. If you manage to maintain good grades and your sense of integrity, this could be a fun experience. Be warned, many of these guys get shit grades, are addicted to cocaine, and resort to creepy antics to get their dicks wet. Also, this will give you no social leverage outside of the fraternity/sorority environment. In fact, many people (especially girls) not involved with that lifestyle will look down on you. And by your upperclassman days, you'll be stuck with younger party girls, which could be good or bad depending on your preference. Outside of that lifestyle, there is no social hierchy. There's no bullying. There's no cool kids lunch table. Everyone is cordial, there's no room for ostracizing when you have a group project due in 5 hours. You're either alpha or you're not. Your leverage will come solely from you and your lifestyle, as you'll be meeting people for the first time at every party you go to. If you want a little edge, become friends with a circle of hot girls. Anytime you end up in the friendzone or break up with someone on good terms, you have a new piece of social leverage (I'm not using them. They're actually my friends. I'm just describing the perks.). Walking into a party with 5 girls around you will turn heads. Live in a dorm freshman year and leave your door open while you're there, make as many friends and you can, and connect with like minded people. Then your sophomore year, if you haven't or don't want to move into a frat house, move into a house with a bunch of hot girls. Then you're set, just don't fuck your roommates. Also, get good grades. College is an investment in your future. The former frat star turned paper clip sales associate is the new former high school jock turned fry cook. Make something of yourself and chase your dreams with all of your effort. If you're always doing that, getting girls will come easily and naturally.

TheHumaneDuckling · 2016-12-15T18:04:32+00:00

It completely depends on your college. If you're going to a small school, popularity matters, but at a large university nobody will care.

NTSpike · 2016-12-15T19:32:16+00:00

If you want to keep leveraging your ability to make friends and use your social circle join a fraternity. It's the one thing I wouldve done different in college.

It's all on a spectrum. Some are all about getting stuff done, some are party idiots who drop out after sophomore year. Most are in the middle.

Social circle isn't the most important in larger schools and I did fine without intentionally developing one for the purpose of girls, but in party circles or any smaller communities social circle is DEFINITELY important. No matter what developing a healthy social circle will make your life a lot easier, in girls and just life in general (especially for securing a job after college, getting internal recommendations from older friends at companies is huge).

Title	Difference between Highschool and College?
Author	BurntYams
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	December 15, 2016 1:50 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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