Differences between a guy she wants to date casually vs someone she wants to date seriously?

norwegiandoggo · 2026-08-14T15:00:24+00:00

Most women want a serious relationship with any guy she sleeps with.

The rare cases she doesn't, it's often due to the guy being hot but having some major downsides like poor career prospects, bad communication skills, immaturity, drug use, moving to another city soon, not living in her city etc. In those cases most women will suspend their relationship-seeking and just go for the sex.

It also can have very little do with the man, and more to do with the overall circumstances and what she's looking for. Let's say she just came out of a relationship - maybe she just wants casual sex for a while. Or maybe they met at a rave or some wild party - and she will have sex but think "he's a party guy" so she might assume that he's not good for a relationship.

GroundbreakingAd8077 · 2026-08-14T15:03:19+00:00

Okay, so a girl is either looking for something casual, or looking for something permanent, some girls would prefer something permanent but will settle for something casual. if a girl is looking for something permanent but would settle for something casual the main difference between the permanent guy and the casual guy is compatibility, I once dated a girl who lived in the city, and she loved the city, she let me make her cum because she liked the attention, but she didn't try to date me seriously because I am a redneck. If a girl really wants something permanent sometimes she will settle for something casual if the guy is very good looking or charismatic or has a magnetic personality, I once slept with a girl who found me very attractive, she wanted me to commit to her but I told her I wouldn't, she was hoping that sleeping with me would change my mind. And lastly some girls just want to fuck, most of the time if you have casual sex it's because the girl just wants to fuck, it really has very little to do with you, I almost nothing to do with your personality, besides that you're outgoing and willing to talk to her and make her think about sex, if all the girls you're meeting want commitment from you, you're not in a casual sex environment, parties with alcohol and drugs tend to involve casual sex, Reddit it also has a lot of horny people.

Title	Differences between a guy she wants to date casually vs someone she wants to date seriously?
Author	nuckingfuts0
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	August 14, 2026 2:53 PM UTC (6 days ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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