I am a 30 year old guy living in the Netherlands. I am not European(brown skinned Pakistani). I remember five years ago I could get a few responses and even a couple of dates from online dating. I met my last gf through online dating.

Today I would send a 1000 messages and get one or two replies. Had a girl made plans with me and then she flaked. Haven't met another girl since.

I am tired of mindlessly sending messages to girls and today I didn't even want to open any app.