Does anyone remember a video explaining why people don't like people who like them too much? With perceived value, and lowering of your perceived value by trying to hard?

Does anyone remember an awesome video explaining why people don't like people who like them too much? Something to do with perceived value, and lowering of your perceived value to that person by trying to hard with them?

The video explained it with circles representing people at a party and their perceived value numbers. I've been trying to find the video to show a friend