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[–]thepuagrinch 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She thinks your a beta and sees you as fulfillment for the side of her that actually deeply craves real dominance.
If you’re content to know your women will never be satisfied w you yes please allow women to court you.
[–]obviousbarnthrowaway 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see, thanks for this i have a better idea.
[–]Nauplielius 7 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
Hate to break it to you but the reason those baby mamas are matching you is because they have low smv...
[–]obviousbarnthrowaway 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Sucks to hear, but i know its the truth. I should raise my value. If i take pics of me having a social life, and not some dude that stays at home. I can have a better selection.
and to be honest, i don't really care about getting chicks, i just want to feel admired, and wanted by them is all. I don't care what it makes me look, but i just want to know that hot chicks can just come to me.
[–]Nauplielius 7 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
No, Tinder is actually a well known bad option. It's a shortcut, and like any shortcut, it doesn't yield the result you want.
Unfortunately, you have to muster up the courage to either approach women through alcohol or get them through friends. There you can apply game and not worry about that 80/20 bullshit.
[–]obviousbarnthrowaway -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
But im not looking to approach, i just want to feel validated by hot chicks on tinder honestly bro. I'm pretty good at talking to chicks, but i just don't want to because b****s ain't shit but hoes and tricks. :)
thanks for the advice though.
[–]Nauplielius 7 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Let me get this straight: you're "pretty good at talking to chicks" and then you say "I'm passive I like thicc milf mommy-doms who can pick me up and I don't like approaching or sending nudes." Do you see why this is contradictory? Why are we having this conversation anyway? If "bitches ain't shit" then why are you talking to a baby mama? Are you desperate? Do you have social anxiety? Do you slay? How the fuck should I know? you're all over the place.
[–]obviousbarnthrowaway 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah man im pretty good at talking to chicks.. when they come to me that is :). chill out man jesus christ don't be so serious. I appreciate the advice, but don't have a go at me lol.
I just don't care anymore tbh, i don't care if girls like me or don't. I just want to know if they want to have sex with me based on a few pics, and thats all i would need to know to feel good. I wouldn't fuck them, i just want that validation.
[–]Nauplielius 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Well, if it's for easy but honest validation, the best options are r/amiugly and figuring out your Tinder likes. The fact that you got one woman interested should be validating enough that it can be done again, with MUCH more success if you take the active role.
[–]obviousbarnthrowaway 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i see what you're saying, thanks man will check that out.
[–]TheXXL 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i just want to feel validated by hot chicks on tinder honestly bro.
You should work on that. You will never be happy if your only self worth is coming from the outside, since it will never be consistent. What happens if someone comes along and tells you that you're worth nothing? You will not be able to deal with it.
Work on yourself and validate yourself! This is the only consistent source of validation you will get.
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