Imagine you were born as George Clooney/Sean O'pry, and getting laid is as easy as picking up the phone, would it make you less motivated to be rich/famous/healthy? Should you spend your energy on working on your career/ body instead of working on your way into women's panties? How does becoming better at picking up women improve your life? Be more confident? More eloquent?

Steve Jobs famously said "Stay Hungry, stay foolish", if you can easily get women's affection and sex then you will become no longer hungry to achieve better things in life.