I feel that everyone has there own seducing style some people like to take it fast and some like a more slow paced seduction. My thinking of what has done the best for me is what do you pefer what excites you besides sex or getting that "bad b*tch". Its supposed to be fun, for me I hate talking to girls I dont know I hate the idea of going to clubs hitting on a pretty girl I just hate that idea, my favourite is when I get to know them and for what ever reason Im not allowed to sleep with them eg. to old, they have a bf, make me lose a friend. Thats what excites me