Does looks matter? My thoughts

Billybob27510 · 2021-08-07T05:03:04+00:00

Yes looks matter

Itype2readU · 2021-08-07T06:02:05+00:00

Came here, learned nothing.

I do agree with it all...

Feel free to reply to me about the prize mindset. Develop on that, where it comes from in the thought process/feelings

earsurgery9 · 2021-08-07T09:01:50+00:00

They matter to women as much as they matter to us, basically.

In fact, on female PUA subs, they have the exact convos we do lol ('don't worry girls. Men don't care about looks at all! It's just how you behave. You can get any guy you want if you know what to do. Come on my coaching course' etc)

TigerChirp · 2021-08-07T21:54:00+00:00

Disclaimer: this post may sound very cocky and arrogant, but I’m just laying out the facts for you.

See me in my avatar? That’s me. I’d say I’m conventionally attractive and a 9/10 in looks. I used to model when I was younger and always got girls ever since I was in middle school. I lost my virginity at 14. I only found this sub because my friends all wanted my to teach them what I was doing; and I found the industry very fascinating. (I’m a big fan of applied science and methodologies).

My friends always called me a natural. But guess what? I don’t use any of the techniques taught in game. I just say “Hi I’m (my name)” or “How’s it going?” Then I ask what they do, what they like. Extremely basic stuff. I almost always have the girl suggest or hint we find somewhere quiet.

Looks are 95% of seduction. I’m sorry but this industry is there to MAKE MONEY. Why would they ever admit that looks are nearly all that matter? That would turn away the majority of their customers, and people with my level of looks don’t need these products, hence these industries would cease to exist.

Another example. I had a below average looking friend. He practiced game for over 10 years and was still not able to land any particularly hot girls. Girls I’d never sleep with. 3 years ago, he was thinking of getting work done on his face. I told him not to because this is what basically everyone says to you (you’re great just the way you are!) and there’s a huge social stigma behind getting cosmetic surgery even though the majority of celebrities get it done (see Kylie Jenner).

He ignored me and had some work done on his face, a rhinoplasty, lateral canthoplasty, and a jaw implant. Total cost was probably like $15-20k but he swears this is the best investment he’s put into game and I as dirty as it sounds to admit, I have to 100% agree. More than any boot camp, more than any product, more than a nice car.

The dude gets approached all the time now by very attractive girls. His matches on tinder went from a few a month to over 22 a day. He is taller than me so he gets even more girls than I do now. Before, he got probably 5% of the women I did. I’m not even exaggerating these things.

So yeah, your face is #1 followed your body, followed by your money (as this will allow you to look better). Everything else is WAY WAY WAY less important.

Don’t buy the bullshit snake oil sold in the community. You didn’t get laid because of techniques, they simply gave you the confidence to get the girls that you would have already gotten given your level of looks. Super models don’t date 6/10 looking men. They date someone equally good looking or slightly less so.

I’ll end this post before it gets too long. I hope you don’t ignore and downvote me for this. Good luck man.

RegretsNothing1 · 2021-08-07T20:13:58+00:00

Looks matter. A lot. The best way to explain it is I don't have to cold approach anyone because women actually do it. Or at the very least, make it really easy for me to talk to them. That's huge.

growlikeaplant · 2021-08-07T22:04:41+00:00

To a point yes. But you don't have to be attractive enough to be considered hot, but it helps if you at least have a friendly face.

You can take your attractiveness to the next level with wit, humour, and when it needs the right flavor, have the uncanny ability to whip up the sauce.

If you can talk and talk endlessly and make it sound interesting then people will find you attractive. You just got to keep the rhythm flowing, don't let the beat stop, keep it going and going.

Ohhhwordddd · 2021-08-07T20:33:54+00:00

I do. And I also agree there’s girl that are drawn to a type that isn’t Conventionally attractive.

Andrawsz · 2021-08-07T22:48:24+00:00

yes it matters first time you see someone it’s their looks that attractive the most so take care of yourself trim your beard, make sure your skin is clear ext

Latter-Mortgage-4817 · 2021-08-08T02:19:51+00:00

A lot of guys I see girl with or either ugly or average looking.

andyhura · 2021-08-08T10:06:11+00:00

Looks matter, but it’s not everything. Just like with sex, dick size matters, but it’s not everything.

Edit: changed my wording.

Title	Does looks matter? My thoughts
Author	Course_giver
Upvotes	10
Comments	12
Date	August 6, 2021 11:51 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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