[Discussion] Sexting

Methaxetamine · 2017-07-13T12:02:48+00:00

I never sext. I think it's gross and degenerate.

I will never sext until a girl unless she starts. The real dance of seduction starts when we meet. The sex starts when we touch.

I think if a girl shows you revealing shit on snap you're allowed to ask for more and just send dirty pics. I just leave it up for imagination and ask then when I can see more.

sergeant_flem · 2017-07-13T13:45:33+00:00

You don't until you've actually done the act

johnnyfaceoff · 2017-07-13T13:32:08+00:00

Just keep it on Snapchat and you're all good

dionysus220 · 2017-07-13T15:21:10+00:00

I find there to be pro's and con's, but it really depends on your definition of 'sexting'. Purely describing sex acts you would performing almost like a role play, or just sexually charged messages about sexual topics? Sending and receiving pictures back and forth?

While this doesn't work for everyone, I have a very sexual outward persona. It is something I am known for. Sex jokes, sex facts, and being sexually experienced. Most of my friends are actually women and sex comes up a lot with them, and often I use sexually charged messages to my advantage. You just have to be confident and know your audience. It isn't uncommon to be talking to a girl, the topic turns sexual. You know that women want sex just as much as men do. So use that. Lead the conversation where you want it. Whenever I happen to be talking to a girl about sex (not about fucking each other, but about sex acts or experiences we've had or stories) I almost always talk AT her about it. It isn't " oh yeah I know what you mean! I love when A GIRL does that to me and then I do this other thing to her" its "oh yeah I know what you mean! I love when YOU do that and then I do this to YOU". You aren't talking SPECIFICALLY about her, but about whoever your partner is. But the use of first and second person pronouns has the affect in her head of anchoring those thoughts. Its so easy to get carried away just DESCRIBING things, even past experiences with other people, and because of the way you word it, have her imagining it herself. It has been very effective for me, although I tend to be more forward and open than most people.

Title	[Discussion] Sexting
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Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	July 13, 2017 10:48 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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