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[–]thetahill 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If she tells you that you're "historical," she's saying you're too old for her.
[–]throwawayboii9905 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ffs
[–]thetahill 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh great, you edited "historical" to "histerical" (sp). Now my original comment has no context.
[–]quinntuplets 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Touch her playfully, see how she responds. Continue teasing and joking around. You want to avoid just being the funny guy though, you could easily fall into the frindzone. Your best shot at moving forward is isolating her. That doesn't mean you have to take her out on a date or anything, you can hang out with her and other frienes and try to get a moment alone with her. At the end of the day, she will either see you as a friend or a potential mate and all you can do is be yourself around her and read her signals.
[–]throwawayboii9905 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel like we've had moments like this but idk. Like 2-3 weeks ago we were alone after school, we went to eat, talked about some deeper stuff and I feel like I missed an opportunity. I'm not known as a guy who dates a lot or fucks around. I'm pretty extroverted, have a lot of friends, but I feel like it would be weird to start chasing around u know?
[–]throwawayboii9905 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Also, escalating with kino is a double edged sword with her i feel. She has a few guys that basically "harass" her and she never reacts well. She just brushes it off and continues doing something. I don't wanna be THAT guy.
[–]quinntuplets 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You have the wrong mindset. You are already catering to what you think SHE wants. Do what YOU want. Don't be the nice guy who pleases her. Be the fun guy that leads her.
[–]throwawayboii9905 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Prob the best reply.
My first comment was a joke, but here is a serious reply.
Keep teasing and ramping up your flirtatious behavior every time you see her. Make sure you're slightly touching her too when you interact. Get her out alone at some point soon (without friends).
Next time it is going well, I would say something like "you seem pretty fun; we need to hang out after school soon." Put the idea in her head and see what happens. Then I would wait until you interact again to invite her out, to something simple like coffee. This way it's gradual.
If that goes well, say something like "we should hang out again," and then get her out soon and make it someplace dark and intimate, like invite her to watch a movie when you're home alone (if possible). Sit close to her and move from there.
[–][deleted] 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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Hahah. Look, I've thought about "do I actually want to know if she likes me" and so on. It's not that deep man. I'm asking about general escalation without being a creep. The thing is, I've had 3 girls this year show interest in me, escalating at parties, etc. I kinda want to see if the "crush" can see me like that. Thanks for the soul crushing though hah
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